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These Dilemmas Are Different! | Episode 69 | Log Cabin

🕑 Added 2025-05-03 14:00:13 +0000 UTC

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Rita

Dilemma 1: Been with someone like this. In his case it was medication, specifically in his case, anti-depressants. So it's not necessarily always due to porn addiction. For mechanic tips: 1. Look up the prices of parts yourself when your mechanic tells you what your car needs to get an idea as to what would be a fair price for the labor. 2. Have a scanner on hand to read the OBD2 sensors in your car. 3. Look up common problems with your particular year/make/model and what the symptoms are of those common problems. 4. If a mechanic diagnoses something something wrong that you didn't bring it in for, get a second opinion or research yourself. I've gone to automotive technician courses. I like figuring stuff like this out on my own and even doing some of the repairs myself. But I think everyone should know a lil bit of something when it comes to automotive stuff to not get swindled out of your hard earned money. Mechanics are notorious for taking advantage of people. Lol typed this all out and I dont think one person will read it. 🤪

Juliett

I want a poster of the facial expressions at 17:40-17:44. The layout, the timing, the delayed reaction. Dead. 🤣🤣🤣

Juliett

Said so poetically, I love it.

Favel G. Cooper

The cum n phone thing could be to see his porn history. Cus she wants to know what he’s into

Christina Janellé

Retro 13’s for me😌

Brianna Myrie

New business segment?

K-Camp

Idk if the two are THAT related. It’s one thing if he couldn’t get hard but it sounds like he just can’t come. Could be a skill issue.

Khari Lovett

Did bro say no one likes Jordan 11s? Must be a UK thing lmao

Antonio savage

Excuse me, 11s are one of the best Jordan’s

Candice Ramiya

I love how Rem tries to muffle his laugh and hold It in and Justin just be over there tickled 😂🤣🤣

Pelle Cole

First dilemma, the guy masturbates too much. Porn addiction is a possibility, especially after saying how he talks a good game about cumming all over her etc. That's probably because of what he sees in porn. Get him to take a week off masturbating and no sex, it should happen or at least be closer to happening after that. If not, he either didn't take a break or he should talk to someone. I get the point of him letting her know what the deal was before they got together but if she's doing everything possible and it's still not happening, then she doesn't have the right to force him to change but she does have the right to address how she's feeling. She may have thought she'd be okay with it at the time but feelings change and she is allowed to address it. If he doesn't want to address that issue then it's better she speaks up now than later so they can both find the right person for them.

Melissa Knight

I love hearing a different dilemma content. Love hearing/seeing my boys give advice on more than just good D, sloppy top, and positions...of course, I also like hearing that too. :-)

Taylour Grant

What you do for work? Lol I have titles behind my name 😅

Ashley

New Daddy Business permanent segment??

Ashley

Man #1 - the fact he's not willing to seek help for this is an easy reason to leave. It's clearly an issue for her and no matter what if one side is not willing to fix an issue in a relationship or even come to a compromise is grounds for leaving. And in other news... that mans watching too much porn or... he needs to test out the other side 👀 lmao

Scarlitto

That’s what I said no 11 slander will b tolerated arguably the best ones but maybe it’s a uk thing 🤷🏻‍♀️

elaina fitzsimmons

the business advice is great, there’s a reason more restaurants aren’t like cheesecake factory and instead pick a type of food and stick to it

Honey_childe

No Jordan 11 shade. 1s and 11s are my favs!

Shakiyla

That’s what I got from it. She wants to see what kind of proms he’s watching.

Michelle

Came to say this lol. I immeeeediately said “oh he’s on the other team for sure”

legacypillar

education is definitely a scam. my job starts at 80k/year and i did not go to college😭. what debt?!

Cleo Panda

For me, as a woman, the cum is my reward. Orgasms are my dinner but to never have dessert would drive me crazy!

Sheen

School actually is a scam! Look into it and you'll be shocked. It was created to train kids how to be obedient workers, getting them use to sitting in a factory/office etc from morning until evening following rules. It was never about teaching but training kids to be sheep. And giving parents more time to work! The rich use to educate their children at home in such things like philosophy and Grammer etc then send them travelling. The mass facilities were created for the poor.

Marques Kincaid

Dilemma 1 - mans NEEDS to stop watching porn if he is not getting satisfaction from REAL sex. Porn is the thief of intimacy!

Caprice Burnside

Dilemma #1 - I think she brought up going through his phone because if he is addicted to porn, death grip syndrome is real. Not saying that her man is addicted or that is right to go through his phone, but I do understand the worry. If it is death grip syndrome, a couple weeks of her man obtaining from masturbating should fix the problem.

Shakiyla

Dilemma #1-Mans not living in his truth. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sarah Moon

Dilemma #1: Maybe try fucking and sucking, getting what you need out of it, and then you lay back and talk nasty shit and tell him to finish himself off, onto you.

Austin Dosela

Hey there shxtsandgigs crew as mechanic for 10 years before you accept the bill or repair to bro done on the vehicle. Ask them what is the problem and the parts needed for it. Majority of the time the price of the repairs will be done based off of that and they will up charge you for that. You can pay only for diagnostic work only not the repair itself. Some places can give you a print of the fault codes and you can make your judgements from there. One other thing calling asking for maintenance rates is another way to determine the bill and asking if the mechanics get payed hourly or by the job/flat rate. This will determine the turnaround time for the repair and you getting your vehicle back. Hourly will take longer. Love the show keep up the good work to the whole shxtsandgigs team.

Emylee Yambao

Many of my mechanic friends that work for dealerships were told to SLOW DOWN because they were completing their tasks too quickly. One time my friend finished an oil change within an hour but they didn't give the car back to the client for 3 hours and told her there was 3 hours of labor... They will fuck you for sure.

Emylee Yambao

I'm HAPPY to snitch on the car community 😁 raised to do my own car maintenance. As a FEMALE I'll be damned if the dealerships or mechanics fucks me over.

Raphayel

THANK YOU!!! to the 2ND/3RD DILEMMAS!!!

Sydnie Rae

Wait lmfaoo when Fuhad & Rem looked sideways about the handymen comment, Justin didn’t hear what James said the first time and wasn’t looking up but when James paused Justin looked up right as he repeated, “what, my mom likes handymen?” And his reaction is absolutely hilarious 😭😭

Sydnie Rae

And woman! Just takes more time and passion for me

Kevin

Liking the small detail of the moving trees in the windows. Imagine a part where theyre laughing hard, you see a squatch walk by outside, stop, walk up to the window, look in, laugh with the guys, then just walk off. 🤣🤣🤣

high def

We got a smart one in ere 🤣🤣

JNN

This episode was very refreshing…now back to the debauchery lol

Rob

The amount of maturity coming from James in the first scenario is actually refreshing

Adam Sardo

As a guy I don’t understand why he wouldn’t at least see a GP or something to suss out the reason?

G

Ermmm where’s today’s early access ep

Lianne Johns

Can you both diliarate on how you feel about 100 men vs a gorilla on one of your videos I'm interested to know 🤣🤣

Yan

It's not just a you thing.. my blind ass cnt read that fast either 💀

Catherine

Dilemma... he may be autosexual... someone who enjoys or is sexually aroused with themselves. There are levels to it . But he may be and just not know that's a thing

Ericka Elmore

Good episode! I like that there were different kinds of dilemmas. Refreshing. BTW you're right the studio is just cute but I could legit sit on the couch with y'all and listen to and laugh at all the shit y'all (I know Fuhad hates the word y'all 🤣) talk about all day. That's why I love thile whole group

Dawn

💯💯💯. I love hearing people talk about their passions. It doesn’t matter if it’s something I don’t personally care about. If you’re hyped about it, I want to hear more!

Dawn

Fuhad and Rem are better people than I because I would have screamed in the studio 🤣☠️. “My mum likes handymen.” I thought mum just took a stray for no reason!

K-Camp

If dude told her from jump then shorty is just being greedy. The man doesn’t have an issue getting hard and he doesn’t have an issue having sex he just can’t cum and he’s not tripping about it. Two of the biggest problems women constantly complain about lol. This happens the other way around all the time she’ll be alright, just meet him where he’s at or dip.

Ericka Elmore

'Mum's are in play now' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 IT'S YOUR OWN FAULT JAMES!

Ericka Elmore

And y'all are CAMPUS for saying pause to EVERYTHING??? C'mon Son!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ericka Elmore

Aye yo! Literally NOBODY told James to say his mom's likes handymen🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was crying instantly. He knew better

Ericka Elmore

I know it's a 'me thing' but I cannot read that fast when you put up quick explanations and sidenotes on the screen🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

Tai

I love their innocence. 🤭💗

Luis King

When James said the shit about the handyman I reacted the same way Fuhad did 😂😂

Lauren Vidal

James is worried about people being bored from him talking about content creating and business chat for hours, but I’m a firm believer that interested is interesting. The more interested you are in a topic you’re discussing the more interesting it’ll be.

Jessica McClay

“Cover letter” should be a question of the week. If you could say anything you want on your cover letter what would it say?… or something like that. They can be as honest as they want 🤣

Mar ✨

I like that James is really passionate about things he enjoys

Mar ✨

I enjoyed this episode, though the cewchie time questions are funny it is nice to hear more diverse questions 😭

Mar ✨

Lmao lowkey they all need one here

Bossy

I have to disagree with doing too much with the custom. If you go on websites such as custom ink and vista print, they provide the same thing these people who are starting provide just on a larger scale. I will say though, if they promote themselves well they can do it. I’m not sure if it’s just an American thing (forgive me if I’m wrong) but i know multiple people who do pretty much everything BUT their niche is based on purpose. People do like a one stop shop so they don’t have to go through the hassle of finding various people. For example, if a decorator can also do party favors and customized signs, a client may go for that person as against going through different vendors. It’s really how you market and brand yourself. Remember, marketing is what you put out and branding is how you bring people in. To me what I’m hearing is lack of motivation because it’s not picking up as expected. And your lack of motivation is starting to make you lazy hence not putting things on social media. Find your target audience (business startups, everyday people, parties, etc.) and stick to that audience then grow from there.

Mar ✨

First one, shaming him and being frustrated is only gonna make it worse lmao just ask him to open up about it and have a convo

Victor ogunyemi

Ayo indeed 👀😂

Alvina Melton

I feel like the first guy has Death Grip Syndrome because he mentioned he can cum from masturbation.

Aliyah Simone

fuhad is looking REALLLLL snackish

Maria

First dilemma is unfortunately what happens when you ignore that you and your partner don't match up kink wise. If you have a 💦 kink then yeah, being with a guy that doesn't 💦 is going to become a issue. Also, never heard of a CS? Oh sweet summer child

Brenda Click

I like this log cabin a lot very different from the normal

Fawad

That bizz-ness talk was THE BEST👏

gail

It’s common for ADD/ADHD meds to prevent a man from coming. They can still orgasm without cum. Not saying that’s his situation bc who knows, but it’s complicated and she needs to approach this with less ego. They need to chat about what turns him on, shame, normalizing kinks, etc.

Naz

The 👀 regarding the handyman! 😆. This man was talking about his momma! Show some respect!! 😆

Enjoli Pettice (Lee)

Yooooooooooooo, JUSTIIIIIINNNNNN!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Naaah bruh, not the cat face!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

noemie’s roses

I really liked this episode, it was nice watching the guys get completely lost in different topics!

Enjoli Pettice (Lee)

Naaah, Naaah… I’m with Justin and honestly I think a lot of the US agrees…. 11’s are it compared to 4’s. 1’s and 11’s

Stephanie Powell

Anything. I didn't say anything. 'I didn't say nothing' is a double negative....I HATE being that woman but....

Kagi

Maybe it’s a millennial problem, but I’d be too scared to lie on a CV 😂 - I’d forget what I said. But I think that’s a great hack. There’s v little you can’t teach yourself online.

Stephanie Powell

Can't Fuhad and James hook their friend up with a haircut?...

AMM

I think James could create a space where he talks to these people just because he’s interested in what they have to say. He has a separate YT page where he could do it. I think some people would be interested. It shows that you have multiple sides and interest.

Stephanie Powell

That first dilemma? He's basically sterile....like he literally cannot make babies 🤨. He needs to get checked out asap

Nayma

When you and Fuhad having kids daddy or do yall already have some 👀 you 34 don't want to have them too old you gon be a granddaddy 😅

Lona

Education is important, kids

Kelly

Don't know about the UK but here in SC they taught us bare information on finance. As a grown ass woman with a great income I STILL struggle. #genxcallingtotheyungins4help

Kelly

I love your regular content but really appreciate both of your financial advice. REM please have them to do credit score raising talk,!!!!!!

v fernandes

Wow i really appreciated this one … these dilemmas are on point I was getting tired of those 🍆 🍑 dilemmas … they fun but I little change would hurt as well… really appreciated these submissions & honestly I think it was one of the best

G..

Just saying he’s shameless is the hottest thing ever!

IsleChile

The first scenario is not a deal breaker. Been there. He could do it, and did at times, but enjoyed the control. Benefitted me in sessions becasue he could go for rounds. ROUNDS I tell you. Sometimes I miss him, but I'm glad he's gone. LoL. The way James is SWEATING reading that has me hollering! Surprised they've never heard the cs bar. So cute and innocent.

Kristie Lueza

THE CAT

Amber Johnson

Not the cherry blossoms moving in the wind! Now all we need is a stormy day with a bit of thunder in the background.

M. A.

cum slut is common speak in LS/fet communities. sometimes I forget how proper you all are.

Sinbad_Deity

"Education is the biggest scam in the world", PREACH!! 😭

“Soul”COL

First story is a mental thing. A lot of women go through this, it's normalised though... I guess man can also have this Mental Cum Blockades

Detrossa

He is definitely feeling shame so he needs to open up to what him doing it alone he enjoys genuinely... and she needs to think if him cumming is actually a deal breaker or her ego is bruised. Because if it is that is fair she should get what she wants and he should get what he wants ... but if it is ego put it aside and work together

Amy

James, i would love to hear you talk all about content

XxXBeeXxX

I think she's putting it down too basic, she's wanting the end result because it turns her on but I would bet money that she's also thinking, if this is the one, she's also thinking about having kids down the line, and all the routes to get to that, the medications she'll have to use to get that....so she's thinking if he'd just explore why he can't, then that's the simplest answer, hence the ultimatum xXx

Dee Dolly

James pleaaaaase, I need the t shirt 😭

Sinbad_Deity

The first girl just has a bruised ego 😂

ChrisJW

I will say that my man not Cummings would mentally vex me.

Stephanie Hazelwood

Ooo, love the cherry blossom windows 😍

Alicia Barrie

My man can't come either - or at least it takes forever. He has EDS so he has nerve damage. You guys need to have a realistic conversation - don't be mean to him about it. It's not his fault.