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What Is Your Take on This? + Random Ephiphany (Again)

🕑 Added 2023-09-15 09:14:36 +0000 UTC
What Is Your Take on This? + Random Ephiphany (Again)

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Minso

A big part of it is just exposure bias & success bias where we’re exposed to those “brave” people who made it way more online compared to the person who’s working hard in a corporate job. I completely agree that it’s all preference, but I also think it’s a certain level of maturity too to recognize the bias

Justin

Context: I've been working for about 1.5 years and am living in Singapore I observed most of my peers/juniors in Uni were adopting the latter mindset and I would attribute that to the competitiveness of school, higher cost of living and general uncertainty of the future. Videos that feature creators quitting college/their jobs or creators who are living alternative lifestyles offer a glimpse of a more fulfilling, purposeful and simplistic way of living. The issue arises when such videos do not address the financial insecurity and other areas of concern that they might be facing and as such, these lifestyles will continue to be rosey in the eyes of many youths. The proliferation of social media would also likely worsen expectations youths might have for their future (ofc generalisation here). Personally, I chose to work and lead a corporate(-ish) lifestyle to attain financial stability so that I am better able to afford doing the things I like in both the near and far future. It is definitely an uphill climb from university days to getting used to wearing big boy pants at work, but there are still many moments of happiness in between that makes the journey worthwhile. Many of my friends, including myself, did not regret grinding during Uni and videos that feature the 'inspiring' and 'brave' route remains an inspiration for us today, which we hope to achieve sooner than later. And if you read this far, hope you're having a gr8 day/evening and ganbatte in whatever endeavours you're chasing !

Zyraphila

From my 37-age POV, I tend to agree that younger persons prioritize work less than fun. But on the other hand, I think it's also normal at this age. First love and relationship experiences take time away from being productive and I think it is important. Self-improvement comes mostly just after 25 I think. Before 25 it's more ego-driven I think. Maybe it also depends on experience. I mean, get the fastest car or the richest holiday, and then? What if you had everything? Imagine it, and then the questions for life just start over again. If you have time. If you then have kids, you have no time hehe. The older I get, the more I think that balance of everything is the key. PS: sorry for my English, it's not my first language.

PHATT Racoon

Overall I think life style and work related things is all personal preference as in one is not necessarily better than the other. However I do think that there are a lot of people in the younger gen like mine that think they can get/deserve a good prosperous life whilst doing the minimal amount of of work which is untrue for the vast majority of people and I definitely think that social media can tend to support that sort of mindset. (just got done writing a 20pg essay for school i no longer know how to type normally)


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