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Pamela doesn't think she did anything wrong
🕑 Added 2024-08-23 10:37:10 +0000 UTCThank you to everyone who suggested this video subject.
Edit: Video is watchable. Accidentally set it to private, now fixed. Sorry about that.
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Caroline
The last name "Smart" is so cursed it's heartbreaking
Christie M.
š ...My HS grad is my profile pic with a whole can of Aqua Net.
Mandy
Worst hair era ever
Adrian Black
The next time someone gets a little rowdy, I'm going to tell them to "put their titties back in their sweater".
Kevin Beery
You didnāt deserve that and it wasnāt your fault, Iām sorry.
Kevin Beery
The attitudes (calling it an affair, etc) in this case reminds me of that South Park episode where the boys go to the police for a similar issue and the cops just say āNiceā¦ā. Seriously, go look up a clip if you havenāt seen it for a morbid laugh. This is exactly what they were satirizing and it was, as we see, so blatant back in the early 90s it almost seems like a parody.
PlagueDoctorIsIn
Exactly. The double standards between male and female pedophiles is disgusting. An abused child is an abused child. I feel it really hinders younger men and boys from seeking help in these circumstances, as it is essentially praised by the āwhere was she when i wasā¦ā crowd and not taken as seriously when the genders are flipped. It is refreshing to have them put on the same platform where they belong.
PlagueDoctorIsIn
I donāt feel she ever told her husband about the kid she was abusing. She is far too narcissistic to place herself in a light where she is on a worse level than someone she has no respect for. She enjoyed the power dynamic of controlling a child, and essentially reliving her youth through her abuse of him. It is wild that anyone with any shred of intelligence would think they could sway any portion of the argument in her favor. Pedophiles need to be drawn and quartered. On another note, I have seen and love all of your content. Your commentary is fantastic and well thought out, as well as comical in the right places. Thanks for it!
michelle shepherd
I don't understand how everyone is just so chill with her unabashedly describing an affair with a minor.
Honeycomb
That must be painful. Sounds like PTSD symptoms. I hope the best for you, though, in healing and recovering. Sometimes talking to other victims and knowing you aren't alone will help. Or just seeing the strength in other victims can be empowering. A lot of victims show amazing courage in speaking out and helping other victims. And even discussing what happened to you here is something that takes strength. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
Marc Draco
I donāt even know how to explain why thatās wrong.
You
No, a young adult is 19, 20 or 21. Fifteen is a child because the brain is not developed enough to be considered an adult. Even young adults may not have that, but 15 is more definitely a child. What YOU were capable of doing has no relevance, especially given that this kids were capable of killing. But in a sexual relationship, they are a child and in emotional power dynamics with an adult they are children. Stop excusing it. Dreading is in the right here, you, not so much.
John Saiani
I still get nightmares. I guess you can call them dream flashbacks.its been 15 years and it still feels like it just happened
VegasMel Melissa Mullin
Wow, what a GOOD VIDEO. I only knew her name, I wasnāt familiar w the case, and I donāt know the outcome. I finished this vid and something tells me that she may have caused reasonable doubt in a juror.. did this end in a mistrial? Iām not going to google it. Iām just gonna edge until Dreading puts out part 2!
My Baffled Brain
Iām so sorry John. I hope your heart heals. Iāll be praying for you ā¤ļø
My Baffled Brain
I really appreciate that you call these women pedophiles. In MSM they are never called that. Itās always, āWoman teacher sleeps with student.ā When it should be, āWoman predator sexually abuses minor male student.ā Also I love the long videos. As someone that has trouble with insomnia, I find your videos and voice soothing. Weird I know since the subject matter is not. š
Honeycomb
I'm really sorry, John. That's so terrible. Make sure to protect your mental health and maybe take a short break from true crime involving predatory teachers. I hope you feel better soon
Marc Draco
Took me a few goes to get through it all. I've followed the case to its most recent conclusions but I'm not going to preempt what the lads have prepared and I'd ask we all do the same (those of us who go sniffing around that is). Also - what is it with American women trying to sound like little girls. It's creepy!
John Saiani
Phck. I should have taken there adviceš¢ I have a major trigger with what happened. I was raped by my teacher. Iām not into guys and unfortunately was forced to do such stuff.
Abbie
Oh god, Pam smart. In terrible taste, my father who grew up in NH had a shirt when he was in high school (about 5 years after this happened) that said āI dated Pam smartā and had bullet holes on it š«
Evonne Acevedo
Also, I was in high school myself when this took place, and Iām embarrassed at how archaic all the media seems now. āThe petite blondeā in the news article š
Evonne Acevedo
Good lord, whose idea was it for Pam to take the stand? How on earth did she envision the jury sympathizing with her when getting her responses was like pulling teeth?
Jess
you guys are doing gods work š
SatanicSphincter
"Put your tiddies back in your shirt" šš
Erin E
"You put your penis down, you put your titties back in your sweater, and you go home." that's got to be my favorite quote from Dreading š¤£š¤£ I laughed so hard
Snotty-Fish
I really love your long (and xtra long) videos. Thank you so much for making them
Tina
She is so emotionally immature that she would throw away her security and first love because her husband got a haircut and no longer had time to play. i.e go to rock concerts and play guitar Edit: I remember watching this story in real time as a new wife and mother. Her monotone interviews and the in-depth articles outlining the relationship between her and the teenagers, and Iām like, oh yes, she did it!
Marc Draco
Respectfully, Pam's teenage assassin wasn't a child. Children have not reached puberty. This young man, underage in the law, was just that. We don't need the additional emotional outrage suggesting this was an actual child. Those victims aren't able to make these decisions. I love this channel but I wish Theo and his brother would avoid these fallacies. When I was 15 I was quite capable of many evil things from rape to murder (not that I did any of them) but I sure as sh*t knew right from wrong; but I could have been manipulated using sex as Pam did. I was NOT a child. I was a young adult.
Kitty Farruggio
Ty for requesting this everyone! Im still hoping for Dreadingās take on Anna Stubblefieldās abuse of Derrick Johnson bc I just watched Tell Them You Love me.
Mea
imagine having your husband killed for being a poser
Mea
this case truly makes me so sad, she is such a wicked person. she literally did not admit her guilt until this year, and even then i donāt think she took full responsibility
Shaye Jackson
Thank you for covering this case
Marc Draco
Damn... I'm 47 mins late to watch this. Damn the cat demanding food... ;)
Linda Rackstraw
Woo hoo up and running šāāļø
John Saiani
Yeah he fixed it
Abbie
Itās working for me in the US
Don Land
Looking forward to seeing it!
Colette Greenall
bummer ..just settled into bed Friday night in Australia and no video ...says its private ..sigh
Linda Rackstraw
Nothing going on here. Weāve got a big storm rolling over. Itās so loud āļø Hope everyone is doing well āŗļø
Elizabeth Johnson
Aahhhhh the suspense!
John Saiani
I donāt think it matters where we are at. Iām in Denver. I tried the online Patreon instead of the app and it said this video is private
Daniels Family
I'm not able to see it yet, but looking forward to it!
Kali Haney
Looking forward to this one!!
Kali Haney
Yeah not working for me on the east coast of USA
John Saiani
Did something happen to the video? Also, thank you big bro. Much love.
Jazmin
thank you boss- Happy Friday
