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BTS/Outtakes: Old Apartment Tour

🕑 Added 2020-12-01 02:20:44 +0000 UTC

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Very liminal and very valid.

Here are some silly and wholesome clips for the memories <3 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNC5DYH1b5E&list=PLJcziHZm2shgqPrgHaVuz0GfJxW2kKvWs

Dave Hardenbrook

"I don't need to live with these ghosts" -- I hear you -- That's how I felt when I recently moved out of my old place.

Jessica Cheeri

It is interesting to see the space in a different context. What was the rent like there though?

Antero Duarte

Very valid indeed

fuck trauma all my homies hate trauma

How's your new place are you liking redoing it? "fashion show, fashion show at brunch" =) https://youtu.be/XPg_BE6EA94 (the old apartment looks actually haunted). Sage!

love the dead ringers poster <3

I recently watched a video of Jammidoger's where he decided to look at some old pre-transition pictures of himself. While he did cringe a lot at himself, he was able to also laugh and enjoy the memories - and he said this took him a LONG time to be able to do! The point is, he's eight years into his transition and he's just now in a place where he can look at his pre-trnasition pics and not feel intense dysphoria. You're four years in - don't worry, sweetheart! It's ok and perfectly normal to distance yourself from your pre-transition life for a good long while. You're cultivating and entirely new life and identity and that will take some time. But one day, those old vids and pics will no longer cause you pain. You'll just beam with pride at how far you've come. We love you regardless, and respect your decision. Becoming a woman is tough - but rewarding (whether you're cis or trans)! Anyways, just wanted to leave a note of encouragement for you - see you on the next vid or stream! Happy moving! Remember, it's another wonderful new beginning!