I just got married!
🕑 Added 2021-06-28 00:20:37 +0000 UTCHowdy y'all!
My dream wedding was 3 years in the planning (one more year thanks to Covid), and after all that build up, I'm happy to say it really was the wedding of my dreams!
I always wanted to get married outdoors in front of water, trees, and snow capped mountains, and Fernando and I found the perfect spot at Black Butte Ranch in Central Oregon.
If there is interest, I can share more details and pictures, but because you all are the awesome members of the Woolfpack, I wanted to share at least a few with you now.
We won't get our professional pics of the wedding for at least a few weeks, but our photographer, the amazing Dennis Dizon of Studio Dizon, did share a few with us from our "engagement shoot" which took place the day before the wedding at BBR. The cover photo above is one of those pics.
Here's another one of me looking up at my handsome fiancé:

I can't wait to get the rest of the photos from Dennis. Luckily, I didn't have to wait to see some of the photos our guests shot.
This is Fernando and I in our wedding suits:

We actually had two aisles for our ceremony instead of one (because we wanted to come together at the same moment), so here we are walking down the aisles. (That's our photographer, Dennis, on the left, capturing the moment!) All the flowers were by the spectacular Emily Miller of Bend Floral Artistry.

Here is our cake.

There's actually a story with that cake. Fernando and I had a tough time deciding on the flavor, and unbeknownst to him, I sent our baker at Foxtail Bakeshop a recipe for our favorite cookie, the Ricciarelli, which is a chewy, almond cookie. The baker actually hadn't heard of that cookie before, but the cake she made from that inspiration was perfect. And when Fernando and I tried the sample at the tasting, we knew we had found the perfect cake. Add some stars in a beautiful night sky, and it was a very Alex and Fernando cake. :)
(Also, you might notice that our topper is special, too. We actually got scanned for that, Tron-style. You know how I am. ;) )
Neither Fernando nor I are dancers, but we did take a few dance lessons with the incredibly patient, talented and enthusiastic Emily Coles. We won't be quitting our day jobs, but we did have a lot of fun with our first dance together, as you can see here:

(And yes, with this photo I can definitely see all 19 of the COVID 19 pounds I added in this last year. No more cake for me for a while!)
And of course, the happiest moment was when I finally got to kiss Fernando. We met over ten years ago so this has been a long time coming!

So that's what I have for now. As you know, I don't usually post much personal stuff. I feel like my comics are a lot more interesting that I am. But this was such a special day, and y'all are so special to me, I just couldn't resist sharing a bit here.
Thank you so much for all your support. I might write about fictional people, but it's my hope that we all find joy and love in our real lives. I love romance, and here I got to step into my very own fairytale. I wish you all the same happiness and more.
Happy pride, y'all!
Comments
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Eduardo! I'm glad you like the pics. And welcome! So great to have you here! :D
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Passthecass! I'm also grateful it all went well. And I'm definitely enjoying life with my husband. ;)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you very much for your warm blessings, Bill. Glad to put a grin on your face. All these kind words here have got me grinning from ear-to-ear. Thank you for your kind words!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Theadora! Glad you think we look cute in those pics! I'm pretty shy about getting my picture taken, but I think I'm in good hands with our photographer Dennis. Thank you very much for your warm congratulations and letting me know you enjoyed seeing the pics!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Goodyear, for the congratulations and all your kind words and wishes! I'm glad these pictures gave you a smile. And I'm glad you liked the suits! We were wanting them to be special. Big hugs back!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Guy! And welcome! So good to have you here! (Somehow Patreon hid this comment from me before. Sorry for the delay in responding!)
Eduardo Guardarramas
These are incredible photos. Super Congrats!!!!
Passthecass
congratulations! so glad it all went well and now you get to get to enjoy just being married :D
william clapie
hum, what to say after all those happy posts? Well, Blessings on a long and happy marriage from the Church of Universal Ministries, and of course, Minister Bill. That was a great location and some wonderful pictures you shared. A great spot of happiness amongst all the COVID nightmares, you shared a great joy and I find myself grinning over the pictures. You two look great. Have a long and happy fellas, you have earned with your patience for three years. PS, the cake? Killer!
Theadora
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! Y'all are so CYUTE! Everything just looks wonderful, and it looks like a great time was had by all! Congratulations and absolutely ALL the best wishes! Thank you so much for sharing these pics and so much of your joy with us!
Goodyear
Wow, what a gorgeous spot to tie the knot! Congratulations Alex and Fernando, the wedding certainly looks like it was worth the wait. The happiness radiating off you both in those photos is so lovely to see; I'm smiling wide just looking at them! And the matching blue suits are very sharp, nice choice. May you remain just as happy and in love for the many, many years of your future together as you have been for the past decade plus!
Guy Montag
Beautiful, Alex. Congratulations 🥂to you both!!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Malik! I really appreciate you warm wishes! :D
Alex Woolfson
Wow, Adam. I don't even know what to say. What an incredibly sweet comment. I'll try my best to keep living up to that. You've put a big smile on my face. Thank you so much! :D
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Chase!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Murilo! Your good wishes are much appreciated!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Harold! It was a very happy day for us, and we were likewise very happy with that cake! :D
Malik M.L. Williams
🎉🥂 Kudos and congratulations to you, Alex!!! Here’s to many, many years of love and happiness!
Adam Irving
SO happy for you Alex! I know the art is not often about the artist but at some point, especially with such a dialogue with the audience (and patrons!) that have drawn us a little closer to you (and you to us), there are definitely many of us ready to share in your and Fernando's day of joy. Such great pictures already! I know, speaking for myself as a patron, I feel great giving because of who you are as both an artist and a person. I consume the art with glee but I think part of the experience Young Protectors and all you produce is that it's not quite just what's on the page. I also look forward to your commentary and speculation and enthusiasm, the engagement with others as we follow along in the story you're telling us. It's not just a one-directional thing, and I love having an artist take us along with you as the ideas you've long held and developed are finally manifested. So three cheers for a day of celebration. You and Fernando are my favorite super heroes. <3
Chase
Congratulations V(^0^)V
Murilo Moura Sarno
Congratulations!! May your life together be full of love and wonders!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Matthew! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Jim!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Stuart! I'm glad you enjoyed a peek into this very special day for me. I'll try to share some more pictures once Dennis sends them on.
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, William! You're super sweet! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, QueBijoux! We were incredibly happy on that day, and the glow continues a week later. Thank you for your kind words and warm wishes!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Benoit! It truly was a magical day! And this is the recipe for the cookie that I found on the Internet and sent to our baker: https://www.pinchmeimeating.com/ricciarelli/ The pictures of the cookie look spot on in that post!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Dawson! I'm glad you liked the pictures and I very much appreciate the good wishes!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Cyrus!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Niekchen! The theme of the wedding was "Our Adventure Begins" so we will do our best! :D
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Melly! And I'm so glad to give you some good news for the week! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Lee! I'm glad you enjoyed me sharing the pictures. Thank you so much for the good wishes!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Joe!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you once again, Klaus! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Olaf! I'm glad you liked the view and the cake! We truly were surrounded by beauty. :)
Alex Woolfson
Yay! I'm so glad to hear this made your night. You are very welcome! When I get more pictures from Dennis, I'll share some more! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Antonio! What a sweet wish!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Jennifer! And tearing up? I find that super touching. Thank you! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Andrew!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, James!
Alex Woolfson
It makes me happy to think I reminded you of your wedding. If you don't mind me asking, how many years ago and where did you have it?
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Kendall! Very glad you like the photos... and the cake! You're right that it wasn't the first time we kissed, but it definitely felt like the first time in the magic of the moment. ;) And that "floral curtain" was a suggestion from our florist, Emily Miller -- I also thought it was super cool! Hopefully, Fernando and I will be able to keep taking a few more dancing lessons. He needed some convincing at first, but in the end, we had lots of fun with instructor Emily Coles. (Yes, all of our vendors were apparently named Emily.) I'm going to try to convince him again to continue with me. Wish me luck there!
Matthew Farver
Congratulations!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Lucius! I'm touched that the photos made you tear up. Thank you for all the good wishes!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Jeremy! :D
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Teetee! I'm glad you like the suits. It took us a long time to find the right ones (suits don't always fit me so well) and we were really pleased with what we wound up with. Glad you like them, too!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Susan!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Jake! (And blue is Fernando's favorite color...)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Heather! Yes, we really did have a wonderful time. Thank you for the kind words and the best wishes!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, David! That's so cool to hear about you and your Dad. Working on a project for NASA! How awesome is that! And I'm glad you like the photos. When our photographer, Dennis, posted them on his FB page, he said "I love my clients who are so in love that I can’t even take it! I am so happy for them!!!!" He actually stayed with us in the condo at BBR for two days so he got the full dose. ;)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, John! I'm glad you liked the pictures!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Alessandro! I feel super grateful we were able to make that happen!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, GMark! I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful spot or day. :)
Jim
So very happy for you guys!
Stuart Morishige
Congratulations! This small glimpse into your wedding was really great to read. I'm glad that you had a perfect day. :-) Best wishes to you both!
Harry Blackerby
Congratulations to you both! You look so happy, and that cake looks amazing!
Congratulations! You guys are beautiful together!
QueBijoux
So happy that this beautiful day in your lives was finally realized. Everything looks lovely, and you both are so happy. Congratulations -- and thank you for sharing the pictures!
Benoit Comanne
I'm so thrilled for you guys 🙆♂️ Congratulations! 🎊 The venue looked splendid 🌄 and you both so smart 🫂 I wouldn't say no if you were to share that almond cake/cookies recipe btw 😉 sounds delicious 🤤 Happy life together!!
Thank you for sharing such happy times. I wish the two of you many years of living together in good health and peace.
Cyrus Attlin
Congratulations 🎉
Niekchen
You two are such a lovely couple. I wish you many happy years and lovely adventures together.
Melly
Congratulations to you both! Nice to start the week with some good news :)
Lee Rawitscher
Congratulations! Thank you so much for sharing such a personal experience with us. You make a beautiful couple, and I wish you lots of joy and love.
Congratulations! I’m so happy for you!
Klaus
Congratulations once again.
Omg the scenery is gorgeous! And that cake! Wow :D Super happy for you both :)
This made my night reading this. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing <3
All the best Alex! “May you love as long as you live and live as long as you wish!”
Jennifer Funke
Congratulations to the two of you. I legit am tearing up because im so happy for you.
Andrew Dolan
May your lives together only get better from this time forward. Congratulations.
James Wade
Many congratulations!
KendallPB
P.S. You're remind me of my wedding, lo these many years ago. Sigh. :-) Such a wonderful time!
KendallPB
Congratulations, Alex and Fernando, and OMG awesome photos! You make such a cute couple! Thank you for sharing this with us; I appreciate it. And the cake . . . that's amazing! And you look so life-like on top of it, hahaha; that came out perfect! The (real-life) picture of you two kissing (surely NOT for the first time) with the backdrop of floating roses is super cool, too! Keep up your swing dancing, or whatever dance that is, if you can. We know a couple who learned a swing (methinks) dance for their wedding and they still do it occasionally when they're somewhere with dancing that will play a request.
Lucius
Congratulations!!! Reading this made me tear up! 💗 I am an incredibly sentimental and romantic person so happy tales like this always tug at my heart strings. I’m so happy for you and wish you all the happiness in your lives together 😊😊😊
Jeremy P
😻🎉😭
Teetee78 (Tanya)
Congratulations! So happy for you two. Love the blue suits …so dashing.
Congratulations!!!
Jake McCoy
Congrats to the both you!! That particular color of blue is very beautiful!
Congratulations! It looks as if you guys and your guests had a wonderful time. I'm so glad you found such a beautiful place to frame your handsome and happy faces. Best wishes for your future!
Spotastic
I am so hapoy for you both! It looks like it was an amazing ceremony. I also love the cake as my dad was an amateur astronomer and I'm currently working on a project with NASA through my employer. These are some of the happiest photos I've seen from a wedding.
Beautiful! Congrats - and thanks for sharing.
Damien
YAY congratulations i am so glad you got to have the wedding you wanted ^^
GMarkC
Mazel Tov, y’all. Beautiful site for a beautiful wedding for a beautiful couple.
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Gary!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Marcwolf. I couldn't have asked for a happier day!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Julia! And I know -- that cake! :)
Alex Woolfson
Thank you very much, John! :)
Gary
Congratulations! This is wonderful news!
Marcwolf
Wishing you both the very best for your future together. Beautiful ceremony for a beautiful love
JujYFru1T
oh my gosh congrats!!! I cannot get over that cake hahaha. Happy life, you two!
Congratulations and many you have many years together!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you! And I'm so happy for you and your husband! 20 years! I wish you a lifetime of love, too!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Christopher!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Robert!
Alex Woolfson
Thank you so much, Link!
Archangel Winters
Congrats! I'm so happy for the both of you! My husband and I have been together for 20 years and we still haven't had our wedding yet. Here's to a lifetime of love+
Brormorc
Congratulations!!!! All of my best wishes for you both!
Robert E. Stutts
Congratulations and best wishes!
Congrats. I wish you a happy life together.
I wish you both a life time of happiness.
Alex Woolfson
Thank you, Jim! :)
Congratulations!!!! 🎊🎈🎉 🥂