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Bonus Discussion-Cuckolding (my thoughts)
🕑 Added 2021-09-28 19:38:08 +0000 UTCCuckolding, to my dismay is a very big part of femdom. It's a part of femdom I truly hate because in my opinion it's not femdom at all. Listen to find out more and as always, give me your thoughts.
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Oh yes, vulnerability should totally be a tag for porn. It certainly turns me on.
xenboy
Oh dear, imagine if "vulnerability" were as popular a porn keyword as "humiliation" *fans self* :)
I agree. I dislike purposeful humiliation but I have often liked incidental humilation. For example there was a monologue I did about an invasive doctor's appointment. The doctor's goal was not to humiliate but the vulnerability provoked a bit of humiliation. Intentionally humiliating someone for me just feels nasty. Plus I know a lot of submissive men are very self-critical but that is what I think is great about gentle femdom. It's lifting submissive men up not putting them down.
xenboy
I've also never really "got" cuckolding for many of the same reasons you mention. I also don't like humiliation when the humiliation is "for it's own sake" (If something genuinely pleasing to Mistress just happens to have some humiliating aspects to it, that's a different matter). At the same time, I'm no stranger to self loathing, but I've got my inner critic to deal that out.
