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Get outyour posteror pen and paper. Time to fill in those Want/Will/Won’t lists!You want a better sex life?One of the most helpful exercises I do with students and clients is a Want/Will/Won’t list, a way to understand what “better” looks like and what doesn’t fit into that goal. I’ve ma...

I was feeling nostalgic when I made this.

How do you know when your crush likes you: growing up in the 80s & 90s version.

February's Calendar a day late.

This is a lot more work than I thought it would be but I love doing it because I get to learn about all the cool sex conferences happening around the world as well as the random inventions and things from history that do impact our sexualities today. Thank you all for giving me the opportunity to pu...

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Sex tip: joff-tchoff-tchoff-tchoffo-tchoffo-tchoff

This week I hosted a Livestream. Maybe you stopped by to check it out. We couldn’t get the sound to work despite turning everything off and on again, ending one stream for another, checking system preferences, speakers etc. At first I thought it was a bummer. Then, bored with the sound of my own v...

LIVESTREAM THE PINK HAIR EDITION

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The Ultimate Blowjob - Part 2

Here's the second part of a blowjob series. I organized the episode so it focuses on the top 14 concerns people have about performing fellatio. My intent was, and is, to remove the barriers that get in the way of people even trying. Trying, practicing is really where skill comes from, right!?One...

Sex Tip

You know what bugs me? Every time I’m having sex I start thinking about sex tips I can give you for supporting Sexplanations on Patreon. I start thinking about Patreon during sex! But that’s not the part that bugs me. What bugs me is that when I’m not having sex I can’t remember what was so ...

The Ultimate Blowjob - Part 1

January Calendar of all things Sexplanations

This is the first calendar month of 2016. If you have any suggestions on how it can be improved or what needs to be added in future months please let me know. Thanks!

New Ballot for January 2016!

http://www.poll-maker.com/poll530663xd44c4d24-22 To start off the new year I listed some topics that have been tumbling around in my head and thought you could help choose what gets prioritized. There's also a place to add your own responses and I hope that you all give some suggestions so that ...

Thank you!

This is our third end of the year chat on Sexplanations. I'm so thankful for both of these guys and for all of you! The experience has been amazing!

You voted for it!

If you're into this video you can thank yourself! $8+ patrons get a ballot each month to vote on the content they want to see prioritized. This month they voted for three topics that I hope to accomplish before 2016. Sex Toys was one, Unrequited Love the second, and the third I'll surprise y...

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Let's Get Physical

Dear Care Package Recipients of 2015,I'm experiencing a quandary. I have yet to send you anything for November and now December. I have all these ideas of course like VHS tapes of recorded lectures from my doctoral program, blow-job kits, props from the show, handwritten letters... but I'm n...

Happy 33rd Birthday Sex Tips

These are written for partnered sex but you can do them solo too. I wrote them as short to-dos so you'd be able to check them off easily. They're also made to work for any sex/gender/budget/location/relationship dynamic. And remember for everything I suggest there is a difference between mak...

What is the biggest sex toy? Most unorthodox?

New Sexplanations!

There are so many words we use that have sexual meanings and negative connotations. Do you know the etymology of all the ones we list? Are you curious?

Have your say: What would you like us to cover before 2016?

http://www.poll-maker.com/poll489176xfd52E3b2-20 Please let me know what thoughts you have for the rest of this year's videos. You can vote for more than one topic! Thanks!

What do you think of Sexplanations'....

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/sexplanations This is the last chance you have to respond to our Sexplanations survey before we analyze the results. Nick and Matt and I are going to hang out together tomorrow morning and read through all your thoughts about us and the show. I’m sooooo excited!!!! A...

Can people with DIFFERENT sex drives have happy healthy sex lives?

Thanks for your patience with this one. I tried to do something different. It wasn't what I had hoped but I'm still proud of myself for trying. Please leave lots of nice comments for Matt for all his extra work to annotate this all. What a guy!

Google Hangouts

https://hangouts.google.com/?action=call&id=ftun32rcnpp7lezh55ycfndvjma

Matt and I are meeting tomorrow morning to do a re-work on what would have been today's episode. After that meeting I'd like to do a live stream. If all goes well that will be around 11 Mountain Time.

Explanation

I saved reading the comments on yesterdays video to do a live stream and read them with YOU! Unfortunately I had to take my morning and handle some odd life challenges. I'm still in the midst of them and wish with all my heart that instead I was live streaming with YOU. Please forgive me. I'...

New Video! You get it first!

Tomorrow morning I'll be online to read the comments as a group and hear your thoughts about this episode.

Live Chat

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Not just storks and cabbage patches

The failure of our system to inform people has led to some dangerous ideas about conception and contraception.

We really all ought to know.

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A doeeyes.

We’ll have a new Sexplanations tomorrow. It is a dense episode that needs more time. Meanwhile here’s a doeeyes episode for you related to sexuality. Sure, I talk about my braces and my travels but I also talk about what it’s like realizing that my field of sexology is plagued like many others...

Gender Wisdom

I was able to sit on the red couch with transgender activist, author, and educator Jamison "James" Green. In you've missed Sexplanations' weekly episodes, I'll return to posting them on Patreon regularly. Thank you for supporting us!!! We're almost to 200,000 subscribers and ...