you guys are awesome! but about the DMs...
🕑 Added 2021-11-21 00:19:14 +0000 UTCI made this post as well a while back but it's time to make it again. pleaaaaase don't use my DMs to get off, call me sexual nicknames, etc etc etc. I've been getting a surplus of a lot of people talking about a looooot of things and 'masturbating' in my DMs, telling me about it, talking about their sexual experiences or fantasies, etc. I'm talking thousands and thousands and THOUSANDS of words all hours of the day.
Yall, the support on my patreon is more than I could have ever asked for. I am so grateful and I really can never express how lucky I feel to have your support. It really does mean the world to me. But those DMs 1. make me uncomfy (i know i create nsfw audios, but those are characters.) and 2. I never respond to those DMs, but they just keep flooding in and i can't help but worry that it's an unhealthy one-sided interaction. I want you all to take care of yourselves and stay safe!
to clarify, I'm totally okay with DMs asking me questions and asking for help with anything that isn't working right, etc. I will always do my best to get to those :)
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Thomas Burns
[Virtue signaling supportive comment]
Austin Truslow
I’m sorry you’ve gotta deal with those people. Though I’m appreciative of the fire NSFW audios you put out. Keep up the hard work Queen. ❤️❤️
Orthyus
Jesus… some of y’all need to chill… just enjoy the content
Seanaxial
Another ASMR artist is Gina Carla. She has a Patreon page and Onlyfans page. And she sends DM's and responds to them. You have to get the fop tier to see more flesh and nudity.
Seanaxial
There are Onlyfans sites and some ASMR Patreon sites that engage the patron and encourage this behavior of exchange and welcome it. It may cost more money for more direct exchange in Onlyfans sites. There are practitioners who make their money from sex chat, exchanging nude and provocative photos. Don't be surprised if she asks to see a pic of your manhood Kaylani Lei is one who engages in that behavior This is just not the site for it.
Mattie
Have some respect people smh making content, especially sexual kind, doesn’t give you consent.
Xandu
The main problem is people who can't grasp the concept that "CONTENT DOES NOT MEAN CONSENT" it's very simple but some people just don't get it. This rule applies to NSFW cosplay, audio, literature, hell it even applies to porn stars and strippers on both sides of the coin male and female. Just because they the produce this kind of CONTENT and can understandably enjoy it themselves, it doesn't mean that they CONSENT to anyone who also enjoys their content because the artist is not their content. Anywho I hope enough people push this message around so it can help sink in to brains that aren't catching on yet.
Seanaxial
Artist have to be careful too. Health Ledger portrayal of the JOKER earned him posthumous Oscar. His performance was brilliant but the demons that he opened up his soul- to create this monster on screen tormented his soul. He committed suicide. Artist have to take care of themselves too.
Seanaxial
Yes. Many people saw he Dark Night, Health Ledger's last movie and was fine. I saw it and enjoyed bit. But there were some who wore trench coats and went in the theaters and began shooting people. We live in a crazy world. You can't try to make sense of it
Liam Locke
Ewww! Blech... It's really not hard to not be creepy. You don't do this. Not a good thing.
Martadore
if you want a word of well meant advice, either block or simply ignore those who would speak to you in such a fashion, and simply take joy from knowing that there are plenty of people who respect you and your work for what it is, and do NOT want to make you feel uncomfortable and are capable of simply enjoying what you are giving them already.
Martadore
They should really show a bit more respect, and take your feelings into consideration, and understand that you do not enjoy these kinds of interactions.
Kronk's Stronk Stonks
The fact this has needed to be said at all, let alone more than once is abysmal. Making NSFW content, or the themes within said content, is irrelevant. It does not equal consent to sexually charged private conversations. It does not mean the person behind the content is there for your use - because thats what those people are doing, passing the boundary of fiction for their own arousal, and its creepy af. No reason or excuse for it.
Solace
Shameful males bruh, not cool dawg, your a content creator not a sex line like jeez bruh, if u disable dms u got a right to
Henrik
Sometimes I am ashamed to be male
Potter
I’m sorry this is happening. Anyone who implies that it has to do with the content you create is entirely out of line. That shit is victim blaming . Seriously, reading some of these replies has thoroughly pissed me off.
Seanaxial
The behavior is inexcusable. Wholesomeness has its benefits. When you open Pandora's box of femdom, that is a darker side of fetishes that consist of bondage, control, submission and pleasure and pain. I used some sarcasm when I said Fawn will have us all on our knees groveling and licking her boots Though the loan shark is a creation, the doors that it opens to the demonic realm can be off the charts. My suggestion is to discontinue this character. Even those well verse in these arts of DOM deal with the side affects and back lash of consent related issues.
Tanithil Orimys
This is why I stick to the wholesomeness.
Richard Fenicks
I’m literally banned from the discord server and behaving better than these folks. Shame.
alex
That’s awful side note I’m kinda confused you recently uploaded the loanshark video on YouTube and it said the rest of it is here but I don’t see itn
what an unhealthy para-social relationship does to a mf 💔
The Jolly Dane
Some people really can't separate fiction from reality and it's super unnerving. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that 💙 communicating the problem like this to all your patrons is the professional thing to do, I hope that shit gets turned way down after this 🙏
TheTMoneyMan
Are you able to block them? If not, you probably should bring this up with Patreon.
Gotta love the internet, rules that should be known without being said become a playground for people who are down bad
Jerick barnes
Damn Simps always ruin shit. I’m so sorry you have to deal the nasty guys in you DM.
We all appreciate you Fawn, the ones who really care about you, not the weirdos in your dms. Stay safe!
Irrelevant_Dude
Oh my gosh, that is disgusting. >_< If you need to disable DMs I don’t think anyone will blame you