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Dating women will not "taint" you
🕑 Added 2023-10-28 16:58:08 +0000 UTCSo recently I've been seeing replies on my twitter/X posts on how men refuse to date women that are promiscuous because of morals, personal convictions, and even health (STD) reasons.
10 years I would have totally understood this line of thinking. Dating was objectively easier and you did not need to go to the lengths of pragmatism, studying sexual strategy, and setting up a large portion of your life to meet women that you needed to today. But this is luxury thinking. The only groups of men that have this option to deny every single opportunity to start a relationship with a suspected promiscuous women (by his own standards, or worse, by his masculinity guru's standard) may be young men in college (extreme IRL abundance due to circumstances), sheltered religious societies (Islam, isolated Christian communities), or very isolated socioeconomic environments (fame at a young age, wealthy family). However, for us normal guys in the trenches, you don't always have the luxury to turn down every single woman who is an OF girl, a self identifying slut, or a girl who has a boob chandelier tattoo.
Let me explain...
What happens if you REJECT every single woman and you get to the point where you meet a decent girl. What then? You have little to no experience in several areas that would help your relationship with your "ideal" girl succeed.
Sexually, you will not know your way around a woman's body as much as you would have if you have messed around with some sluts or less desirable women.
Emotionally, you will not be as adept to handle women's innate behavior.
Interpersonally, you will not have the mental models to deal with relationships. Outcome independence, grieving break ups in a healthy manner, and bad behavior management is all learned with dealing with women.
Do you have to have sex with every warm body you come across? Absolutely not, but if you find yourself thinking that you are some pure little angel who needs to be preserved for a trad conservative fantasy girl, you're going to put yourself at risk to be used by even the most submissive sweet gal you find. You may not enjoy having sex with less desirable women all the time but understand that a minimum you need the experience, not so much for pleasure, but to protect the future relationship you have with a decent gal.
Or you can just enjoy your life and have sex. No one's really watching and no one cares.
- Nuke
