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Are You Limiting Your Potential?
🕑 Added 2025-05-19 17:11:08 +0000 UTCThe paralysis of overwhelming ideals. When the goal is framed as something vast (“build a car,” “be a master”), people either rationalise inaction or avoid starting altogether. I’ve noticed that many of the obstacles we face at the start of a learning process are self-imposed—and sometimes not truly necessary.
This could be a reaction to scale, to ambiguity, to the weight of implied standards. I believe this comes, in part, from fear of failure. Facing the fact that you’re not as good as you thought, or that you don’t know where to begin, can be painful. It’s easier to create excuses than to sit with that discomfort.
It’s a defensive move against the perceived cost of failing at something impossible or ill-defined. Maybe in the past this instinct helped us avoid danger and ensured survival—I’m just following intuition here—but it seems to make sense.
But when you shrink the challenge—say, “make something that moves,” or even “sketch a wheel”—you strip away the ideological weight. You remove the fear not just of failing, but of falling short of a vague and unreachable ideal. Action becomes possible again.
Here’s a more practical approach to what I just wrote:
Question the idea that’s stopping you. Maybe you have a solid reason for why you’re stuck or why you can’t move forward—but what if you’re wrong? What if you actually don’t need that “thing”?
Shrink the challenge. Don’t “write a book,” just write one honest sentence. Don’t “learn anatomy,” just draw one bone.
Expect discomfort, not perfection. Feeling unready doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it means you’re doing it at all. Trying is already a kind of winning.
In conclusion, the ideal often becomes a prison—until it’s broken down and made personal, physical, and attainable. A true master, ironically, is someone who stopped trying to be one and simply started working with what’s in front of them.
So, do you feel like you might be limiting your own potential?
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Comments
Ramon Nuñez
Make it so simple that it's impossible not to do it
geltoe
Appreciate this, I find myself these not able to start anything these days, it’s been really frustrating to deal with. 😪
Ramon Nuñez
thank you for sticking around
Dea_The_Mystic
Thanks Ramon
