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Some Bits' Bullshit - What's Love? [NSFW]
🕑 Added 2021-11-10 14:00:11 +0000 UTCOkay, you like the serious stuff that I fall into sometimes. So, I'm giving myself ONE a month. In all honesty, this one feels a lot more ramble-y than usual, but whatever; It's kind of a complex topic, you know?
The general question I'm trying to figure out is "Is it right to tell someone who loves you that they deserve better?" or "you make them happy if they love you, so even if you don't love them, is it right to deny that happiness and claim it is for their sake?"
So I wander off into the forest of thoughts on that one for a while and take you with me. Then I get off once I realize I'm fully lost. It's fun!
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Comments
Bits
Absolutely! I agree with you. And I guess, the answer I come to is, intimacy can be found in smaller doses, its just important to temper the... excitement of intimacy with realistic expectations. And like... Im *horrible* with realistic expectations sometimes, so, Ive felt that pain of it just crumbling and you cant stop it. It sucks. Its not the end of the world though....
Que (formerly known as tbd545)
Yeah, settle might not be the best word. I meant that I understand trying to find some intimacy wherever you can, instead of waiting for the one person that will reciprocate all your love. But that requires one to eat up their expectations and desires and be extremely honest with yourself.
Bits
Absolutely. I think.... That's the part I have a hard time explaining, cause I'm not sure if "settling" is the right word for it... Ugh, I need to hit this topic sober hahahaha
Que (formerly known as tbd545)
Yay! I love me some Bits' Bullshit ^_^ . I can understand someone wanting to settle with whatever they have, shit is hard :( . It's good to acknowledge (like you did) that there is also love between platonic and romantic love, but that requires a mature and honest relationship/friendship that is hard when both parties are not on the same page.
Daniel Grigg
With topics like these, just take your time to speak your mind, it’s called a ramble not a quickie You sure do love a full circle then
Bits
I would love to hear it sometime. I think its a very personal thing too. Ugh... I need to hit this topic with a better outline of what Im trying to say hahah. And it kind of goes together. I love going at it like a whore so... Full circle hahaha
Daniel Grigg
That was a good discussion about love, got my thoughts on it aswell. From love to going at it like a whore, amusing
