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[#71] Uncensored - We Got High

🕑 Added 2024-04-23 19:00:05 +0000 UTC

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Lezzerlee

I had basically the opposite experience with my period, tampons etc. all because my parents started anatomy education very early (i was given scientific anatomy education games in grade school). They were both high school health & PE teachers so they saw the pitfalls of not having comprehensive sex-ed in their students over the years. It was never that stigmatized for me, and didn't seem like a big deal. I don't even remember much about my first period other than I got it some year in middle school and my mom told me how to use both pads and tampons + their absorbency. She never really hid her period or period products from me or my brother as kids as well. It was all very normalized Sex education and being open about body functions is so important. I would hope at some point that all girls get the level of education and lack of body shaming I had because it really has effected many aspects of my life from self esteem, to sexual relationships, to general health knowledge. Anatomy education is so important.

FullPlaid

🤘🤘

Tobi

Oh no I don't, I just read a bunch of stuff lol Yeah, there are a few things being tried, but as it usually is with climate and environment stuff it just comes down to less consumption I guess. Getting all those fixes to work perfectly before everything on earth goes to shit is not really achieveable. It's the same with cars. EVs can provide help, but in the end we need huge reduction of individual transportation and pedestrian/cycling cities

Jaded Kills

I was convinced I broke my hymen with a tampon until I ACTUALLY lost my virginity and I was like NOPE! THERE it is lmao

David

Life’s so short, make the most with what friends you currently have, I wish I did it more when I had the chance with those friends

may

it'd be so fun if yall did maya's bday together

PuffTheDargon

re: periods. As a dude, i was taught in like 7th grade health sciences. good public education + parents. thats the key.

FullPlaid

oh thats super interesting. do you work in a climate change field? apparently some of the solutions being explored are modified flight paths (to avoid the cons altitudes and certain atmosphere conditions), and flight times so that the contrail/cirrus clouds have a net cooling impact (cooling effect during day, heating effect during night).

Tobi

I think flying way less should still be the number one goal, as a large portion of climate impact does not come from emissions, but contrails (https://doi.org/10.1175/2009BAMS2656.1). But yeah, you already said near zero, I just wanted to specify the "near" part.

Kaitlyn <3

girl Paige has been my favorite player for three years... Im actually so stoked she is getting so popular that my favorite streamers are talking about her

Kayloox

Love the period talk! As a Pad user, I totally understand the tampon discomfort which is why I just never use them lmao unless it’s situationally necessary

FullPlaid

jet bio-fuel only costs approximately twice as much as fossil jet fuel. the wealthy could easily be using bio-fuels for their flights with nearly net zero carbon emissions. the creation of demand would encourage the growth in the bio-fuels industry and spur advancements in the technology -- bringing the cost of bio-fuels closer to the cost of fossil jet fuel. problem solved.

Okta

Congrats, ye both killed it with the streams last week 🎉 Ye should definitely do the birthday getaway and have some time to relax after all the hard work!

Gintaman

The "coping mechanism" angle seemed strange to me too. Expressing a frustration in the form of songwriting is a totally reasonable coping mechanism, but taking the months/years to refine it into a commercial product the intent to profit millions off of it goes beyond just using it as a coping mechanism.

Emyn

Ludwig's "Hi Girlfriend" was so adorable

Isobel Nixon

As a non-swiftie, I do think people often want to moralise their dislike of something, such that they're the morally better person for disliking something that someone else likes. Weird behaviour.

Kim D

I think the problem I have with swifties, saying this as someone who was in the top 2% of taylor streams on spotify' is that they want people to stop hating on them for loving her so much but if you say you don't like the new album or have the opinion that she needs to get over it or that the songs all sound the same the swifties jump down your throat and attack you and have to explain why she's so upset still and why this album is so amazing. The reciprocation for different views or opinions isn't there. You're only allowed to talk about her if its positive and that's so toxic. I can like her and her music and still think this album sounded really immature, rushed, and like a long run on sentence. And that's okay, it's also okay for someone to say it's their favorite album of all time, not everything has to be an argument and not every comment requires someone who thinks they know everything about her to try and justify why you're wrong for having your opinion

77katz77

WE still need a LegoLand trip someday!

This Guy

loving the new inebriated podcast vibes. Can we do cocaine next week?

ashyc

all the alveus collabs this week were so fun, I love seeing new people having fun interacting with the animals and being so involved! Amazing job maya and alveus staff , we loved it 🥰 excited for the wolves 😁🐺🐺

Atlantis

Burgular

smileye

QT i love you but the problem to me isn't writing about someone you had beef with, its mentioning their kids at all. Leave their kids out of it and idc if she didn't say anything bad about the kids. they're children she does not know and writing about them for millions of ppl to listen to and then use it as ammunition to attack their own mom???? thats pretty fucked. this is from someone who generally likes taylor. Im glad maya said something even if it was only for a few seconds.

Tyler Horn

dude wipes but tampons

Mitch Mitcherson

I love how much Maya hates men

Fritiof Geisler

Saying men can’t handle any ailment is way to real. I am rn lying in my bed like just fully out from getting a cold

taelur

Jacob Sartorius perhaps is also best known for playing Fortnite with ConnorEatsPants after famously putting it off for two years.

Shaun Cheah

Anyone else get That Funny Feeling at 13:00? "Googling derealization, hating what you find"

beechings (Abbie)

this is gonna sound INSANE but story time for yall for my 14th birthday i wanted to go swimming with my friends but i was on my period. i told my mum and she was like u can use a tampon. in the most chill way ever my mum explained everything to me, literally got some KY Jelly to help as well as my period was still super light. i was freaking out saying i didnt know how to do it and i was really stressed and asked her to help me because i didnt want my birthday to be ruined (emotional teen lmao), she literally sat down with me and step by step helped me and hyped me up to insert the tampon and push the applicator while she sat beside me ik it sounds crazy but it was honestly really chill and felt natural and made me feel so much more confident and comfortable, and more importantly, not alone and overwhelmed

Hayden Carr

As a swfitie for years I find some of QT's response to the "hate" a little strange, she says its made for swifties and not the general audience. If thats true than why choose to announce the album on the grammy stage with the entire music industry and world watching when she could have announced it at an Eras Tour concert to a crowd of swifties. Also QT says "if you dont like it, dont listen to it" but Taylor paid several radio stationS to play the album on loop for its first 24 hrs after it came out, it was literally forced onto people. Also no one is expecting her to "get over" stuff but when your at Taylors level of fame theres a certain responsibility to not encouraging your fans to harass or attack people and despite what Taylor might say in an interview or a speech she KNOWS songs like the Kim one encourages that. Lastly on Fear& QT said its dumb to make fun of the cringe lyrics because Taylor has always had cringe lyrics, and thats true, but the whole theme of this album is poetry, which puts a spotlight directly on her lyrics so lyrics like "I wanna live in the 1830s without all the racists" deserves to be criticized. Love the pod.

Jaded Kills

EXCUSE ME QT. YOU PUT A TAMPON IN LIKE A HOTDOG BETWEEN THE BUNS

ShleepyHead

i thought id say you didn't give us an update last patreon episode. XD

Ridorana12

41:35 that was a funny reaction to his age xD

carpetburns

My issue with Taylor swift is how just being a fan of her is almost a bigger appeal than the music itself. Also you’ll never hear a majority of people dislike an album because she never tries to do something that different so it’s always exactly what you expect. She has good songs for sure but at this point it really is starting to feel like “damn she just sings about boys and all the songs sound the same”. Not like she literally does the same shit all the time but I think if you look at the every song ever spectrum way more of her songs are touching than most musicians and if you really value music as an art form then you can’t begin to think of her as one of the greatest artists because she’s not doing enough to push the envelope with the music industry from a creativity standpoint.

Isaiah Brown

GOD DAMNIT! I knew the title was clickbait as soon as I saw the notification!

BisonHero

She's so rich, look at all her books!

Heather James

I love TTPD it’s such a good album! And I love your take QT on the whole. Also I’m glad I don’t have a period anymore thank you birth control! lol love you girlies!! 🤗🫶🏻

Sun

Okay and then QT’s birthday in Texas

spella!

the Tswift album kinda reminded me of the album, Tourist Season by Miel. breakup pop that, to me, flows into cohesive music a lot smoother

spella!

i can’t believe they got that high 😳

Attabui

Maya you should definitely do the SB birthday trip!! It sounds like so much fun!

Attabui

Idk as someone who really likes a lot of Taylor's music (wouldn't call myself a swiftie but I listen to her from time to time, I really like Evermore, Folklore, and Lover) this album is just not it so me 🫤 I think just way too many of the lyrics are just too corny and I had to stop listening. I really was excited to hear it. I think the difference with Cowboy Carter is that it's currently critically acclaimed and has a lot of roots in the black history of country music.

Kevin Hennessy

lol. The cope is strong.

Kevin Hennessy

Love Paige is getting the shout out!!! She’s the best player!

Shell

I don’t know why you’d even question having an absolute blast weekend for your birthday with your best friend. Of course you should go

LeahGia

As someone who likes some of her songs/albums but wouldn’t consider myself a Swiftie, I think the biggest thing fueling anger towards TS and her fans right now is the fact that she’s oversaturated and seemingly everywhere so non-fans or people who would prefer to just not listen feel like they can’t escape her or they’re tired of hearing about her. I don’t think that justifies any actual hate or meanness towards anyone especially her fans but it’s part of the why for the problem. I’m sure there are plenty of other reasons too and personally I think hearing the about the lore/fandom is interesting but that’s just my main theory.

Robert Craig

You should do it and fuck the in person podcast.

XL Macro

I’d let Cameron Brink ruin my life

Taco Wolf

The way Maya describes not being able to think before she talks, jumbling up sentences, not remembering that she replied a text to QT and having no idea what day of the week it is or what she's supposed to be doing today is my daily ADHD life lol.

awlia amir

i think maya should go for the vibes

Adrian

so excited to see what songs qt makes maya listen to on the bonus ep, my personal faves are florida!!!, whos afraid of little old me, and so long london

Tyler Nichols

I like Swift, but to deny how she is forced down everybody’s throat. There’s definitely some swift fatigue going on.

lewits

I had a bunch of huge projects this past week for college and Maya described everything I'm feeling rn perfectly. Couldn't have been a better time to watch this episode (and then later rewatch it because I might forget it)

Jose Marin

Crazy to hear them talk about going to an area I live lol if Maya does come you should take her to sushi bar in montecito. They’ve gotten pricey but still worth the Michelin sushi experience! I low key think qt would like SLO it’s chill and very green right now but it’s like almost a 2 hr drive. The whole Kim k posting I don’t get, she can’t enjoy the music and share it? Not a kardashians fan but are they forbidden from posting about Taylor anything now? Anyways this def wasn’t the worst episode ever even with the Taylor talk, those period stories were nuts!

Grace

right!! maybe tmi but I generally just turn the tap on, pop a squat, & in it goes 😅 easy wash hands and ur good. I feel like I wouldn't like not being able to fully control it with my finger lol

Michael Kiwan

QT needs to look up Cameron Brink

ghostwritersrus

The more I think about it too the crazier it is. I've literally had multiple women come up to me crying because they need a tampon, but then I offer one and they'll flat out refuse because there's no applicator 🤨

natbat420

ty for the wnba thirst content qt, happy lesbian visibility week!!

ghostwritersrus

Yes! I'm actually American but I've always used the OB ones without applicators. They're so much better for the environment and aren't that bad to put in. I've used applicator ones here and there and pinched myself with the plastic a couple times. That's so much worse than any uncomfortableness that comes with the non applicators

Couran

Maya definitely should go assuming QT doesn’t suddenly overcome her fears.

Grace

literally 2 minutes into this & i HAVE to say applicators for tampons are SO weird to me (Australian) like yeah u just put it up there as the tampon it's so easy?? & then I speak to an american who is scared to use tampons & like i get it bc i googled american tampon applicator & that shit looks scary af. also our tampons are a looot more compact. way less plastic waste too tbh.