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News + Life update 🤔
🕑 Added 2024-10-05 01:00:07 +0000 UTCHi patronites! 🥰 Hope you're having a great Friday!
Today I wanted to share some thoughts I'm having lately.
These last few months have been really intense, with the loss of a close friend, the floods, my father-in-law passing away, and of course, losing Lia. All of this hit me hard, and I ended up losing focus on my routine. I started eating more processed foods, indulging in sweets, and drinking too much caffeine. You know how life can get out of control sometimes 😅
But recently, I’ve realized that I need to step up and get back on track. My body’s been feeling the effects of the unhealthy habits, and it’s become clear that I can’t neglect my health like that. With my family history, it’s even more important for me to stay on top of things. I don’t want to risk bigger problems down the road 🫠
Last week, I went to the doctor for some lab tests, and while the results showed slight changes, nothing too concerning came up 🙏 But on Friday, I wasn’t feeling well and had to go to the hospital in the morning 🥺 I was seen pretty quickly and had to do some imaging exams in the afternoon. Thankfully, those results were normal, which means my severe reflux is really caused by stress and bad habits 😭 Because of this, I had to push the final September set to this week...
After that, I made the decision to rest over the weekend and disconnect from everything. I started by turning off all my phone notifications! And it works well 🥺 Also, I realized I had been working every single day with no exceptions. Some days more, some days less, but still, non-stop. From now on, I’m going to respect my weekends because, after all, I’m human too, and I need rest! 😅 (And I know I already made these plans before 😬)
Last week I told you I was going to see a psychiatrist on Monday, and I did! Surprising a total of 0 people it turns out I really have ADHD! And a strong one 😂 The doctor was shocked that I waited 34 years to seek medical help. Like I explained to him, I really thought I could beat ADHD with good habits and routine, but it turns out ADHD is what makes me NOT able to stick to good habits and routine for a long period. So, since Wednesday, I’ve been officially on a medication for ADHD 🥺 So far, I haven’t felt much change, just some side effects like nightmares, which I was told are normal during the first few weeks. My current dose is very low, and the plan is to gradually increase it in the coming months. The good news is that this med also treats anxiety, so I’m hopeful for some positive results.
I also finished the missing September set this week, and it turned out amazing! 🥰 Anyone who was on LVL 100 in September will absolutely love it! ❤️ In addition to that, I’ve also got the October sets ready, and they are incredible! Starting next week, I’ll be posting previews.
A hint: I’ve done a version of this month’s cosplay before, and you all loved it 👀 For LVL 100, I’m bringing a special version of it 😋 And for the modeling set, it’s going to have a spooky vibe 🚧
Speaking of spooky... Spooktober is here! 🎃
PS: Unrelated gym photos, but I really didn't know which photo to use to this post 😂
PS 2: Last photo is the best! 😋
PS 3: This is also a reminder for YOU to take better care of your health! 😭❤️
Love you! 🤗 Have an awesome weekend, guys!
Comments
Miles
“After that, I made the decision to rest over the weekend and disconnect from everything. I started by turning off all my phone notifications! And it works well 🥺” HALLELUJAH FINALLY 🥹 “From now on, I’m going to respect my weekends because, after all, I’m human too, and I need rest! 😅” HALLELUJAH FINALLY X2 🥹 “Surprising a total of 0 people it turns out I really have ADHD! And a strong one” 🤷♂️, I almost called this 11 years ago 😅, “I’ve been officially on a medication for ADHD 🥺 So far, I haven’t felt much change, just some side effects like nightmares, which I was told are normal during the first few weeks. My current dose is very low, and the plan is to gradually increase it in the coming months. The good news is that this med also treats anxiety, so I’m hopeful for some positive results” Well, I have the ryu and dragonball mindset of just pushing through with raw discipline, as it’s how I conquered most (not all) of my problems, but I know that’s just me. But given the life you live Vedo of always something going on 24/7, and then a tragedy killing productivity for months, I’m glad you got the meds for a forceful passive help in conquering this. Don’t ever feel shame that you needed it, it’s not defeat, it’s assistance conquering bigger villains, just, through this next trial, keep monitoring yourself and how you feel, throughout the months ahead and then you guys judge from there the best course of action 🥺🥺.
Miles
Having just recently got over another round of Covid, I hear ya on the heart stuff, all I’ll say is dosing with some Coq10 has been helping me regain my vitality (can do research there’s no negatives to it) And if your still having lingering lung issues, to look into a lung training device.
Miles
I think I agree with both of you in this case, Fues side of the fear of the meds creating a “lasting dependency” and victors side of ultimately it’s up to them to handle this and gotta have faith they will handle it before it becomes too much
Milos
Great! Take care of yourself! And thanks for the reminder to do the same. :)
Fue_XG
If you are that sure, then perhaps I shall be too. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think you're one of the few here that's most closest to them, so I'm relieved to hear your opinion. <3
Victor
I trust Dani (and Edu 😉) to keep track of how the medication affects her. If there are any problems, I'm sure she'll voice her concerns to the doctor. I'm confident she'll be ok. 🙏
Fue_XG
It's the medication part that worries me. It can either help or destroy someone, and I've seen it happened on many occasions that I honestly don't know how to feel about it. But I am glad that at the end of the day Danielle know of her condition and was medically diagnosed, and I think that's also a step in the right path too :) And likewise, Victor. Always a pleasure seeing you. I wish you the best as well.
Victor
I think it's a good thing that Dani got confirmation of what she suspected all along, that she actually has ADHD, and can now take additional steps to manage it better. You keep taking care of yourself too, Fue. 💪
Fue_XG
I’m extremely guilty of overworking too, Danielle. Similar to your habits, I’ll work every single day and most of the time choose my work over my social/personal life. It may be rewarding, but it’s really not worth it either. I do very much think it’s a better choice to truly unwind over the weekends and spend those moments to live your life and do what mends your health. Heck, I’ve always said that I’ll still keep my tier level even if you choose to go on a month or two break... but I also understand why you can’t. :( Just do remember to not be too hard on yourself, Danielle. It really isn’t worth it, and we’ll always be here to support you no matter what happens. It sucks to hear that you’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and are taking medications for it, that does worry me a bit. I don’t know anything much about ADHD, just that you can’t cure it and that you could be taking medication for life. I hope the side effects go away and that you feel better soon. I honestly can’t think of what the special set may be. If I have a guess, I’ll drop it down in the comments, but for now I’m completely blank and clueless. And thanks for reminding us all to take better care of ourselves too. Thank you, thank you. And I wish anyone who is struggling to improve their health the best too. Much love!
Victor
As for that new cosplay, you got me thinking. 🤔 I'm going to guess either Honeybee Tifa or Nurse Morrigan? 🐝💉 (BTW I love that last photo too, but also all the ones before it. 🥰)
Victor
I'm glad you took the time to see both the general doctor and psychiatrist to get some answers, and even more glad to see you optimistic about the results and how to proceed. The medication should start making a positive difference in your life once your body has enough time to process and adjust to it. Your daily and weekly habits such as your diet, exercise routine, and disabling your notifications on weekends may take time to establish fully. Don't beat yourself up if things don't go according to plan sometimes, but at the same time be sure to hold yourself accountable and treat yourself with the care and respect you deserve. Be sure you love yourself as much as we love you. 🥹
Rocco
Fiz teste de tdah esse mes esperando a resposta da psineura pra saber o resultado >.< pelo q percebo tenho algumas coisas e outras não , vai entender haha
HitsuBT
So sorry for your losses, I think that'll throw anyone for a loop. I also had a thing with medical stuff this last week. Still going to see a specialist. (I've always had heart issues due to some problems I had when I was a kid and when I got COVID in 2021 it rended the shit outta my heart power... I was told to take it easy with my running which is not something I wanna hear ...). Anyway I hope you continue to get to do your workouts and feel better soon. Folks don't know the power of a mood booster from a good workout Dx! Also no worries on the disconnecting. I need to do that one of these days but running an online gaming group doesn't really give me a chance to do that xD! I am trying to do more art though and I really want to start beefing up my portfolio more and nab some more commissions :o! (Send some good vibes for that bahah). Can't wait to see the new sets! Gonna try to work on my health too xD! Be safe and well!
