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(PREVIEW) Provocative Grind | Kiss-n-Grind 1.9
🕑 Added 2025-06-10 15:44:23 +0000 UTCHey everyone! I hope you’re all doing great ❤️, I’ve got a new update for the Kiss and Grind mod: Provocative Grind!
Since "grind dance" is part of the name Kiss and Grind, I always felt like it needed more love. Right now, the mod only has one grind dance — and that was made a long time ago. My animation skills have improved since then, and the mod itself has grown into something much bigger, it’s now one of my main romantic mods.
So I wanted to pay tribute to the original themes and vibes by creating a new interaction and animation that will cover that part of the mod,
Animation Style & Mood
My main focus for this animation was to make it feel more intimate and heated, while still blending it naturally into The Sims 4’s romantic atmosphere. It’s a slow, close back-dance
I also added subtle movements and playful flirtatious gestures throughout to break the tension — making the Interactions feel more layered and more fun for a casual gameplay.
Where to Find It:
Click on a Sim > Romance > Kiss-N-Grind
Kiss-N-Grind pie menu inside the Romance category. All future interactions from this mod will show up there.
Note: The interaction won't appear if your sim hasn't had their first kiss yet or the level of romance is too low.
Features of the Update:
New, highly detailed animation
Full sound events synced to the animation
Dance/romance interaction for storytelling or date nights
A new icon that fits the updated vibe
Custom Flirty Buffs
Fully autonomous interaction for NPCs
New Romantic Sentiment possibility
Interaction Outcomes:
Both Sims get a Flirty buff called Romantic Friction.
If the target Sim is already flirty, there’s a chance they’ll gain a Romantic Sentiment:
“Can’t Get Enough” — craving more after that moment of closeness.When Sims with this sentiment are near each other, they’ll get a special Flirty moodlet called Magnetic Pull.
Upcoming Features:
There’s another interaction I’ve been working on that was originally going to be included in this update, but I decided to separate it and release it soon as part of a "Wave & Grind" update.
It is bold, playful, and mischievous Interaction, perfect for stirring things up without catching feelings. More on that in the upcoming Wave & Grind update, stay tuned!
While working on my big mod for this summer, there will also be other small updates for my other mods. which I will share more about it very soon,
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Comments
SSimmer
Is this mod working?
Jennifer Ancel
I really want the romantic complaints fixed 😭 that one was so fun
SilentAegis
A few months of silence is normal with her. Be patient.
Little L
I’m too scared the creator might have retired 😞
MrPanda819
Hi! Downloaded the mod 2 days ago and only got to try it yesturday. The animations are incredible, thank you! I'm just running into an issue(that I think is not a bug) which could lead to a suggestion if you're open to hear it. I mostly play gay receivers male(bottoms), usually in single household for a while until they meet someone serious. I tried to use the animation on a romantic partner that I don't controle and wanted my sim to be the one grinding on him, but the opposite happened. Is there an option or something to choose which character do the dancing? Or is it based on gender? I'd like my sims to go clubbing and grind on romantic interest without having to add them to my household. If there are no options for this, could you consider it in another update? Or simply like a kiss and grind interactions like: give provocative grind. If you are into it of course. Thank you for your work, it shows passion and commitement, can't wait for futur updates!!
juju
I am not able to use this either :( i deleted all my mods completely and didnt have any other versions and still didnt work for me
UTOPYA_cc
Hi! Let me know what the issue is exactly. If the latest interaction isn't working, double-check that you’ve removed all older versions (especially 1.9.7)
Isabela Mascena
Anyone can use it? I really need for my story and isn’t worked for me! I have the 1.9.8v
UTOPYA_cc
Hey, which version do you have in your game? Make sure that you have only the latest one, which is 1.9.8
Taylor Green
Hi! I love this mod but I have run into a major bug. I can't press my sim for self-interaction After doing 50/50 I narrowed it down to issue coming from my Utopya folder. Then I removed the latest update to kiss and grind and everything worked properly. Update- i didn't see others had also reported this issue already. Sorry
RobertAtNyte
Yayyyy!!!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Dom
Hello! Love the Kiss-n-Grind mod! Does the early access no longer apply to Gold tier for this mod? I've always gotten early access in my current tier but it looks like I have to be Platinum to receive any early access content.
