Liam Deckard
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Patreon Exclusive - [Ramble] What is Healthy Masculinity? (SFW)
🕑 Added 2025-05-19 17:29:57 +0000 UTCHey lovelies. I had some thoughts as I was driving that I wanted to share. How do I view healthy masculinity? How can you tap more into your feminine energy? How does all of this play into the audio that I create?
My theory? Women are being asked to tap into their masculine energy SO MUCH that it hinders their ability to embrace the feminine.
DISCLAIMER: In case it wasn't clear in the audio, masculine energy is not only reserved for Cis men. We all need to balance and embody both energies no matter our gender. There is a time and a place for both š
Comments
La Chansaš
I really relate to you regarding not looking at the world through these gendered perspectives. That said, I appreciate masc and femme energy when it comes to what I find sexy and how I like being as a default vs adapting to the other party depending on where they are. My preference regardless of the other's gender, is to feel like I'm receiving but serving a more dominant and rugged type person. Probably because I like feeling taken care of and not having to "take charge" all the time.
Len
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and insights into what you consider when creating you audios, Liam! I donāt really subscribe to looking at the world through the masculine vs. feminine perspective because it lends to stereotyping men and women into specific roles when, really, I think everyone can be multiple different traits at different times. What we tend to group under āmasculineā or āfeminineā is defined by society, but are really traits anyone can have. I donāt know that masculinity is taking note of your partnerās needs and using that to show them love and care - I think thatās just the proper way to really love someone as a good partner, whether you consider yourself a man or woman or you love a man or woman. I donāt think women need space to be more feminine; rather, I think people need partners who support each other to have space to achieve goals and dreams (shared or separate). Sorry for the long response, but wanted to share it with you!
Andi_Cerise
This topic came at the perfect time. Iāve been reflecting on my current situation, thinking about what went wrong and how I can improve moving forward. Thank you for sharing your insight.. It really resonated with me. And pls keep doing more of these kinds of rambles. The mix of fantasy and real-life topics helps me not just dwell on things but also find ways to move forward. š«°šāŗļø
