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Tea With Dee - FRIEND DRAMA Story Time

🕑 Added 2023-12-06 16:29:54 +0000 UTC

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Gessica Stokes

I realize I’m a bit late in my response but I’m a newbie here. But yeahhhh, I wouldn’t lol

jaime

im late asfk but hell no dee 😭 i hope you cut her OFF. the way she lacks accountability and switches on you is gross. she is immature and that shit will only reflect over the years. if she cared about you she woulda apologized after wasting YOUR hour and 20 minutes of gas AND paid you back. then took herself to an AA meeting. if you really care about somebody you not finna excuse your bad behavior for being an alcoholic. you gone create a plan to keep you and your friend safe especially in brazil.

Kymberlee J

You definitely wasn’t wrong for leaving her! Especially since the first time she got drunk you was being a good friend and tried to take her home and she wasn’t fw it so it’s crazy that she gets drunk again then get mad when you leave her like who tf is bout to baby you atp? Like you grown asf then who tf is bout to sit there and let you cuss them out…she’s weird lol and you definitely not wrong in this situation. Sis is crazy 🤣

Bruno Duarte

Cause the thing is, u had already gave her a second change literally after the first time yall were together THE FIRST TIME and she did all that like. And now in another country and she does the same? nop i would never speak to her again but thats me!

Vey Vey✨🤍

Dee you had every right to leave her at that restaurant💯 I would have left her too. I don’t deal with people that have to yell at me an throw tantrums to get their point across. I don’t like confrontation like that, so I would’ve dipped and ignored her for the rest of the night. Also it seems like she was only mad because you weren’t gonna put up with her bullshit. She must’ve been used to people babying her and coddling her. Because, even like you said the first time y’all went out like that she got drunk so the fact that she got comfortable enough to drink around you not really knowing you like that, it seems like she’s used to this type of behavior and nobody around her told her that this type of behavior is not right.

r

she’s weird asf. people who can’t control their emotions and have angry outbursts, drunk or not, are a red flag

Trudy

She would’ve had to see me bout the pastries.

Julio Iglesias

Okay im late but girlllll😭 the pastries woulda had her put tf out in a foreign country😂 gtfo my airbnb w that bs. Honestly maybe it cause Im too strict but night 1 of getting blackout drunk and not apologizing for behavior or addressing it properly would’ve set off an alarm. I like to drink and have fun with my friends so if thats how she behaved first time seeing her in that setting it wouldve been a no. Sounds like someone you shouldn’t have met at this point in her life she needs to figure her shit out

jayslick

Damn u good storyteller😂 u really was hurt over them pastries😭 I know I’m like years late but hope u didn’t give her a chance. If u knew her for longer, I would def would’ve encouraged u to giver her another chance. But she got too comfortable. Good riddance

Winter Smith

Wtf No that bitch is fuck crazy

Ethyn Glenn

Oh nah that bitch crazy in the head, def shouldn’t give her another chance.

Dee Shanell

Lmaoo this "review" to this horror story is top tier. I'm dead at her being drunk while fucking up my reputation 😂😂 but you're absolutely right, women do get away with a lot more. I even admitted to being guilty of letting my female friends get away with toxic behavior I would never accept from a guy. I'm definitely getting better at cutting my female friends off now, I'm not about to keep dealing with their bullshit for the sake of "sisterhood" nahhh they gotta go. So yes, I did indeed RUN away from her and I haven't looked back since, despite her trying to reel me back in several times lol thanks for your opinion, it made me laugh out loud 🤣

Koda James

Alright, you asked for our opinion, so I’m gonna give mine, even though I know it’s late. First of all, you said you became friends with her via hiking (I assume in the woods). Okay sounds like a normal beginning to a horror story. Second of all, the tipping point for me would’ve been the pastries. I’m a guy, but I’m petty. That single incident would made me have to somehow someway get my fucking lick back. Even if it’s months down the line. But anyway, she clearly has the mindset of a child. Her blocking you on Instagram to talk shit about you on Instagram, and then unblocking you to deceive you as if you don’t know what the fuck happened on Instagram is dishonest and unloyal. She’s trying to make a fool of you, she’s trying to play you. Don’t let the likes of her punk you like that lol. It’s also a red flag because honestly, YOU have a platform, YOU have something to lose. She don’t give a fuck about your reputation (based off of the IG stuff). She will fuck your reputation up in a heartbeat, and not feel bad because she’ll be drunk while she does it. Don’t let the town drunk fuck up your reputation Dee. Now that I think about it, I’m actually genuinely fascinated if a guy did half the things that she did would you let that slide? Lol I hope I get reincarnated as a woman (I’m a straight guy). But I know as long as I’m a dude, there’s no way I can pull off even one of the things that she did in this story. Just makes me wonder why the red flag is different based off gender. A red flag is a red flag. This is a rhetorical question, but what’s the difference between a bozo man and a bozo woman, doing the same thing? 😂 I’m wondering if I’m tripping or not idk. Don’t let her finish the horror story. Run Dee, RUUNN!! 🏃🏽‍♀️💨 🥴🍹 I’m gonna watch the second video shortly.

Ax1s_ FN

Nah she tryna use you for your moneyyy she a weird ass bitch fr. How she gon get mad at you for walking out the restaurant after she cursed you out for not paying for her big nasty ass pizza..💀 yeah that would be the last straw for me. If I haven’t known you for a long time and you attempt to humiliate me in a public setting then I’m beating your ass 😂

Dee Shanell

Super crazy! lol

Dee Shanell

Hey Jeremy! But yes, people def take advantage. She's done lol

Xavier

im late but oh nah dee she crazy! if anything i wouldnt drink around her anymore cause it sounds like your problems with her only occur when she's pissy drunk so i'd defintely only hang around this chick when drinks aren't involved

Jeremy💕💕💕

Hiii dee I’m new! and I’m a big fan! watching this story time makes me feel that you shouldn’t continue on being friends with that girl. The first time she got drunk at that beach party should’ve been a sign to not continue yall friendship. Me personally I give friends one chance depending the situation. I feel like that should be everyone’s rule for friendships, because people try to take advantage 🤷🏻‍♂️🩷

Dre

Yea nah Dee she gotta u yelling in this foreign ass restaurant trynna embarrass us. She would have gotten cut off right there no more examples are needed.

Dee Shanell

Terrible! She had to go lol

Sachiii

@ Danyelle please don't give your two cents again. You sound toxic yourself with this mentality. If someone treats you horrible when they drink, you shouldn't be around them at all. Blaming the alcohol like they're not responsible for their own actions is crazy. And this woman is grown it was not Dee's responsibility to usher her back to the hotel after she attacked her for such a ridiculous reason 🙄

George Odembo

Nah this is a terrible friendship😂I do get what your saying though, people aren't perfect, but it seems like she's taking advantage of that. Also if she's not taking accountability then to her all this must not seem like a big deal

Sharma Sue

Stick together with someone who is exhibiting abusive behavior and showing signs they may physically assault you??? Make it make sense ma'am 💀💀 I pray for your well being because your decision making is off??

Dee Shanell

You're making inaccurate assumptions babe. I have one other friend who is only friends with her on IG...they're not friends in real life. And yes, I have another friend who said she can see why she was upset being "left" but when I gave her all the details she ended up agreeing that it was best to remove myself from that situation. And there was no imminent threat...not sure if you travel but all she had to do was stay in the restaurant and call an Uber then walk out when it got there to get back to the Airbnb...not sure why we're acting like we were in a war zone. It was a normal touristy area. No one in their right mind would stay around someone who's getting that aggressive with them. So if it kept escalating and she decided to hit me so we fight then what? I'm in jail because I wanted to baby a grown woman who can't handle her liquor? Nah. Again, you can deal with toxic drunk friends, I'm not. That's your stance though, and I'll let you have that. We can agree to disagree lol

Dany

Dee, I understand ur frustration. I’ve learned every person dosen’t fit every situation. It seems like ur friend is not the person to be around drunk. She can be enjoyable in other settings. It seems like issues only occur with her when alcohol is involved. Idk, I wouldn’t have left anyone in a foreign country or at least tell them I’m leaving & give them the choice to act right or get left behind. I mean u said ur other friend saw her perspective & y’all still have mutual friends. She’s obv not too much of problem if ur other friends are still cool with her. Just my two cents.

Dany

I do. I understanding of ppl in a drunken state. In a foreign country, we going to stick together. Too many horrid stories of young women in foreign country. We can stop being friends once we get home. We came here together, we leave together esp when our Airbnb is an hour away & we’re in a foreign country. Even Dee’s friend saw her take. Her being belligerent is wrong as well.

Sharma Sue

Girl code is staying around someone who's cursing you out and getting aggressive? Erm this is a horrible take sis, do you actually have friends? 😂🤣😂

Dee Shanell

You're literally the only person who has said this, you live in delu-lu land right along with that crazy ass girl lmfao. I'm childish for removing myself from a situation that was getting increasingly more hostile and could've easily turned violent? Girl you can be in toxic situations and let yo friends talk shit about you and whoop yo ass, I'm not 💀

Dee Shanell

Exactly!

Dany

Yall both petty and childish in this situation lol. It's funny tho! I wouldn't care if she was talking ish on ig, cuz both of yall was heated that night talking ish. She was drunk. Chop it up. only hang out with her when it doesn't involve liquor.

Dany

I can also see why she was upset on u leaving her while she's drunk and y'all in a foreign country. That's kinda against girl code. I'm not leaving my friend in a foreign country and something happens. I can see that she might've saw u storm off, but didn't think you left unless u told me u was calling an uber to leave. i would've thought u stepped outside or went to the bathroom, not left. Dang Dee

reylt

oh yeah she was WAYYYY out of line, and then she didn't even fully take accountability? people make mistakes, but how many times does someone need to make a "mistake" before it's just a pattern?

Dee Shanell

😂😂

Naeem Hartley

the way i died laughing when dee said i was gonna beat her ass in that airbnb if she fucked anything up! no but deadass tho like that girl is weird! and childish! lemme go watch the second part now chile

kylan

How is she going to ask you to split a bill when you literally covered her portion of the air bnb?? lol, this story got me heated

kylan

I think you’re being WAY too lenient with a girl that consistently took advantage of you & tarnished your image. Based off what you said her actions shows lack of maturity 🤷🏾‍♂️ definitely not a good person to keep in your circle especially if you even thought about laying your hands on the girl

Rubins Norelia

To be honest, if I were you I wouldn’t try to resurrect anything. Just let my friendship that we once had be a memory of how you need to not act with your new friends

saba_nana

dee honestly, this girl seems like instead of taking accountability for her own actions she will just make up some random story to fit her narrative and make herself look better, best to stay away imo!

Dee Shanell

Thank you! I've come a longgg way

Dee Shanell

Period 😂

Mr. Squidward

Good job holding your composure because there were so many points in this story where you could’ve beat her tf up

lilrickyfrm51

Lol Your way of phrasing things is hilarious 😂😂 "Bitch, GTFO the restaurant and UBER YO WAY HOME!!" 😂😂

Luke Redgate

Sounds crazy, who tf smears pastries? What the pastries had to do with anything??

Dee Shanell

Thanks babes!

Dee Shanell

True!

Naïla

unrelated but deeee you look so pretty here 😂😍

Zolanski

You were not wrong at ALL, the more you tell the story the more it’s apparent that’s not your friend. I think that’s a friendship that’s doesn’t need to be rekindled !

Nicole

You made the right choice by leaving her cause hadve you stayed, it most likely would've went left. You also should side-eye the other friend that said she understood why the drunk would be upset. After hearing half the video there's no way you can side with that drunk ass friend lol

Dee Shanell

And those pastries were fire too! They were pastel de nata ☹️ was really looking forward to eating them. The next morning she said they must have gotten smashed in her backpack and that she just put them on the counter...but it was clear they were deliberately smashed smh

Dee Shanell

Agreed

Imani Gordon

To be honest I think it best to keep your distance from her.

Ja’Kari Bullock

the pastry part would've had me heated... would never speak to her again

Sachiii

I can't wait for the update I hope you dropped her 😂🤣

Dee Shanell

"you not coming over my house" lmaooo period!

Dee Shanell

Bars lol but yeah you're totally right, I've definitely noticed that people tend to take my kindness for weakness when I give chances so I'm learning to be a bit more strict in this area. You have a great day too, thanks for your feedback

Dee Shanell

Lol yeahh that's a fair method

Dee Shanell

😂😂

Jj Bap

Honestly speaking, if I was her I would’ve paid for your food or something else because you paid majority of the money for the house. Don’t get back in contact with her because if she can go off like that for simple shit then I don’t want to see when it’s something bigger. It took her a couple of hours to talk shit about you that’s not a good friend. The best advice to give her is to seek help ASAP.!! Fool me one time shame on you, fool me two times can’t put the blame on you, fool me three times fuck the peace sign..(JCole). One more thing that’s a good trait that you have wanting to give people chances but dont give it out so much that they walk over you. Have beautiful day!🩷

Josh

I def support the cut-off! Personally, I give em three strikes and let them know after strike 2 you got one more time to run your damn mouth 😂 so you could go that way if you do want to hear her out.

Boujie

What K CAMP say Cut That Bitch OFF✂️

creaminz

i just watched it and yess cut her off dont even think twice about it. i’ve had a similar situation and those crazy when drunk friends are not it. its not gonna end well so cut her off (if you want to lol)🫶🏽💕

MykeYonce

ooouuu we need more tea time! also, i would not wanna be friends with someone like that. if it happened once, ok cool but if it’s becoming a pattern then you have to just accept that this is who she is. friends can be toxic too and she def sound like a toxic person. y’all are both grown and you don’t have time to be babysitting someone the same age as you. if you really do take a liking into this girl tho then what I would suggest is to just be acquaintances. y’all don’t hang out all the time but only on certain occasions. we can go have lunch, we can go shopping together but i’m not partying with you and i’m not drinking with you and you not coming over my house and i’m not going over your house type shit!

ella

U know what I hear it especially when you have love for someone it’s hard but at the end of the day if she stresses or causes you drama she ain’t a real friend. I do think though you guys could be distant friends like see each other once and while but maybe not as close ❤️

Volflion

I know this might be an old upload, but I hope you let that relationship die lol it taught you a lesson, and that’s all it should be. Definitely don’t let her keep putting all that negativity on you.

LinaCyber

Hey Dee, I'm definitely the same when it comes to letting my friends get away with things. I'll definitely say stay away as do you want to be friends with someone who when they get drunk or mad 1) blocks you 2) even though she's aware of how she acts she doesn't fix it and 3) smears your pastries on the counter just because she's annoyed. 4) Even if you did go with her home after the restaurant she'ld still be pissed off regardless especially since she was drunk also you did good removing yourself from the conflict 5) You don't need to be stressed over someone being childish and going off on Instagram about you and then next day switching up and wanting to be buddies. I know she might be close to you but is she worth all that stress especially when she knows how she gets but continues to do it anyway.

angelito

you could try to give her another chance but with a certain distance. like "yeah we can meet up sometimes when you're in LA and go out together, but i don't wanna be involved with your craziness."

Dee Shanell

Yeah I thought about just not drinking with her, but she seemed too mentally unstable..liquor shouldn't make anyone act like that. Then finding out she was talking shit about me on social media was the final straw

Dee Shanell

Jail aint fun, I gotta be smart about how I move lol but yeah she was a mess!

....

I’m sorry but I would’ve cut her off! If she does this so many times, even you tried the best you can to make this friendship work out. Just leave her, she’s a grown woman.

Lancecaster

OMG tht "When the check comes" I knew exactly what time of timing she was on. She's defo the type of friend to take advantage it sounds like. I wouldn't go back to tht girl. She's a verbal abusive person but it only takes a few drinks too many for her to put hands on you. Sounds like she has an alcohol problem and that's not a thing to be taken lightly fr. If she's truly a good friend when she's not drinking then maybe tell her she can't drink around you anymore it makes you uncomfortable or something like tht. You weren't wrong to leave her at the restaurant as long as you knew she was safe. Sorry you went through that! You got patience bc the wayyy I would've just called 911 when she was talking about just let me drive that would've been the first and final straw with her. (the beach part)

Zion

Girrrrrl you got a lot more patience than me lmao. Sis needs to stay cut off since she's immature and irresponsible with herself. I commend you for keeping your cool cuz she woulda gotta ass whoopin fasho lol.