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The Road to Fucked Up Power Dynamics
🕑 Added 2024-08-11 13:53:34 +0000 UTCThe road to fucked up power dynamics is paved with demands and fragile egos, so if you expect me to submit before your belt is even undone, you’re not going to have a good time. I will eat your domly ambitions for breakfast with fava beans and a nice Chianti.
Submission is a risk I don’t take until I’m ready. And in my world, “ready” means trusting—of your heart, your ethics, and your humility. My submission doesn’t roll of a production line like Pepsi cans. It requires alchemy.
I don’t create a kink framework for relationships in advance. I prefer the framework to grow around us in its own time. I often feel like an imposter for those reasons. It’s why I took “sub” off my profile. I just cannot submit from the “Go” corner. First I want to find out if you sulk when you land on “jail” or if you take your dice rolls as seriously as you do your bacon.
A lot of dominants want their obedience to flow from a tap right from the start despite the fact that they never turned the faucet. I can’t promise that to anyone. Vanilla sex doesn’t start with a list of everything we’ll be doing to each other over the next few months, and I don’t understand why kink is treated differently. I’m a different kind of s-type with every man. This comes from the way we respond to one another and what you evoke in me.
I’m more interested in who you are than in what you are, and I think love stories should always be that way.
