Salamandra_San
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I promote healthy relationships🤣
🕑 Added 2023-09-01 11:39:26 +0000 UTCAlthough I myself got off this needle of emotional swings when I was 21. It was my acquaintance with my husband that made me urgently work on this problem with myself. Now I see that I myself deliberately chose those who would leave me for another person, or not choose at all, because, unexpectedly, so did my father. But at 21 I got sick of it and changed it in myself, violently, through tantrums, but now it's like my eyes have been opened. "Dramatic" relationships cause nothing but anger and facepalm, and good human relationships have been exalted above all else. (But there's a downside, it's hard to watch and read romance when you not only don't sympathise with the main characters, you wish these sick bastards were never together🤣)
Still, I don't consider myself a healthy person, I still self-harm and often go into panic attacks, but what I do know for sure is that I won't let others hurt me, but I won't hurt others either. My unhealthiness has always only harmed me and that's partly a joy. I wouldn't want to be ashamed of my past actions towards people. As it is, it's only myself I need to apologise to).
I'd love to hear some of your stories of growth over yourself as well
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Юлия Пурига
It was hard for me in the beginning, too. I grew up thinking that my problems were nobody's business but my own. But now I'm learning too. I hope we can do it💪
Illia
You are right. Only through the communication we can resolve our issues. And it applies to all aspects of our life. I unfortunately still struggle to be absolutely open with my partner, but I am working on this and I believe it’s getting better.
Kotta_ku
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