HammyWHamster
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What Happened?
🕑 Added 2019-09-30 19:53:28 +0000 UTCSo, I just went through one of the worst things to ever happen to me, my partners permanent residency application got declined after trying very hard on it for 2 years.
We had to rush to organize and get the money together for flight tickets and a place to stay as well as get back on top of life and figure out what even was the plan going forward, we had no clue when we could ever see each other again let alone how to do it.
Ended up balling up into a cocoon of depression and over eating junk food, I ended up putting on quite a bit of weight. it's now, what, 2 months later, I think? it's all just a depressing blur it's hard to quantify time.
Literally 2 days after they had to leave, I had several job offers from multiple animation studios which normally would be amazing but were hell to deal with in that mental state. I never got the time to recover and mentally process what was happening.
Now though, we have a solid plan to reunite and move forward with life, it's been fucking hard and expensive but everything should be coming together properly this time.
Normally I'm a very upbeat optimistic person but this has been incredibly difficult to deal with, being separated from your partner suddenly not knowing if you'll ever be able to be together again let alone when just because of a letter from someone else not being written in the correct format, not even knowing until 2 years later and not even given a chance to correct it.
Now that I can function as a normal human being again somewhat, I return and am getting back on to the porning.
TL;DR: Had to deal with some incredibly difficult residency / immigration stuff that destroyed me for a while, but back now and onto the sexy sexy filth again.
OCTOBER IS FREE
Comments
SenGrisane
Oh crap. I'm sorry to hear. I know how easily all art mood is crushed by those sort of events.
