❤️ Are the Audios Unrealistic? Yes & No! ❤️

Victor Seers

I like the more narrative audios, realistic or not.

AbyssmalSoup307

Couldn’t have been said better.

Mitori

I don't feel that the audios set anything as unrealistic, like you have voiced Tea, they are a good example of what a partner can be. That however, does not mean these audios are a substitute for a real life partner. They are a very genuine source of comfort though on some of the lonely / down days.

Deadpool 6667

I love your audio's tea and I think they are realistic as they can get

Angel of Hope

The only thing unrealistic of anything in a relationship is expecting pure perfection but one thing that can be true is that your significant other is imperfectly perfect for you. The audios you create can be possible and real if so individuals have the imagination and affections to create such experiences for the ones they love.(excluding the monster ones unless you truly do some science magic to turn yourself into something as so out of determination hehe) Your only limit is your imagination everyone. A wise quote I heard and still sticks to me is "When you let reality win and stop dreaming, you die inside." because its true. Anything can be possible but you must understand it's balance and know that everyone can't be that dreamy all the time too and have their own flaws. Tea's audios create a doorway for our imaginations that someone CAN be treated this well and be loved this much. These kind of scenarios don't just drop into your life. They are made through having an imagination and a passionate desire to love you and care about you with affection and so much more. So remember, IMAGINATION is your only limit. Thank you if you read this far, I'm a hopeless romantic so I may be a bit too naive on this topic but I still stand true to what I wrote and I hope you all will too ❤️❤️❤️ Have a wonderful day everyone.

Jeremy Knight

Someone has to be very closed off to human socializing if they think your audios are replacements for real relationships and sex. As much as I'd love to have a girlfriend even I know she isn't always going to be there to comfort me and be there whenever I need her for help. I always think about what could I offer to the relationship like am I useful? am I worth her patience because of my low vision? would I be able to help her with her issues and would I be good at sex. It's why I have such a low opinion of myself. But I do think your audios are nice examples of what healthy relationships should be.

Xirtedak

To be honest, I feel like these are realistic as they can get. There are many ways a relationship can start/end and tea's audio is just some ways a relationship can turn out. Love is weird and unique and that's why there will always be no way to know if a relationship is realistic.

Camilo Iribarren

Perfect way to explain it. Thank you for giving us a TED talk!

Finley Cartmell

I don't think people should be basing relationship expectations off of audio roleplays to start with. Same way they shouldn't base their expectations off of movies, or TV, or books. Yeah there's good stuff that one can aspire to be in a relationship like the supportive aspect and the comforting aspect, but expecting it to just be like that by default and all the time is just unrealistic. People are flawed and so is life, all we can do is try, hope for the best, and not get upset when it doesn't live up to our chosen form of entertainment/comfort.

Acureas

It’s absolutely possible to have a relationship like you hear in the audios. It’s imo, the type of relationship you should strive for. But the thing is it’s not just that, there’s going to be difficult times, and in a relationship it’s not about just you or them, it’s about both of you. Ultimately there is far more to it than this.

J.T. Packer

Some are silly, some are grounded. All keep my humanity from draining away TOO quickly. I'm still almost a person.

rdimes

Tea talks like a college graduate who helped invent grammerly. So eloquently spoken

love your audios. I know what they are and what they aren't. some are wacky and unrealistic, some tell stories, others are meant for healing. My personal favs are the tavern series, tomboy, and the first time series. looking forward to Christmas bc i can listen to miss Santa. you make great content, and that is key, content not life.

Joseph Brown

As unrealistic as it may be, I hope to find a woman who will allow me to indulge my perverted fantsies of using her thighs as a pillow while I watch anime. Thigh pillows are amazing.

Aryk Strykker

Tea, I think you're exactly correct. These audios are entertainment, escapism, and fantasy. Maybe they're also instructional, demonstrating a good thing to say in a certain situation.

Iron Piedmont

I agree with this statement. As much as I enjoy your audios, they're not going to be the same experience as interacting with someone right in front of me. That someone might not be there for me but the audios will. At the same time, I can't hug or do anything else with the audio, but I can with the somebody. As a whole, both the audios and having a relationship with somebody both have their pros and cons.

Bella

Honestly same. Never been in a relationship. So Tea’s audios are like audio books or novel. Might as well taking pointers on what to do if I ever get into one. 😂

Nameless...

Tbh I feel like listening to Tea has helped me better my communication and social skills, even do I have no dating experience ;-; I feel like I now have a better idea and understanding of wat to expect when and if I go out with someone weather it’s a friend or someone I like 😗👍

June

Thank you 🖤

Blindluck92

Honestly when I first saw the question posed at the start, I was thinking something along the same lines, but your explanation was much more well-worded. Thank you, Tea. Hope you're feeling better!

Onionbro

Since the listener can't actively interact with the speaker during the audio it obviously can never serve as a replacement for an actual conversation/relationship. But you still manage to make your audios feel realistic (obviously not full but even the monster girl audios for example). This helps me get more invested in the audio and with escapism but it also influences my day to day live. Not like a strict rulebook on how to behave all the time but rather how someone could act in these situations (comforting, reassuring someone, etc.). It also really helped me with my mental health (depression and social anxiety). When I first found your audios I could hardly talk to anyone let alone make friends. Now I went to a halloween party all on my own and actively keep in contact with the new people I befriended without constantly worrying if I annoy them. I still have depressive episodes but it has gotten much tolerable and in these dark times your audios help my through them. In short: Your audios aren't realistic in the sense that they can perfectly mimic a real relationship but they are realistic enough so that the listener is completely engaged in the audio and that it can have an impact on peoples lives.

They are fictitious works, so yes unrealistic in that fashion, but in the sense they set up unrealistic expectations on how actual relationships work heck no. This body of work isn’t a self help guide on how to act in common society and never billed itself that way.

Coby-O

Not to mention that while one can love comforting girlfriend audios, they ultimately only temporarily fill the void of loneliness or lack of romance in someone’s life.

TeacupAudio

Precisely. They model a healthy, communicative relationship. Perhaps they're not the majority, but they're probably what we all should be striving for :)

Fangrend

Well if we are going to be honest with each other here they are going to be unrealistic for most relationships, as problems communicating is a common theme. But that kind of communication is what you should be aiming for.

Jay

I agree with you Tea👍

CurrentlyEatingPies

Id love people with tags. What would mine be? [Hopeless Pervert] [Silly Nonsense] [Unsolicited Dinosaur Facts] [M4nobody]... In all seriousness though this was an interesting read. I'd never considered that the audios could be unrealistic (barring obvious exceptions) but I guess some people could see it that way.

Zack

I feel like the girlfriend/wife audios definitely feel like a realistic and mature conversation a healthy couple would have

MM2211

I'm not the best to answer, as i do not expect any kind of realism, i mostly listen to the audio as a background noise while working. At least, those i enjoy. I don't remember enough of the actual audios even shortly after listening to it to even determine if its realistic or not haha. I only remember if i enjoyed the audio or not

Mranqueetas

I agree. And honestly I feel like listening to audios like this has made me better at communicating. Which will be a huge boon to me in my life!