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RQG METACAST 9 - Relationships

🕑 Added 2021-07-06 15:00:06 +0000 UTC

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Aine Morgan

Just wow - I'm really not a "squishy meat feelings" person *at all* but I've just listened to this and really really enjoyed it, and would love for people to do a 1to1 on the key relationships! <3

Hannah The Knife Wife

PLZ I WOULD ABSOLUTELY LOVE A METACAST WITH ONE ON ONE RELATIONSHIPS DEEP DIVES SHEESH I WOULD THRIVE

ontologicallyunjust

Hey -- I was just re-listening to the metacast on magic, and was reminded that we were promised a metacast on divine magic at some point. So what about that, whenever you've got a gap and need some Content(tm)? It would be really interesting now we've had multiple divine casters on the show, all with very different relationships to their faiths (and different mechanics).

ontologicallyunjust

Just wanted to say how much I admired and appreciated everyone being so open about how their own experiences related to playing the characters and relationships, especially when they’re things that aren’t always easy to talk about -- e.g. Ben and his "black dog days", Alex and dating inexperience, Lydia talking about being in the "grey spaces" regarding gender. Obviously there’s no obligation for them to share very personal aspects of themselves for the benefit of the fandom; I’m really glad they felt comfortable enough to do so.

spiderbeetlebee

this was wonderful <3

Miria

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR THISp

Matea Todorovski

This Metacast was exactly something I was hoping for but also didn’t expect to happen, so I’m pleasantly surprised after hearing this. It was so nice also hear about people’s personal gender-identity and sexuality journeys through the TTRPG . Also, I bawled my eyes out at the prospective Grizzop/Vesseek Storyline that never happened and I’m so happy I finally got an answer for that so 😭 Also, it shed a lot of light on the Zolf/Oscar relationship that I hadn’t been very aware of but makes it almost sweeter now!

Marie

This was everything I wanted it to be and more. It was so interesting to hear how they approach the different relationships within the group. I especially loved hearing Lyd and Ben finally discuss the Sasha/Zolf relationship, because I've always seen it in a very similar way - Zolf was grounded and reliable in a way that Sasha needed, and Zolf needed someone who trusted him enough to follow him. I've loved having Zolf back since they arrived in Japan, but I've always been so sad that Zolf and Sasha never got to be reunited. I'm happy to at least have had this deeper look into their relationship, though.

Mercy Morris

This is brilliant! Laughing, crying, thinking. Made me re-evaluate my own views of my relationships (at 55!). Thank you, very moving and life-changing listening.

GardenSunCat

Cannot wait to hear about Sasha’s back story but so sad that it’s gona mean the ending of the game!! But still so excited!!

Perry

Oh this was incredible. I loved hearing the inspiration behind different aspects of characters that i relate to, i thought that was rlly interesting. I’ve been thinking all week abt what it would be like now if Sasha was still around, so listening to Ben and Lydia talk abt Zolf and Sasha’s relationship definitely hit. Also, i rlly appreciate how honest and authentic Lydia and Helen are abt their queerness and how everyone has obviously put a lot of care and thought into the quality of representation they’re giving with their characters. As a queer listener it’s rlly meaningful and validating to hear. This was a great metacast and i can’t wait to hear what’s to come!!

E C Marlowe

That was amazing, thank you! It was interesting to hear Ben and Alex describe the Zolf/ Oscar relationship as a romance, because the last official word on the subject was "Actually not a romance, just deep platonic friendship." Which, while I absolutely respect the players' right to make those decisions, was a bit disappointing to me personally. So I'm glad it's been rethought and there's romance again! Anyway, thanks again to everyone for being so thoughtful and willing to share sometimes very personal experiences and emotions.

Cora

Thanks everyone for being so open and honest on personal stuff in this context.

CrankyCorvid

Lyd and Helen legimately brought me to tears. As someone who's currently in the process of examining and sorting through my gender and sexuality, and all the intense emotions that come with that, hearing them speak about their own experiences and feelings means so much. So much. Thank you.

Grif Stian

I‘m sure “canon-typical trauma” is a tag that’s been used before but I just want to take a moment to appreciate “canon-typical trauma” is a tag

HoloXam

Thank you so much for this metacast, it was absolutely incredible <3

tashin42

Hi hello this was great but also I might never be fine again

Anthony

wow.. this was PHENOMENAL, thank you all so much for being candid and willing to share your own personal stories too, that means a lot to me as a queer person who became a diehard fan of this company because of how authentic your queer characters felt to me on first listen. much love!

Kath

I would LOVE an ep where Lydia and Ben talk more about Grizzop and Sasha 🥺

sAZAndorable

As always this was SO MUCH FUN and so interesting and nuanced and pores-watering <3 <3

Erienne McCray

I'M EVEN MORE SAD NOW THAT GRIZZOP IS DEAD. AAAAAAAUGH.

GugTheGoose

Thank you so much for doing this. It was informative, uplifting, validating, and thoughtful. I loved the little sprinklings of lore too, and it was just so lovely the way you were supporting and uplifting each other as people too! And thank you for the care you took to make sure fans still feel confident in any headcanons, art and fics they have- whatever they are- while also going quite deeply into the way you think about your characters!

Hila Ofek

Thank you so much for this it was everything I ever wanted. Also, please do the deep dives into all the characters relationship I would LOVE that!!!

Alti

Totally not crying over Sasha and Grizzop again why would you think that lol. I totally understand Helen worrying about being good rep!! I'm glad they're more confident, and I'm also glad this was a good space for Lydia to explore gender. Now don't mind me I'm just gonna go cry over the possibility of softer happier post timeskip Zolf

Jack Bird

I think more people should talk about gender exploration and ttrpgs like Lydia's discussion about Cel. D&d helped me with my gender journey in a really interesting way.

Naomi Doddington

Welp Lydia and Ben's conversation about Sasha and Zolf broke my heart a little 😭. I wish we could have seen more of them and Zolf softening up more

Kath

This was so amazing, I was definitely crying about the Zolf and Sasha conversation. And with the mention of potential deep dives, I would absolutely *love* a discussion of Sasha and Grizzop's relationship.