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When To Take A Break From Dating
🕑 Added 2024-04-23 00:53:43 +0000 UTC
Contrary to what the fake alphas online will tell you, women burn you out. It does not matter if you're married, in a relationship, or just spinning plates eventually you will feel the weight of being around women constantly will wonder if it is even worth continuing the path your on.
Just like everything in life, you need to take breaks. There are advantages and disadvantages to taking breaks but sometimes you have no choice. You are not being effective in dealing with shit tests, flakes, and women's negative behavior so your faced with the option of continuing to fail or taking a break to regroup and return to the dating scene even better.
When is it time to take a break?
Financial reasons.
Dating cost money and time. Although I have highlighted several ways to save money on dates (like a wine date), sometimes you want to save your money, especially instead of spending it on ungrateful women. Great reason to take a break.
Dating App results.
Some dating apps like Bumble and Tinder have an ELO score which determines how many quality profiles (IE active hot women) you will be shown to. Overtime this ELO drops. Once your match quality starts going down and you see a lot more bots then you may need to reset and delete the app for 92 days. After 92 days, you can use the same phone number , credit card, and email to start a new account with a renewed higher ELO score.
Boredom
You may start getting tired of hearing women's work stories or about how she rescued her dog and wish to use that time for something like guitar lessons or writing. Understandable.
Exhaustion.
Women drain us, and not always in the good way. This is especially prevalent in long term casual relationships or other arrangements where you spend lots of time with women.
You're Not Having Success
You may get to a point where you understand your initial hang-ups but are still bouncing from slumpbuster to slumpbuster and pretty, fit girls elude you. A break can help you step back, study some game, and figure out your problem areas.
Exhaustion.
Regardless if you're having success or not, dating could be exhausting. The late nights, coupled with alcohol, and the sport fucking (some girls are entitled and want you to fuck them all night) can take a toll on your health and energy levels over time. Great reason to step back and catch up on sleep.
We all need breaks. Dating can seem like work sometimes. There are days where I am debating whether I want to meet a chick or not only to be greeted by a sweet smile and a nice veiny, tastefully displayed pair of tits with a thin layer of sweat as we walk into a dim lit bar and she is a pleasure to talk to. However, it only takes three dates in a row of catfishes, rude women, and flakes to start getting frustrated and wanting to quit altogether. Dating is the only way to solve your reproductive problem (paying will destroy your self-esteem) so you need to manage your motivation levels and take care of yourself first while you regroup.
- Nuke
Comments
Nuclear Caudillo
Have you been hanging out with your friends?
Corleo
Cart before horse in my case, but how does one take a break when married? Travel?
