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Boundaries (WIP)
🕑 Added 2021-04-03 17:05:44 +0000 UTCEvery time I have to be firm with someone and give them a 'hard no' I feel SO bad. Even if the other person reacts totally fine, I still feel like I've been an asshole for some reason. I'm trying to be more vocal about my boundaries lately and I think I've been succeeding in that regard. Hoo boy it is tough though!
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Sandwich247
I'm always scared of telling people no because I don't want them to get upset or angry at me. There was a time when I was good at it, but that time seems so far away now. I wish I would get back to being able to do it again, it's causing me a great deal of stress at work. People don't seem very happy when I'm not able to pull through on the thing I agreed to do for them, too. Which is understandable, honestly. I said I'd do it I just wish the environment was a lot better suited to letting people say no, I suppose
