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🕑 Added 2020-09-14 15:10:01 +0000 UTC

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fatal_drum

I disagree. First, this was a fluff episode, not a normal horror episode. People might expect jokes about eldritch horror and eyeballs, but not necessarily workplace bullying. You might not see the ep that way, but a lot of people did, because it featured pretty one-sided mockery of a character as opposed to mutual "ribbing." Second, RQ is normally pretty vigilant about trigger warning things. If they were the type of company that never trigger-warned ever, I wouldn't expect them to warn for something like workplace bullying. However, RQ *does* use trigger warnings, whether you agree with that practice or not. If warnings spoil the experience for you, don't read them. I personally don't read them, but I appreciate that they're there for people who need them. Personally I find it extremely reasonable to ask someone to tag the kind of content they've already been tagging. RQ has already made it their policy to warn listeners so they can make the podcast more accessible to people with triggers. ETA: I have nothing against the writer of the fluff episode, I just think that what they intended to be funny teasing came off as bullying to a lot of people, including me. I think warning for bullying was an appropriate step. Not everyone's going to experience a piece in the same way.

Bethany King

Telling people they need to “work out with their therapist” correctly identifying workplace bullying is horrific and enables this kind of behavior to be normalized. A boss purposefully orchestrating humiliating a subordinate, and others being in on the joke, isn’t “friendly ribbing of a coworker”—especially when it’s behind their back and causing them distress! If you can’t tell the difference between that and friendly teasing between friends, that’s between you and human resources at your workplace, but keep your belittling and pathologizing people who didn’t take such a situation as “fluffy” to yourself.

Fushi

This is the first time in the entire run of this podcast that I have asked RQ to add a warning or indeed made any request about the content they've released, but thanks for belittling my experience and making a heap of assumptions about people like me and our ability to appreciate the podcast just because you don't share the same feelings. What a positive and compassionate contribution you've made here today. If you don't like content warnings, no one is forcing you to read them. But if you truly recommend that people engage from a "constructive place," maybe don't spit in their faces when they ask for the tools to do so.

ieatahottchip

Thank you for using the Monday letter comment section to tell other people they're wrong for having a different reaction than you.

Sinclair Cross

I'm excitedly looking forward to this week and all the weeks that shall follow! 🥰

P5A100

So many things to look forward too! This week and further in the future!

Jack Abele

Thanks for everything you all do! I love checking every Monday to see the new episode title for TMA, having time to speculate is always fun. I was honestly shocked at the response to the fluff episode this week. I grew up reading almost exclusively Stephen King, short horror stories, playing games like BioShock and Bloodborne and creating my own works of fiction tackling heavy and dark themes. Engaging with horror is always something you do at your own risk, and it’s important to do it from a constructive place. There have been times where I had to put a book down, pause a game, and take a walk— Because the writing was good, because it hit hard. I still remember the day I listened to 119 (or 118, I get them mixed up sometimes) where I found out Martin and I had almost the exact same trauma, including the exact ages mentioned in the show. I sat in my bathtub and cried, and then talked to my therapist about my own mother for the first time. It was such a healing, vulnerable experience for me and what hooked me on the podcast. Certain trigger warnings I can understand, but it’s a shame that people forget this is a horror podcast with very graphic, traumatic sequences that really aren’t ever a surprise when you know about the characters you have spent years fleshing out. Triggers that spoil the entire episode... I feel like a lot of people who came late in the game are so focused on the representation of LGBT characters that they see it as horror and tragedy second. It worries me, because we’ve been warned how it ends and I hope you don’t get backlash for ending it your way. It’s a beautiful, inspiring work of art. I’ve always liked when fandoms would self-regulate and create their own warnings, and just let the creators work... I loved the fluff episode. If you know anything about the personalities of those characters, everything isn’t a surprise. It wasn’t even mean, or bullying. People need to work out their anxieties with therapists, if something like that is genuinely triggering you, step away. Anyone who’s worked any office job knows exactly what it’s like to rib a coworker, AND be ribbed right back. I was an archivist for four years, and I was rightfully roasted for dancing badly in the stacks when I thought I was alone. It’s life! It sounds hard, but seriously, people need to heal before they expose themselves to media that could harm them. Beyond basic warnings for graphic content, it’s up to listeners to work on whatever they need to work on.

Fushi

Thanks for taking the time to consider listener concerns! <3 And no pressure but any time you mention the Patreon bonus series I am levitating with excitement :D

ThirdFromTheLeft

"Accomplice." Well I'm sure that won't be incredibly powerful and gut wrenching and explore moral issues at all.... This episode is going to be brutal and I can't wait. Also I am SO HYPED for the mini series and that is so lovely that we are going to get it all at once. The one sad thing about being caught up is that I don't get to binge your content anymore.


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