March 2023. Update
🕑 Added 2023-03-15 21:02:40 +0000 UTCHello Everyone,
This is the March update. It's very long, about an hour, but there's not much behind the scenes film as I haven't really been anywhere or done anything. What little I have done Gemma either hasn't been with me as she's been with her dad, or was too worried about her Dad to think of filming me. So, a tad down beat this one I'm afraid.
Bye,
Gary.
Comments
Ste Cork
Wow, so sorry to hear about that lot. Especially Gemma's situation and the House problems - that should be the one place you can retreat from all the other issues in life - and to have all those things wrong with it... ugh.
Jenny
Thanks as always for your honesty and sharing your personal time with us. XXX
Karen George
Gosh!!! A lot going on Hope Gemma has all the love she needs to support her through this difficult time π₯²π₯²ππ I am gutted you are not coming to Manchester England soon The Acoustic sessions will be brilliant Hope to be able to see you then Thank you for sharing your life with us Take care Love you all. Xxπππ
Mimi Deschutter
So sorry about Gemma's dad. I really hope she heals well, bless her. Hugs to all of you, Mimi xxx
Mike Bax
Thanks for the update Gary. Some good things mixed in there with the bad. Take care of yourself and your family x
Darren Walker
Do not worry about it Gary, life throws all kinds of shit at you and we just have to deal with it and move on, easier said than done eh. Do hope Gemma (and you all of course) find some way to move on soon and things get back to some kind of normality soon, grief is a 'b' and know exactly what she/all are going through and it breaks you repeatedly, I had it with my dad who also deteriorated in front of me, and so quickly. Anyway, looking forward to hopefully seeing the Acoustic tour and fingers crossed will make the rehearsals, did one for your last tour 'Intruder' in Brighton and was fantastic. Will be great to see Richie back for a bit too. Best wishes to you all x.
Jason Winn
You dont need to apologise for anything. Everybody deals with grief in their own way and getting it off your chest helps you to process and deal with the bad times I send love to you all and hope Gemma gets her medical issues sorted. As a patron were so lucky to see parts of your personal and working life that most fans dont . So if you have to miss a month or so putting updates on patron its not important. We will still be here.
Warren Farr
No need to apologise. Ever. We're all one big Noid family, get if off your chest. You've given us over 40 years of joy and your music has been there for us when our lives sink into shit. The least we can do is let you unload; we'd do more to help if we could.
Misty
Thank you so much for the update. Sorry that your family is having a hard time right now. I takes a great amount of strength to share such sorrowful things. I hope Gemma will recover from this grief. With all your multitasking, please try to take some time for yourself and Gemma. I have never used social media except Twitter,and stopped using Twitter for about 5 months. After one of your patron messages I had to get on Twitter once again to find your North American shows. Please, Please, Please, let us Americans know when/where you are going to be in the future. We would appreciate that very much. I was late booking my tickets to your Seattle show. I will get to see this show with a different point of view. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with us.
Paula Robinson
Oh Gary, sorry things are so shit at the moment. We care about your and Gemma's lives, and want nothing but the best for you, so we are interested, even in the bad and sad things. My heart goes out to Gemma, having lost my Dad to a similarly abrupt decline only a few months ago. Love and healing to her. Thanks also for the update on everything, and for explaining about the Electric Ballroom gigs (and thanks for the early access to tickets you gave us!). I'm so looking forward to those gigs and especially because Raven's doing support, how fantastic is that. Can't wait for the acoustic shows too. Lots of good things to look forward to. Meanwhile, what's the saying? If you're going through hell, keep going. We will always be here, always care, always be rooting for you and your family. Xx
Nicole Wildeman
Hugs to you and Gemma and your girls. xoxo
Andrew Sparrow
Sorry for your family loss Gary, I hope things turn a corner soon...
Camille Willis
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Sending love and hugs.
Christopher Merritt
Hang in there All of you.Time is the only answer.Apreciate the updates.The Shows should be awesome coming up.Wish you a fantastic tour!
Tanya Hazen
The sadness on your face and in your voice in so evident , I am so sorry for all you and Gemma are going through. The loss of a parent is so hard and grief is always heavy . Grief takes time and the best thing someone told me when my husband passed was that " with grief, loss and pain of missing someone, you can not go around it , or under it , you have to go through it "...thank you for the update in the midst of everything and we do care ...
Arran Walker
I'm curious where the acoustic shows will be. But I sure hope things start looking up for you and yours. It's sure been rough.
Jayne McGarry
So excited for the live stream, fantastic idea and it certainly does go some way to ease the disappointment of not being able to attend. Fingers crossed it happens x
Jayne McGarry
Thanks for taking the time to update us Gary. So sorry that everything is so shit at the moment. As I've said before just take time to grieve and support each other, that's all you can do.
Sally Carling
I just want to give you guys a massive hug
Mark Rushworth
Sincerest best wishes to Gemma and all your family. She's a trooper and will get through this awful period.
Sandra Duck
Oh! so so sorry, you both have certainly had a lot to deal with , I totally sympathise, with everything you have said , been in that position myself and its such a very challenging time when your feeling broken ,believe me you will get back on track, but only when the sadness begins to heal ,thank you for sharing with us your sad things as well as your good ,we are here for you, and send you heartfelt thoughts to you and Gemma xx
Paul Anthony Stead
So sorry for the families loss Gary πͺπΌ
Callum Gray
Thank you for taking the time during this difficult time to talk to us , unfortunately date I say it at our age point this is the cruel part of life where we loose the ones we love and it all seems to happen at the most inopportune times . Lost both mine in a four year spell as well as three other family members , a breast cancer scare for my wife and then the loss of our family home in Hurricane Harvey so I fully understand the emotional mindset . Well Iβm looking forward to getting my fix in Austin Texas that looks to be an incredible show that I think all bands complement each other having seen all three so magic for me , all the best to you and the family
guy rutter
Thanks for the update, please pass on our love to Gemma, we really do care,
J Tickle
Luv ya and ALL u do π€ xx hugs n loves 2 u all xx β€οΈβπ©Ή