Video: "Agree to Disagree"
🕑 Added 2019-08-01 12:01:03 +0000 UTCPatreon Exclusive! In this "Maximal" episode, Joshua and Ryan talk about tribes, picking sides, and finding common ground with people who have different beliefs with comedian and podcaster Jamie Kilstein, and they answer the following questions:
How do I address loved ones who believe my political party is negatively impacting our country? (10:20)
How do I appropriately reconcile conflicting beliefs with loved ones? (51:39)
How do I resolve my issues regarding a loved one’s behaviors? (56:25)
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MAXIMS
“The best kind of person is a kind person.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Our political beliefs won’t ruin a country, but our actions can ruin a country.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Lead with love in all things.” —Jamie Kilstein
“It’s not what you think that does damage—it’s what you say and do.” —Ryan Nicodemus
This Maximal episode corresponds with Minimal episode 191.
Comments
Jessica Gonzalez
Some of the lines during the sex ed convo are the funniest I've ever heard. I just laughed my ass off, you guys are the best.
Laura B
And as a side note related to the theme of this podcast, how does one agree to disagree with someone who does not value who you are or who would dismiss you or use you/poses a danger to you because you're female? As a woman, I see both his past actions and his current summation of those actions as very troubling. To some degree, "agreeing to disagree" seems like a very white, male privilege position as someone like Kilstein poses little danger to either podcast host but could damage the careers and lives and livelihoods of women in his professional and personal lives if he still views women as tools and not as people with views and needs equal to his own. Or to take this question to a broader perspective, how can you agree to disagree with people whose political choices directly affect your family's survival or the livelihood of loved ones? I understand the desire to connect to people different from yourself and to reach points of agreement, but it's a matter of life and death for some people, and when others can't or won't see that their positions cause you or loved ones harm, it makes "agree to disagree" an untenable position.