[Esc] reality patreon

⛤ November Q&A

🕑 Added 2024-11-14 17:11:29 +0000 UTC

Comments

Maddie

Have you ever had past life memories? If so, do you feel comfortable sharing them?

GhostyGrimy

Leading energy and Wanting peak relaxation vibes also how is your November going? Better than last November?

Sir Wolf

Ok, I'll try to explain as good as possible what I'm trying to ask here lol. But how do you comfort people without making things worse? You see, I am very bad at comforting people, even the ones I care about. I don't do that very often and when I try to, I always fuck it up by saying or doing something wrong and making it worse, even though the intentions are pure. Goes down, that people who are in need of comfort because they are sad, angry or scared, actually want to be comforted, but not by me. Anybody but me is welcome to do so and that is frustrating because it puts me in an awkward situation, where I try to show compassion and sympathy but I end up looking like an idiot trying to think of the right words and of course I have to keep my hands to myself. I must admit that I am not always the most compassionate guy and I guess it shows. Not saying that I am an insensitive asshole, but I think I have my own way of being compassionate and "caring" and it's always missunderstood, like I'm trying to troll instead of comfort. I guess the question should rather be: How to be more compassionate without coming off as fake and making the situation awkward? Any ideas?