The Bro-zier!
🕑 Added 2024-09-09 18:13:00 +0000 UTCOK, so this one is a little bit different for me but since it’s September, I thought I should post something a bit out of my comfort zone.
When I was getting ready for the Halloween shoot last year, I ordered some women’s lingerie with the concept being a male devil pinup. my intention was never to use the bra part, but I thought it would be kind of funny to put it on and take a picture. The problem was it wasn’t funny and it felt incredibly surreal.
This was the first time I saw a picture of myself that I was embarrassed by. Like truly truly embarrassed by. I’m at a point in my life where I’m not too worried about my parents seeing my content on the Internet, but for some reason, the idea of them seeing this photo made my skin crawl. I know for a fact that it’s some sort of internalized toxic masculinity bullshit, but GOD DAMN, if it didn’t fuck me up.
I think what made it extra weird was the fact that I honestly found the picture to be quite sexy, but was also incredibly embarrassed by it at the same time. I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea to see a strong muscular man in women’s lingerie, but I found it hot in a strange way.
Anyway, I’m not gonna write a whole book about this, but I just wanted to take this chance to post the photo because it’s sexy, it’s out of my comfort zone, and that’s what this month has always been about!
Comments
Gavin Lowe
Men in lingerie is honestly the hottest
Syll
There’s no shame in experiencing all sides of your fluidity. You are sexy and you show it. Does it really matter what society says? Maybe, but it really should only matter what you think!
Bruce Wilson
The bulge on this. Wow
Nicholas Thoryk
Your tiddies look great 🥰 Maybe an Elektra getup in your future?
Alan Fischer
Damn! You look great 👍🏻
Dan Treacy
Elizabeth Olsen better watch out, she could be recast! You do gender swap so well and effortlessly - you can pull off the sexy fem too, we believe in you 😉
Jocko Ak-shan
You're welcome 🙂
Michael C
A willingness to exam our thoughts and beliefs is incredibly powerful. Thank you for posting this.
Michael C
Yeah, getting over our socialization can be really difficult. The nice thing is that this platform is a concentrated means of helping to break free from those constraints. By surround ourselves with supportive people, we can learn to accept our authentic selves without embarrassment. Now I'd like to be one of those supportive people: this pic of you is hot AF 🔥💕
Christian Frahme
This caption surprised me, because you look just as confident as ever in this shot. I think it's great when you play with femininity on here.
Jesse
Sexy
Jacob
You look fantastic. I think there is something to be said for trying new things. It may not work or you may end up not liking it, but bravo for at least trying!
Ryan De Sanary
That’d have to be the hottest pic you’ve posted
Nick Brown
honestly...you look super hot in this...
Hugo Rios
You mean this isn't your Elektra Cosplay?!
Heathen Soldier
😮 I shouldn’t be as aroused as I am
jksmith
Yeah not my most favorite. Looks great from the belly button down. Lol. But I’m just one person with one opinion. You are gorgeous no matter what you attempt
Russell Yost
I don’t think you’ve ever had a post get me so excited! And that’s saying a lot!
PJ Carambia
You look f*cking hot. Clothing can't diminish your masculinity. You're the same Hamm no matter what you're wearing. Let yourself feel as masculine or feminine as you want.
Clay Poupart
Sexy every time. You rock this and every other look.
David Jenkins
Hot as holy hell 😍
JB
More of this please! Pretty please? 🥵
Matthew Dykes
You look incredibly beautiful! Don’t think for a minute that a mix of masc and femme isn’t sexy - it’s unbelievably sexy!!
Chris Daniel
Thick in all the best places. 🤤
Jason
🔥🔥🔥
Jocko Ak-shan
I'll be honest, I was fairly uncomfortable seeing you in all of it. I had to ask myself why I was fine with the pics you took utilizing the lower half of the lingerie and not also the top. I'm not sure. Something I need to examine because you're clearly masculine as hell. 👍 But I applaud you for moving past your discomfort and showing this. It IS sexy.
Guy Baker
Thanks for going out of your comfort zone and sharing. It is a really nice shot
Bobby Flores
I remember the photo spread now and I didn’t realize it was the same lingerie
Kurt Steeves
That sounds like a lot to unpack. It can be tough o
Bobby Flores
I think you look incredible in this photo, I am curious to the outcome of the Devil pinup
Matthew Wroblewski
Please write a book on it because that was super real but also, I love this and think it's super hot too! Hopefully you can find a happy medium and take some that don't make you feel embarrassed in the future!
Belmont (@TriadGaymers)
Feels very classic Elektra
Fooch
This is extremely sexy. Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience with us. Keep doing you. 🤗
voxGeminus
you def pull it off, like woah! 💙💙💙
Josh Weidner
I think you filled it out rather nicely
Kevin Knypstra
WOW