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Disaster

🕑 Added 2023-07-19 20:51:26 +0000 UTC

Comments

Fran Blanche

You are making so many assumptions about me and how I communicate and deal with others that are not true. You have misunderstood me and done much filling in with your thoughts here - But I understand what you are saying about yourself.

Jan Snyder-Ellerman

Do you really believe people don't want to be close to you because, "They cannot take the trauma of my life."??? How about realizing that we all have trauma, sometimes really bad long-term trauma and don't stick it into potential friends faces and assume their lives have been better if they don't pity us and give some special honor to our pain???? I got myself out of poverty, worked my ass off from age 11. Put myself through school and college, no grants, no loans, no family, no help from friends. And yes, the sharks are everywhere, and I've been bitten plenty. But, that's life. Everyone goes through it. Different circumstances, different traumas. Most try to present themselves as if they're doing fine and always have.

Ah Clem

I love this "podcasty" thing you are doing, and I will look forward to it every week. I hope you can continue it. I'll be listening to it while drinking coffee from my FranLab mug! Really excited about that!

Richard H. Shores

I have always been a "prepare for the worst and hope for the best" person.

Matt Wietlispach

I easily share material things and any technical knowledge I "think" I might have. Trust? Trust with true inner feelings and beliefs? No. Won't even say why.

So does anybody else feel that Fran is really, really channeling Laurie Anderson here??

Scott Baxter

Wow! Much respect. I'm still optimistic enough to be disappointed and scared pretty often, not enough to be shocked that often. Your frankness invites self-reflection. I've had to unlearn some ways that I used to cope as my world has expanded, but others still work. And every strategy helps, at a cost. And I don't think my tool set is ideal. Just what I have to work with. I don't know jack about your situation, but I appreciate your sharing your insights and experience!