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List of Limits (for recent Youtube CNC Video)
🕑 Added 2020-06-10 03:11:38 +0000 UTCHard and Soft Its All About Limits -
The number one issue with people new to the lifestyle is grasping limits and feeling perfectly fine using the safe word.
Far too many new submissives to the lifestyle leave after their first experience because they don't understand to say no and get themselves in over their heads!
Limits should always be discussed before you do any play with anyone. Don't be embarrassed to bring up anything, this is no time to be shy. If you are not sure focus on what you are sure about and take things one step at a time.
It's perfectly cool to say RED anytime! Even if its something you said you're ok with before!
Do not agree to be gagged until you know the person very well and have a deep understanding of each others limits!
Pushing limits, this does not mean you have agreed to have your hard limits broke now and then this simply means pushing the limits of pain you can tolerate, and NOT by 200% by maybe 5 or 10% and this still requires consent. Consent is ongoing so just because you said yes before doesn’t mean you cant stop it later.
Some typical thoughts:
“He is an experienced Dom and other subs probably can stand this so I better stay quiet” WRONG
“My sub said no to me using a cucumber on her but I'll just use a zucchini thats not breaking her limits” WRONG THIS ISNT A TIME FOR TECHNICALITIES
“We haven’t discussed limits yet, but he knows what he is doing” DOUBLE WRONG
"I have no limits" WRONG, WRONG, WRONG... Read below
CNC Play is when you play without a Safeword so before you participate discuss all possible outcomes and respect the negotiation process!
Here is a sample list of limits:
Age play
Anal sex
Anal plugs
Animal roles
Arm binders
Bathroom permission
Bestiality
Blindfolds
Blowjobs / Oral
Biting
Breast bondage
Breath control
Branding
Boot worship
Bondage (and talk about how far you are willing)
Cages
Caning
Chains
Chastity belts
Choking
Clothespins
Cock worship
Collars Private Worn
Collars Worn in public
Corset training
Cuffs
Cutting
Diapers
Dildos and vibrators
Double penetration
Domestic Duties
Electricity
Enemas
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy rape
Fantasy gang-rape
Fisting (either hole or both)
Floggings
Feet worship
Gags
Golden showers/watersports
Gun play
Hair pulling
Hand jobs
Harness
Hoods
Housework
Humiliation in private
Humiliation in public
Ice and frozen things like chains in the freezer
Kneeling
Knife play
Kidnapping Play
Massages either giving or receiving
Nipple clamps
Oral/anal play
Orgasm denial
Orgasm forced
Piercings
Prostitution cukhold
Riding crops
Rituals and tasks
Rope
Saran wrap
Scat Play
Sensory deprivation like blindfolds
Serving
Serving as furniture
Shaving and waxing body hair
Spanking
Speech restrictions
Speculums (medical) Anal
Speculums (medical) vagina
Spreader bars
Standing in corner
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos
Suspension
Swallowing
Swallowing urine
Swinging (multiple couples)
Tattooing, Scarification, Branding
Teasing
Tickling
Uniforms
Vagina dildo
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Video recording and photos
Water boarding torture
Wax play and hot oils
Wearing or not wearing jewellery
Whipping
Wooden paddles
There are so many you can come up with but maybe it will get your creativity sparking!
