Nuclear Caudillo
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F*ck yes, or no
🕑 Added 2023-12-11 00:21:38 +0000 UTCThe pursuit of women can lead even the most emotionally grounded men to insanity. Women and their behavior is well known to men of all ages. Some joke about it, some are angry about it, some harness it, and some quit all together.
The most complaints I've heard from my fellow men is the false investment signals from women. This may include the initial stages of courting and seduction, like a Tinder match who didn't respond, to big league problems later on like why she doesn't desire to be your girlfriend but continues to want to have sex and act like your girlfriend.
A lot of men, perhaps a by-product of their ego investments, have a lot of trouble accepting a woman's actions as her intent rather than what she says or worse, what she texts. Perhaps it is also men who believe in the blue-pill egalitarian notion that women and men's behaviors and the motivation behind the behaviors are the same, which as you know is very incorrect.
Now that we are in the digital age of dating, we don't have to face women to communicate with them. It's harder to gauge interest and subsequently investment from women because it's so easy to just stop responding and block you rather than explain in person or on the phone why she isn't that into you.
The reason women do this is biological, sometimes. They need to garner as much male attention they can so they can secure their survival because as men, that is our job. The more males pay attention to her the more likely some of those will invest in her and further down, parentally invest in her. The other reason is ego. The female hierarchy for single women, and women who are in relationship with placeholder boyfriends/husbands is organized by who can garner the most attention from the opposite sex. Some women are satisfied with lots of internet likes and views and other must go on tinder apps or entertain men to achieve the same high of endless sexual opportunity with thirsty men and maybe one or two actual good candidates.
How do we protect ourselves against this?
"F*ck yes, or no."
The best way to not get taken for granted by a girl who is ambiguous with her intentions with you is too tell her, using game/charisma, to "shit or get off the pot." How does play out in an interaction?
Simple.
If any response from a girl you are asking out is anything than an enthusiastic resounding "YES" (even though it is hard to gauge through text) then it is a "No".
This means that if you ask her out and she:
Pushes date plans to a further date
Changes the subject
Flakes and doesn't provide an alternative or another solid time
Stops responding for an extended period of time
Communicates that she's not sure
Than she is saying NO and your time is better spent on the next girl who will say yes. There are many situations and scenarios but trust your gut. It's all you have when you're in the field.
- Nuke
