Caitlin V
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Just because she’s turned on… doesn’t mean she’s ready for sex.
🕑 Added 2025-09-01 14:51:38 +0000 UTCA turn-on can manifest as a change in breath, body language, or an energy shift.
But readiness is deeper.
It’s a full-body YES.
A relaxed nervous system.
The mistake most lovers make?
They rush that moment.
They see arousal and skip the check-in.
Slow down.
Feel her cues.
Wait for her readiness, not just her wetness.
That’s what builds real trust and better sex.
Comments
Lovely Dutta
Amazing!
Steve
Deep, hungry kissing, crushing her mouth with mine. Then lingering kisses behind her ear. Trailing licks and kisses down her neck, following her jugular, to her throat for a playful bite. Kisses across her collar bone to her bare shoulder for another playful bite. Feeling her pulse with my lips, at the crease of her groin, then tongue tickling my way up her inner thigh. This usually gets her in a certain way!
fyrstormer
You're probably demisexual and/or sapiosexual. You probably require emotional arousal and/or intellectual arousal to be able to perform. I'm the same way. I can get hard very easily, but if I haven't had sometime to feel emotionally intimate, I won't be able to cum. It doesn't matter how long I go, it will not happen. I find that spending some time appreciating my girlfriend's body before sticking it in makes a huge difference. If she wants it faster than that, too bad, she has to wait anyway.
Photoguy77
This is a conversation my wife and I have had many times, but she still doesn't get it, even though I am hard, it doesn't mean I'm ready!!! This is after 48 years of marriage. It is causing me issues. Truthfully, I've applied for counseling, but I'm unsure of the real problem. Is it her? Is it me? Why pay for counseling when I can't identify the problem? ED, DE? Who can tell? Sorry to ramble, but you struck a nerve... Truthfully, I could go on. Color me frustrated!
