The Birthday day
🕑 Added 2025-12-21 19:52:59 +0000 UTCYesterday was my birthday, and as anyone who knows me or has been around for a while can tell you, my birthday is actually my favorite day to be alone. I usually try to get all the social obligations and birthday festivities out of the way before the actual date so that I can just exist in total peace and quiet when the day arrives.
In years past, I have gone away or checked into a local hotel to hide, but this year was the first time I have had a birthday while living on my own. I was really looking forward to a day of listening to podcasts, cleaning, organizing, and just getting lost in my own space with no expectations from anyone.
Unfortunately, the universe had other ideas. The night before my birthday, the power went out and stayed out for almost 20 hours. I had to go to the gym just to get a shower and then ended up heading over to hang out with family, which was probably the one thing I specifically did not want to do on my birthday. To make matters worse, when I finally got home, I realized that all the frozen food in my fridge had thawed and started to smell. I spent my birthday evening tossing out food and scrubbing my freezer. To be fair, I did tell the universe I wanted to clean and organize, so maybe this was just the world forcing my hand.
All in all, it was a pretty dog shit birthday, BUT I still have plenty to be happy about! I had an amazing time with Shaun on the 19th where we ate incredible food, had some great drinks, built Lego, and generally had a blast. Today, I am finally getting to relax and do nothing but wrap presents, listen to Christmas music, and make a gingerbread house.
This post is absolutely me feeling sorry for myself, but honestly, I donโt even care. I am surrounded by people who love me, and you all make me feel so incredibly supported. I feel truly blessed to have the life I do.
Thank you, everyone!
Comments
WAGNER DIAS PEREIRA
Oh my gosh
Jay Logan
Happy Belated Birthday!
John Langley
Belated Happy Birthday even if it did not quite go to plan. Thank you for all of your wonderful posts and I hope the Holidays and New Year bring you much Joy!!!
Michael Hamm
Lots of great things happen this year! Thank you!
Michael Hamm
Thanks!!
Michael Hamm
Thank you!!
Michael Hamm
Well do better next year! X
Michael Hamm
Wonky can be fun! Thank you!
Michael Hamm
Itโs already got better! Thank you!
Michael Hamm
Hahaha perfect! Thank you!
Jared Martin
Happy birthday! May this new age bring you food that stays frozen and showers at the gym only when you want them, lol.
James Cockburn
Happy belated Birthday ๐๐๐. Sorry about the awful day hope the rest of the year is better.
Brandon Fields
Thought it may have been a bit wonky and wild, Happy Belated Birthday!
PJ Carambia
Happy birthday, Hammy! ๐๐๐ I feel you on this, my bday was really shitty this year.
Jamie White
I hope you had the happiest birthday ever, my friend
Jesse
Happy birthday ๐
Giorgio Ronchi
Even if it wasn't the greatest of birth-days, I wish you a wonderful birth-year ๐ฅฐ