Maximal Ep. 366 | News Media Clutter
🕑 Added 2022-11-14 12:05:01 +0000 UTCThe Minimalists talk about news addiction and the anxiety it produces, decluttering past relationships, how to stop worrying, compromise and mediocrity, psychological flexibility, and more!
Discussed in this episode:
How do we stay informed without becoming overwhelmed? (03:45)
What is the primary purpose of news outlets? (05:22)
Why are most ideas worthless? (10:35)
How do we determine what mementos are appropriate to keep or let go when a family splits up? (17:27)
What are your views regarding acceptance? (20:31)
What is the four-step process to letting go according to The Sedona Method? (25:15)
How do we best address worry regarding an ill loved one so we can be more present for them? (29:14)
What is wu-wei? (36:56)
How do we ensure our minimalism doesn’t turn into asceticism? (38:40)
How do we let go of the need for approval? (49:24)
What are your perspectives regarding inclusiveness? (56:15)
Segment: Lightning Round (59:52)
How do we become more psychologically flexible? (1:00:27)
How do I avoid becoming inundated with media clutter when my family members relentlessly consume it? (1:04:38)
Listener comments and minimalism tips. (1:11:08)
What are finite and infinite games? (1:16:52)
Segment: Talkaboutables (1:21:36)
What is the “Hate That Thing Rule”? (1:21:46)
Is there any value in replacing the star players on a team? (1:25:50)
What do you consider “bootlicking”? (1:33:18)
What is “bootkicking”? (1:41:16)
What is problematic with marking certain topics strictly taboo? (1:49:20)
Segment: Advertisements Suck (1:58:11)
What is an important distinction to consider regarding disagreements? (2:00:36)
Segment: T.K.’s Tweet of the Week (2:02:20)
How do we say “no” more effectively? (2:03:57)
Segment: Obsolete Objects (2:10:28)
What is the “Entryway Rule”? (2:11:05)
Segment: Photo Friday Home Tour (2:14:22)
How do we stay informed and keep others informed without stress and anxiety? (2:20:12)
Segment: Right Here, Right Now (2:24:49)
Segment: Added Value (2:26:20)
LINKS
App: Libby
Article: Taking a Break from Social Media
Book: Digital Minimalism
Book Essential
Book: Everything That Remains
Book: Finite and Infinite Games
Book: Love People, Use Things
Book: Minimalist Rulebook
Book: The Sedona Method
Class: How to Write Better
Event: Sunday Symposium
Podcast: Political Fallout
Resources: The Minimalists
Subscribe: The Minimalists
Twitter: @peacegardenmama
Twitter: @visakanv
Watch: Create Your Own Roadshow
Watch: Minimalism
Watch: My Insane Burning Man Experience
Watch: The Redeem Team
Website: Hale Dwoskin
MAXIMS
The news is not designed to inform; the news is designed to attract attention.
Letting go is not a one-time event: we are always letting go.
To worry is to punish yourself today for something that has not happened.
Mediocrity results from accumulation of compromises.
Approval from loved ones is nice, but needing approval is a prison.
Rigidity forms a container for discontent.
The goal isn’t happiness—it’s emotional versatility.
Happiness is a byproduct of living a meaningful life.
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Comments
Rebecca Bradley
When TK quoted Whitney Houston, it brought tears to my eyes. That song got me through many tough times growing up (and in my adult life).
Ianina Zubowicz
interesting. I have two phones: one for my country calls, and another for the country where I live right now. I only use Twitter on my computer and I have Instagram on my country's phone. Since I use it once a day, I barely check Instagram. Twitter on the other hand...so I used a blocking app for my computer so I couldn't use Twitter during work time. It's amazing how addictive social media can be if you have them right there to use them! And following Cal Newport's advice, I kept Twitter (because I use it for my job) but carefully curated.
Brian Walker
I was glad to hear Josh bring up Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport. In the book, he talks about doing a "digital declutter" where you sign off of all" optional technology" for a month. For me, social media is optional so I got off of all that for a month. E-mail was not optional for me, but checking it from my phone was so I removed that from my phone as well (I did this three years ago and I've not put it back on). During this month off from optional tech, he also encourages pursuing some form of "high quality leisure". This could be exploring a new hobby or re-exploring one that you used to enjoy. There is a lot more to his book than what I have time to write about here. If you haven't read the book yourself, I highly recommend it. For my own part, the digital declutter experience has helped me use the technology in my life more intentionally and find more value in other pursuits.