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Not YOUR kink Conten
🕑 Added 2023-10-31 12:00:07 +0000 UTCSugar Content can’t really be categorized into one box. You might find a Daddy, or a play partner, who are interested in specific niches or fetishes. Some of them might seem weird to you, foreign to you, or do nothing for you. And by that I mean, aren’t your kinks or fetishes. Some of them may not even seem like a sexual thing.
One of my favourite examples of this is the **feet fetish**. I personally don’t get it… It’s not my thing. But I have a handful of clients, and play partners, who LOVE feet. Even though it’s not my kink, I still cater to those who enjoy it.
Here are some things that you can do to cater that aren’t your personal style:
-Start with some initial research before starting down this path. Look up niches, kinks. Find Facebook groups that are about safe kink play. Some of my favourite rabbit holes start on Google.
-Familiarize yourself with porn. If you aren’t comfortable, searching it, or even looking at it… This may not be the career path for you. Look at the top categories. Take a deep dive into the kinks and fetishes sections. Learn what certain acronyms mean like; CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) or JOIs (jerk off instructions).
keep in mind, you don’t actually have to watch the videos or the content if you don’t want to. Simply searching the categories, and seeing what’s out there, will open your mind to a whole New World You wouldn’t even expect.
-Always ask questions! There is no harm in showing interest in some thing you don’t know a lot about. A lot of people will jump at the chance to explain what they love to you. If you were like me… And you would prefer to look more professional, you can always try to google things before responding or agreeing to something.
-NEVER yuck someone’s Yum. Just because you don’t like feet, doesn’t mean you should shame someone for it. Put yourself in their shoes. How would you feel if somebody made front of your favourite sex position. If someone made fun of your favourite food.
if the person is making, you feel uncomfortable, or there fetish is… It is always kinder to leave the conversation with a simple phrase; “that particular Kink isn’t something I dabble in. Maybe in the future we can revisit this need. But until then, is there anything else I can do for you?”
-Open communication is very important! If it’s something you’re not comfortable with, explain this to them, and include reasons as to why. Sometimes a fear you have can be something easily communicated, and then worked through with your partners/SugarParents.
-It’s OK to say NO. You are not obligated or required to fit your self and someone else’s kink or niche if you feel uncomfortable. SURE, IT MIGHT BE A QUICK BUCK… BUT NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS WORTH DESTROYING YOUR CONFIDENCE AND COMFORTABILITY IN THIS FIELD. You will either become more comfortable with it as time goes on, or you won’t be. Don’t force yourself to be ready for some thing before you really are. I made that mistake… And I’m still slightly traumatized from it.
As always; if you have any questions, concerns, or need a clarification on anything pertaining to this post. Feel free to message me or comment below.!
Comments
Faye
I am also a photographer 😊 it for sure comes in handy
Carrol Butler
Great photo I'm a photographer professionally and the composition is great
Amber Wilson
What inspired you to become a dom? As my tastes and desires have changed I’ve wanted to delve into becoming a dom for a daddy, I am probably one of the few interested in IRL sugar because of my lifestyle.
Faye
As a professional Dom, I started shaving less knowing it’s a very popular fetish
Amber Wilson
Delving into fetish and kink forums really helped me heal a lot of my self image. I post a lot on Reddit forums where it’s for a specific kink/fetish and it really makes me feel more comfortable when people are upvoting, anticipating more content, and some have even sent me invites to other forums. Like I started on a ‘chubby mommy’ forum one morning, and by the afternoon I had an invite to a forum that was specifically for navel shots of women who don’t shave - which led me to just how wide the non shaving fetishes can be.
