Dr. Charla Hathaway posts
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Charla gives you a flirting lesson
Flirting is like unleashing a fountain of goodwill you have within you, that keeps getting replenished as you give it away. Yes, in a way you flirt for invigorate yourself. Flirting is 'attention' without 'intention.' It is not manipulative or coercive, it is a gift. How it is receiv...
Flirt because you can!
Flirting is like unleashing a fountain of goodwill you have within you, that keeps getting replenished as you give it away. Yes, in a way you flirt for yourself. Flirting is 'attention' without 'intention.' It is not manipulative or coercive, it is a gift. How it is received is not u...
Naked Chef Charla serves you a Love Sandwich
How to make a Love Sandwich: Take a slice of bread, um smell the earthy goodness! For the first layer of bread--VALIDATE your partner, such as, “Oh, it feels so good to be with you on the couch right now.” Next comes the middle layer, or gooey jam (yum!). Here's where you make a REQUEST fo...
Men like it slow
We hear it from women, and I hear it a lot from men. I've coached 10s of hundreds of men into astonishingly intimate 'slowness.' Often we just don't know how to slow down. Think of ways that have worked for you, and expand upon them. Mature loving is like a juicy pie where 'in...
On my way to the bathroom
Woke up thinking about you, my Patreons, and snapped a photo of me on the way to the bathroom. The joy of casual nudity, in the house, in the garden, in the neighborhood on a bike. Let’s imagine a community with sexy shenanigans like the Bonobo pod I visited at the San Diego. If you have time f...
I'm ON today, short notice
Dearest Patreons, Here's a great interview with a somatic male muse--my counterpart!--and so glad that he's available for coaching men and women just like me. Here we are shaking the sexy fruit from the trees--you'll love him, James Humecky.More soon on playing naked (well, Naked at my ...
Illegal in Nicaragua
Can you believe a country makes it illegal to be naked on a beach when the best thing they have is miles and miles of pristine, secluded beaches? I had fun breaking the law for you! I'll be taking off soon for the Orlando Fringe Festival presenting, Naked at my Age. It's the largest fringe ...
A naked yogi invites you to the water's edge!
My Dear Erotic Adventurers,I love doing naked yoga and would love to teach a class with all of you in it, all of us naked together! Why not! I wrote alove poemto a man I just spent a coupe of weeks with here in Mexico, but who I may never see again. After we parted ways, I bravely sent it to him. ...
On a tropical morning, I notice my body
I notice what I want—value it, trust it, communicate it.Desires are our highest intelligence, they steer us towards uncharted Wonder.Choosing what happens on our body is a Spiritual Act--more important than any fancy things we do to each other. Choosing, moment by moment, how we want to touch and ...
Mermaid spotted on the malecon in Mazatlan
My dear Patreons, I woke up this morning in Mazatlan, Mexico, with a Mermaid in my bed! I've been enjoying some great Tinder dates here, speaking half in Spanish and half in English over a coffee. No need to take class. People everywhere love to share the beauty of their hometown. Traveling so...
Clarification on Looking for a good Man post
My friend is looking for a man who will pay the whole tuition for the couple's retreat, Finding the Sweet Spot, which is in Dec $4600, or in Jan $4800. I just wanted to make that clear. Thanks, Charla
I need a good man!
Looking for one good Patreon man to help me out! My friend, an intimacy lovely teacher who offers snuggle labs, wants a partner to take her to my couples workshop, Finding the Sweet Spot, Feb 8-15, on Coco Beach, Nicaragua. You'll both learn a lifetime of skills in authentic relating and touchi...
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I meant to include a link to the intimacy retreatsin the last Patreon.
A song for you
In the Heart of Darkness a hope lives in everyone's heart,that our humble being may in some way help another and be of service to humankind.I presentedNaked at my Age, my show about getting into sex work, on a rooftop patio in San Miguel de Allende, and my new friend, Kate Van Doren of Healing W...
Patreons, join me on a pristine beach at a cozy resort this Feb and let me lead you in relaxing, gentle activities that will bring more pleasure and intimacy to your one wild, wooly, and precious life!
I love teaching these retreats, Being Me Loving Youfor women, andFinding the Sweet Spotfor couples and paired friends. I love seeing the faces of students in class awash in soft pleasure and acceptance, and glowing with inner peace. I love to hear the 'ahaas.' I offer a special price for...
Soft Cock Appreciation Week
Dear Men--and Women who Love Them! My friend Erica Leroye, is on the frontlines of men's sexual health and pleasure and is passionate about educating and supporting people going through and preparing for erectile changes. She is now the new hostess of the 3rd annual FREE Soft Cock Appreciation ...
Playing for you in the Fall light
My sister erotic performers danced, sang, tied ropes and wielded floggers at a Whore’s Night Outat the Vortex Theater in Austin, TX, last week.I presented my solo show, Naked at my Age,about the joys of sex work, and my sexy colleagues joined me with their own acts. Together we celebrated and '...
I interview cocks--and they can be very...humorous
....and wise. Have you interviewed your cock or vulva today. How are they doing? Here Ernie's cock, who calls himself "Oscar," and he has some great advise for Ernie to lighten up and smell the roses!Patreons, I just finished performing at the Vancouver Canada Fringewhere I sold out my ...
I wake up tasting you
I wake up with longings to taste you again...I hope the lingering summer brushes your skin with the softness of rose petals, and fills you with remembrance of joys gone by, and a glimmering nudge of the times to come, dressed in coolness and the color of fall. Much love to you Patreons as I take of...
Here's my dessert poem I was teasing you about
I am pulled into a salty arroyo of life and death, Your hot rod burns into me, Undulating to some primordial rhythm of the dessert, Our bodies held together by breath and sand, we are gripped by life and swallowed up by the waiting Universe.
You are my Dessert Lover
I am pulled into a salty arroyo of life and death, Your hot rod burns into me, Undulating to some primordial rhythm of the dessert, Our bodies held together by breath and sand, we are gripped by life and swallowed up by the waiting Universe.To you, my Patreons, I wish a hot, sweaty summer of underac...
Siren Charla is calling you to frolic on the beach with her.
Dear Patreons~-Your Erotic Muse, is calling you to Coco Beach, Nicaragua (20 miles north of Costa Rico), for an intimateretreat of great food, relaxation, connection & erotic inspiration, February 2025.What if, in a safe place, you were allowed to notice what comes up for you in the moment and could...
When I Fuck You Now
Finally, we can let go of fucking to get something, prove something, or out of expectation. Mature eroticism we can enjoy the surprises and freedom of fucking. We can dive deeper in to the soul, the abyss, the mystery. Dear Patreons enjoy my thoughts on why I fuck now.Sweetly, Charla
Charla on Coco Beach invites you to a Retreat 2025
I’m offering two wonderful experiences on remote Coco Beach in rustic southern Nicaragua (just 20 miles north of Costa Rica) next winter and, YOU, my Patreons, are my first invites. Join me for Intimacy in Paradise and enjoy relaxed, intimate learning interspersed with time in the pool, walking th...
Is this a poem
In the wee dim hours of the early morning, I write down my musing and fantasy, and wonder does it quality to be a poem. I'm not sure, you decide, and enjoy either way! Miss Charla
I want your Sweet Surrender
What happens when a strong man--usually so capable and in charge--just gives it up?! With my Lady Handcuffs of silk ribbons and feathers, I want to tie up your Man Hands , so I may may set your free and have my way--and taste your Sweet Surrender!I went to the Oregon Coast last weekend when 50 shad...
Being ME while Loving YOU
Dear Patreons, I'm on my rooftop terrace in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, after presenting my play, Naked at My Age, to a house full of friends. I've been asked to present next winter at San Miguel's most historic and beloved brothel, Casa de la Noche. What a dream to present my play ...
On a deserted beach in Nicaragua dancing with the waves and wind
My dear Patreons, if I could be naked I would, a conservative country like Nicaragua must be respected. But I feel the salt and the sea through my very being and I send you greetings. I watch the baby turtles hatch and make their way to the mother ocean. Humbling, the braveness and instincts we all ...
Is this a Poem
For those of you who missed my sexy Valentine Poetry zoom, here's a poem for you.
Inviting you to a sexy Valentines Zoom show
Dear Friends,Join us for some Valentine’s yummies. Juicy readings by some of my most juicy friends. You may have your camera on or off! But we entertainers are ON! Invite your friends.Lovingly, Miss CharlaValentines Day. 8pm Pacific. Get your tickets now! Thank you Eleanor for putting this extrava...
