So I will do no NTR π thanks for quick feedback. I very much appreciate the support and that you guys are so wholesome β€οΈπ thanks!
🕑 Added 2024-12-22 17:57:38 +0000 UTCComments
White Myosotis
im not saying moving on (although thats often a big topic in NTR stuff where the original relationship is just incredibly bad and unsattisfying) but i think the reason ppl hate it so much and are so pressed about "cheating" is that they want to own a partner. Monogamy is in general just something im not a fan of for a multitude of reasons but if someone wants to make that choice thats fine just dont make it for your partner and if they are not into it maybe its just not meant to be.
Jack
...I never saw NTR as just one partner moving on to another partner. Usually the initial relationship is still going when the NTR happens, i.e. cheating. Maybe that's why there's a bit of a disconnect between the pro and anti-NTR comments. Though maybe we're getting a bit deeper in the weeds than intended. Still, I can at least agree that disliking a piece of art because you don't like the pairing does indicate a level of toxicity.
White Myosotis
the whole obsession ppl have over owning their partner is honestly creepy as fuck to me. Counting how many ppl they have been with and not allowing them to talk to anyone its bred from a horrible toxic culture and while more "mild" the whole oh i cant see someone have sex with a character that I dont deem to be the "correct" one is insanely wierd. its also just not that deep its just porn
Anisdrawn
You too buddy!!
Tom
Have a great week Anis you are the best! π«‘
Tom
Amazing cant wait
Jack
I'll play devil's advocate for both sides. I'm seeing people say that they hate NTR because they don't like seeing characters sad, but there are also NTR stories about characters realizing that they're caught in a terrible relationship to being with and the NTR is meant to be a freeing moment for them. Like any art, it's a representation of complex emotions not meant to mirror real life. That said, I can see someone who was cheated on feeling resentment toward NTR. Maybe even someone who was never cheated on dislikes it because they can't comprehend that amount of pain. I still think art is more complex than that, but I can understand the sentiment.
White Myosotis
very fair missunderstood i am sorry :) (the comments DO be wilding though)
Anisdrawn
I meant wholesome in the sense of being understanding whenever I check you guys' interests lol
White Myosotis
mind you not @you although calling it wholesome to be against it IS wild but some comments feel like they think they walked into bible studies or smth XD
White Myosotis
Dont get the judgemental nature ppl put on for it tbh XD like saying no is one thing but being all hight and mighty about how "wrong" it is is wierd ngl XD
Kaotix Rage
Legend π«‘
Anisdrawn
However what I will do is, is Squirrel girl π«‘ next weekend