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What stage of feminization are you at now?
🕑 Added 2025-03-15 18:59:01 +0000 UTCWhat should every sissy try? What situations are unavoidable?
1. Accepting your feminine nature.
The first thing every sissy faces is the realization that he doesn't fit into the traditional male model. All this talk about "alphas," "brutality," and "manhood" looks ridiculous because there's something else inside. You can try to ignore it, but sooner or later you will find yourself in front of a mirror, in women's underwear, with the realization that this is what makes you real.
You'll probably try to resist. Someone has been denying their desires for years, someone is trying to "prove to himself" that he can be a normal guy, but the further he goes, the more obvious it becomes: You can't be a man in the full sense of the word. The sooner you accept it, the less suffering there will be.
2. The first experience in women's clothing.
It's inevitable. Even if you've been wearing lingerie for a long time, there's always the next step: stockings, a dress, a skirt, makeup, a wig.… At some point, it's not enough for you to just wear panties, you want to look and feel like a girl.
And here it is, that very moment: you stand in front of the mirror, fully dressed as a girl for the first time, and something new clicks in your head. Yes, you may look ridiculous at first, yes, your makeup will turn out to be crooked, but the fact that you REALLY look feminine is a new level.
After that, there's no turning back.
3. Awareness of your role.
As soon as you accept your femininity, you will inevitably have a question: what now? You're not really a guy anymore, so you should have a new role. And there are few options here:
— You can become a feminized boy, a gentle, sweet, platonic friend for girls.
— Or you can become passive, understand that your true nature is not to be a man, but to be for a man.
The second option often comes gradually. You may think for years that just wearing underwear is enough for you, but then one day you will realize that femininity is not complete without a man's presence. That the point of being a girl is to be desired.
And that's where the fun begins.
4. Struggle with illusions about your masculinity.
You're going to try to prove to yourself that you can still be a man. Maybe you'll even try dating girls, flirting, acting "like everyone else," but inside you'll feel like this is some kind of game.
You will feel that in this whole story you are not a hunter, but a prey. That you can't be dominant, that even when dealing with girls you're more on the side of passivity.
Every time you try to pretend to be a "normal guy," you'll have a doubt inside: "Who am I really?"
And the more you face this, the deeper your true role will be strengthened.
5. The first steps in submission.
After you accept your femininity, you'll want someone to see it. Maybe you'll start posting photos, maybe you'll look for like—minded people, or maybe you'll start fantasizing about what it's like to be under someone.
It's scary at first. You don't know what's in store for you, you don't know what it's like to step over the line, but the more you're into it, the more you realize that it's your nature.
You go through the stages: from curiosity → to acceptance → to the desire to find yourself in a real situation where you are not just fantasizing, but actually playing your role.
You stop seeing yourself as a man. Instead, you start to see yourself as... well, Sissy. And this is no longer something shameful, but something natural.
6. The result: a complete transition to a new role.
After all, if you follow this path to the end, then you inevitably come to the fact that:
"You're not a man anymore. Even if you haven't changed outwardly yet, inwardly you haven't been there for a long time.
— You're not looking for girls for relationships because it's pointless.
— You understand that your role is to be feminine, passive, malleable.
You're not trying to fit into a man's world anymore. You accept your feminine, subordinate, sissy role and realize that this is not a weakness, but your true essence.
This is the path every sissy goes through. Some are faster, some are longer, but everyone inevitably faces the same moments.:
Accepting your feminine nature.
My first experience in women's clothing.
Awareness of your role (girlfriend or liability).
Fighting the illusions of masculinity.
The desire to obey, to stop playing the role of a man.
A complete transition to the sissy state.
You're already on that path. The only question is how soon you realize that there is no turning back. Where are you now?
Comments
Julia_U
OK, when you're ready, you can send me an email :)
Alena
I would love to show you all ;)
Julia_U
what is your result in 4 years :)
Julia_U
Good :) but it's so nice to see your transformation, it's like a spring flower that blooms under the warm rays of the sun :)
Amina
Julia💖, I feel like you’ve been spying on me! you’re describing my journey exactly! I spent my whole life stuck at stage 2, but in just a few months here, with you, you’ve pushed me all the way to stage 6🙏 At this point, there’s no turning back inside me. I’m 100% in tune with my feminine nature🌸 and fully embrace my passive, obedient role. My thoughts and visions have radically changed and are now firmly rooted in my little mind. This new role suits me, and everything that tied me to my old masculine self🤮 is fading into oblivion forever. I don’t know how much longer I’ll keep lying to the outside world. More and more often, I accidentally let slip signs that betray my fake masculine role🤮. Sometimes, I feel like making mistakes on purpose just to be exposed and finally let the truth come out, and sometimes, I’m scared. I don’t know what my future holds, but I think you already know😊 but don’t tell me anything🙏
Alena
Wdym
Julia_U
I think it would be fun, because you wouldn't stand still and get bored!
Gina
What if I was urs for whole weekend?
Julia_U
Is that all you can imagine? heh
Gina
I also imagine you pegging me. 😘
Julia_U
I like this approach to feminization :)
Julia_U
OK hehe
Julia_U
You're welcome!
Trixie
So do I mistress, I’m thinking it may happen sooner than we think! Hehe
Gina
Yes I do. 👄
bunny
Thank you.your a actually the best tutor. I love your classes and mecand my supreme wifey.are are so happy with your tasks thank you
Seana
I would do anything to be a beautiful girl
bunny
Oh thank you for your comment I can't wait to so wifey. Yay
Julia_U
Wouldn't it be great to feel like a beautiful girl?
Julia_U
I don't even doubt it, I'm just wondering when exactly it will happen...
Julia_U
Good girl, I'm glad about that!
Julia_U
Do you often fantasize about it?
Trixie
Yes Mistress! That’s right. I can feel it is now inevitable that I will be a slutty little whore in real life and worship a man with my body soon hehe ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Seana
Bra and panties under clothes. Have gone to salon and got nails and makeup done. Loved it.
Gina
I am at the point in life that I realize I need to be desired by a man.
bunny
Yes mam that's so right .I'm much more attentive and just more polite.with it I like that about me know .I've really embraced being demure and it's really so much more fun like this
Julia_U
yes, you have accepted and realized that the opening of the cage does not depend on you, but maybe a little on your actions and behavior, but the decision is always made by her hehe
bunny
Yes I've grown accustomed to my chastity..my birthday is the 28th but I don't whine anymore I know she loves me and the chastity keeps me in my role she'll let me out when it pleases her.
Julia_U
this is amazing! What are your current training results?
Julia_U
Yes, it is :) I like that now you will always wear a cage and it will become a regular part of your life. Have you come to terms with it yet?
Julia_U
Good. What do you like to try on now?
Julia_U
Yes, it's true, you're already at a new stage, but for some reason it seems to me that you'll soon move on to real life, because you want to try it in life with your real body too much, or not?
Trixie
Oh Mistress, once again your words seem to echo the path I have been on for a long time. Each of those stages resonates so deeply with me. I’m so far along the journey to womanhood, now I get dolled up and post my photos online and men message me and treat me like their naughty sissy slut! I love the dirty things they tell me and make me do. I’m a sexy girl who enjoys making men hard hehe xxxxxxxxxxxx
Seana
Very early. Just trying clothes for first time but long to be feminised
bunny
I feel like I'm pretty far down the list. I'm completely happy with my role as a submissive passive sissy.i love letting my wifey take complete charge I love not making decisions and supporting her in every way.i love my feminine clothes my domestic routine.i get joy from being obedient and striving to please her in the bedroom. Chastity is getting very normal now.i love being the real wife in our relationship
Alena
I’ve been shaping and training my body for 4 years now..I would say I’m pretty down the rabbit whole..and love it
