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Building a powerful Feminine Mindset
🕑 Added 2018-04-04 12:58:31 +0000 UTC All of you that are going trough the Academy program, or that are thinking of joining, here I want to talk about what matters most to me in a student's work effort when doing tasks.I see a lot of students that ask things such as "I hope I did this right", or "Is this the right way to do it?".
I like to talk about right and wrong for a moment.
These are important concepts, and when doing a task you might be asking yourself "Am I doing this right?" or "I might be understanding this in a wrong way".
There is a difference between not knowing, such as when an instruction is written in a way that it assumes you know something you do not. If you tell your grandmother how to tweet, she might not understand half of the words you say - this is because she lacks understanding of those words and the way forward here is that she learn those words, and the concepts they refer to. Grow that curiosity and ask ask ask <3
If however an instruction says "Go find beautiful girls lying on a bed with casual clothes" then that is clear enough to do the task, since the task includes you making your own choices. That you use your own creativity, or at least go and look at what others are doing and get inspiration from that, and then make your own choices based on that.
It leaves a lot of room for interpretation and this is where concepts of right and wrong becomes not-so-useful.
Is it wrong to assume casual could also mean business? No, while casual clothing generally does not mean business clothing, since in fashion that would often be distinct categories, in this task however you could also view casual as a way of explaining it should not be a hardcore XXX settings. So would a bikini count as casual in this setting? Again, at a beach house it could very well be a casual outfit to wear a bikini right? But in an apartment in the city, probably not?
So the idea is not to limit your choices, but rather to guide them.
Remember that most times there really is no right or wrong, in your Sissy career one important thing that will gain you a lot of feminization points is to be aware of your thoughts, especially around concepts of right and wrong that society puts on us. A lot of cultures on this planet has this underlying assumption that most things are easy to categorise. In reality, answers depends on the uniqueness of the situation.
What I tend to think is important in a specific task is that you put in honest energy and effort to really do what you think would meet the purpose of the task. It is of great value that you stick to completing a task in full. That you made choices of your own while doing so.
So what if you made choices that maybe where outside what was intended? Maybe then you would not learn? Well, I think when you see other students present their work that you will learn from being inspired but how they went about the task. If you do so then that just helped you grow, it helped you see a different way, and this is the whole point.
You get this learning experience best if the decisions you make are your own. So go for it. Aim to do well and make your interpretation of what would suit best for you.
Just because you look at others and say "I like that" does not mean you are not making your own choices - that is just another way that you can get inspiration so you can find what the wonderful inner you resonate with.
Own your choices, learn, and shamelessly take inspiration from others <3
If you love something, if it feels good to you, then go for it.
And as your concepts of right and wrong becomes not so black and white, so will your self acceptance, your realizatdion that you and all other humans are complex, and the boxes we try to fit into may not always surve us.
It is not a paradox to stay open minded and question the world at the same time, it is the way towards a deeper, warmer and more mature feminine mindset of the world that you are free to embrace <3
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Elizabeth Green
Amazing inspirational writing, a must read for all. <3
