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The real role of Sissy in relationships with women
🕑 Added 2025-03-13 18:59:00 +0000 UTC1. Why might not having sex with girls be important to Sissy?
At first glance, this may seem like a radical step, but if we consider Sissy as an image opposed to the traditional male role, then the rejection of an intimate relationship with women becomes a symbolic break with male identity. Sex with girls is perceived as the consolidation of a male role (active partner, dominant), while rejecting it leaves only two options: either passivity or platonic relationships.
If you remove even flirting and kissing, you are actually admitting that your role is not to be a partner for girls in the traditional sense, but to occupy a different place in their environment (girlfriend, sweet boy, feminine shadow). This can reinforce the perception of yourself as a sissy, because you don't pretend to be a man, but you find a more organic place for yourself.
2. How does this affect the psyche and self-perception?
The rejection of traditional male sexuality and flirting with girls forms a new self-perception in Sissy. At first, there may be doubts and internal conflict (because society and internal attitudes push towards the traditional model of "a man should want a woman"), but over time the brain adapts, and this becomes part of self-identification.
You can imagine this as the formation of synaptic connections: every time you want to flirt with a girl, you will have a mindset that this is not your role. You will doubt your "masculinity", realizing that this is just an illusion, and gradually these doubts will consolidate into a conviction.
The more often you encounter this situation, the deeper the new neural connection will be anchored: "I can't be an alpha, I can only be a friend." At first it will cause discomfort, but over time it will become a familiar part of your perception of yourself.
3. Why is this necessary?
— Being honest with yourself. You're no longer trying to play a role that doesn't suit you, and you're not experiencing a dissonance between your desires and public expectations.
— Honesty with girls. You don't mislead them, you don't waste their time, you don't try to pretend to be someone you're not.
— Release from pressure. You stop chasing the image of a "real man" and you can relax, accepting your feminine and passive side.
— Fixing the image of Sissy. The fewer attempts you have to return to the traditional male role, the faster it fades away, and your new identity becomes more natural.
4. Possible difficulties.
Of course, this process can cause internal strife. After all, all your childhood and youth, you most likely absorbed the idea that a man should be with a woman, want her, dominate her. Therefore, there may be times when you want to test yourself, regain control, prove to yourself that you can be a man. But it is at such moments that the installation should work the most: "Why am I doing this? Who am I kidding?"
Ultimately, not having sex with girls is not just an external limitation. This is an internal restructuring that helps you better understand your role and get rid of unnecessary attempts to meet other people's expectations.
Comments
Julia_U
I think it's normal and natural for you :)
Julia_U
It's brave! I hope everything will be fine!
Trixie
I’m not sure about that Mistress. I think the sissy hypnosis and captions played a big part in changing my desires to become more feminine. And your encouragement helped me to accept that it was ok to embrace those feelings and enjoy being my girl self 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Christina
I amalso taking mtf hormone replacement therapy to transition to a full woman's body
Christina
I really think of having sex with men not women
Julia_U
I hope you can find a man and she'll be there for you :)
Julia_U
Do you think it's always been hidden in you, or are these acquired desires?
Trixie
Oh Mistress, I haven't thought about having sex with a woman in a long time! There have been a number of times recently where I felt a real pang of excitement and an urge to be with a man. I felt a rapid increase in my heart rate and my heart beat much faster! I've admired women but for their beauty and all the time I have considered their look, behaviour and style as I learn from them, like angelic role models for me. I'm being honest with myself that sex with women isn't what I desire any longer, in fact I hunger for a man to treat me like a down and dirty whore! hehe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Freya
I love being her friend but I am envious that she has boyfriends and I don't. She tries to help me find partners but it is difficult for a more masculine looking sissy like me, especially with how career focused I am.
Julia_U
I think it's okay, you don't have to force yourself to fall in love with a man :) perhaps this area will open up for you more naturally and smoothly in the future. Are you secretly in love with some girl now in a friendly way?
Julia_U
the most important thing is that you are doing well and she and you are happy :) because you feel perfect in this role of a "friend", right?
Julia_U
I thought this post would be perfect for you hehe
Julia_U
Did you read the post? What do you think about it? :)
Amina
Thank you, Julia 💖, This post really made me think. I have very little experience in this area, I’ve never had a sexual relationship with a woman, even back when I wanted to. Nowadays, it doesn’t interest me anymore, so I don’t see how it could happen. Honestly, I wouldn’t even know how to act around a woman, and I’d probably just end up wasting her time, as you mentioned 😑 My desire is to lose my virginity, but as a girl, not with a girl! I’d want it to be in a passive dynamic, ideally with a man 🙏 That said, my feelings are contradictory. I can imagine having a sexual relationship with a man, but I can’t see myself falling in love with one, even though I’ve tried to change my mindset about it. On the other hand, I can only see myself falling in love with a woman, but without any sexual desire, it’s like when we were kids at school, we’d fall in love, but it was innocent, without thinking about sex. I know, it might sound strange and hard to understand, even for myself. I’m just trying to accept myself as I am, with all these contradictions.
Trixie Delaney
Mistress u look absolutely amazing!!!
Freya
My wife and I last had sex in August 2024, I think, and maybe only five times in the last two years. We still kiss and cuddle but it is more deep friendship than sexual. She does have sex with other men. I have started seeking out men for sex too. Our relationship is still very strong and we have no plans to separate or divorce.
