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🕑 Added 2021-10-07 12:00:04 +0000 UTCPatreon Exclusive. Joshua and Ryan discuss letting go to move on with author, podcaster, and comedian Lisa Lampanelli, and they answer the following questions:
What is Lisa’s opinion of cancel culture? (00:00)
What are the two “abracadabras of life”? (02:30)
Are there any good elements of cancel culture? (04:06)
Why are attachments problematic? (14:12)
What is the difference between “making fun of” and “making fun with”? (14:27)
How did Lisa pull off being mean, but not mean-spirited? (17:34)
How has retirement been for Lisa? (24:04)
What is the “joy of immersion”? (25:56)
How do we best control our impulses? (28:21)
What is the difference between “helping others” and “healing others”? (36:43)
How do we separate the “why” and the “how”? (42:12)
Why do we cling to unhappy relationships, and how do we let go of them? (49:33)
How do you deal with the emptiness that often accompanies letting go? (55:41)
How do you determine when it is time to let go of a dream? (1:01:12)
LINKS
Book: Lost Connections
Book: Love People, Use Things
Essay: How to Start a Successful Blog in 2021
Essay: The Advice Epidemic
Instagram: Emma Krebs
Instagram: Max Lugavere
Instagram: Jordan Moore
Instagram: Podcast Shawn
Instagram: Danny Unknwn
Play: Stuffed
Podcast: Losers with a Dream
Podcast: Shopping Addiction
Resources: The Minimalists
Subscribe: The Minimalists
Text: 937-202-4654
Tour: The Minimalists
Watch: Dreams Don’t Come True—Decisions Do
Website: Lisa Lampanelli
MAXIMS
“Three ‘thank-yous' might mean ‘I’m sorry.’” —Lisa Lampanelli
“The person who’s offended has offended themselves with their expectations.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Being offended doesn't make you right.” —Ryan Nicodemus
“The objects of our desire often become the objects of our discontent.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“If you look at a calendar entry and it doesn’t give you joy, don’t do it.” —Lisa Lampanelli
“Chasing pleasure will make you miserable.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Sincere actions arise from sincere desires.” —Ryan Nicodemus
“Doing is a distraction that keeps you from being.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“As soon as you recognize the ‘why,’ the ‘how’ takes care of itself.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“A relationship can never make you happy; only you can make you happy.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Feeling empty doesn’t last forever.” —Lisa Lampanelli
“Rather than view something as empty, view it as clutterfree.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Don’t kill your dreams; kill your expectations.” —Ryan Nicodemus
“Dreams turn your expectations into nightmares.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“The thing you want is never the thing you want; what you want is the feeling the thing brings to you.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“More is never going to be enough—it’s always going to be the pursuit of more.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
This Maximal episode corresponds with Minimal episode 308.
Comments
Emma
Our relationships go far beyond people. Thanks for sharing, Cindy. We appreciate you!
Cindy Muzzi
I can really identify with what you all discussed about overeating when I’m alone and eating a healthier size portion when I’m eating with others. Also having cravings at 8:00 PM even though I’ve eaten a nice dinner an hour earlier. Interesting thoughts you all shared. I always thought this was a me thing. Never thought much about the why, just see that it’s something I’d like to change in my life and struggle to make a consistent change. Our relationship with food is so interesting.
Ricardo C Pinzon Jr
So many poignant comment! SO many hit close to home. I'm still seeking the "empty drawers!" Thanks guys! Thanks Lisa! You are awesome!
