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More clarification, another update
🕑 Added 2022-02-15 00:23:40 +0000 UTCHello.
Thank you for listening to my last update.
I have been urged to clarify some more, on my own time of course, and so here I am with more.
This audio is mainly about my former friendship with Mint.
I hope it gives some more clarity.
I hope this gives you a better idea of the friendship, I go through our dm timeline and try my best to remember vc calls from a year ago. I address what I think is all of the issues regarding me in her twitter thread - but also touch on other topics in the end.
I say it in the audio, but thank you for being patient with me.
If you think that a particular phrase or sentence I say in this audio isn't clear enough, please let me know and I will try to explain it further.
Comments
Anna D
Maybe the fact that you're unaware of other people's feelings is part of the problem. It's not always easy to confront someone who's making them uncomfortable. Especially as a woman interacting with male friends. It also seems as if it wasn't just you, it was the whole group dynamic where other guys joined in as well and that makes it even more complicated to speak up. I'm sure many women have experiences with a man, or a gruop of men, making them uncomfortable. And they don't want to make a scene so they just smile and nod along since it's what they've been taught to do. I have both been the pick me girl and joined in when my male friends have made sexual jokes about me and I have been the party pooper glaring or telling them off. And it usually doesn't matter of I speak up or play along, I still feel awful afterwards. So overall I wish I wouldn't have been in any these situations to begin with! 😕 There is always two sides of a story, and I don't know if your old conversations necessarily represents the whole story. Especially if it's just text conversations that can be interpreted in many different ways. What matters is that Mint believes that she did make it clear she didn't want to be treated a certain way, and you and other people still made her uncomfortable.
Acedia
@V for Vitalya you do need to stop butting in with things that are not relevant to the conversation at hand. Go somewhere else for that right now.
