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Patreon, R&P Q&A #27: Week 51
🕑 Added 2019-12-13 22:00:02 +0000 UTC
Morning all,
Starting off, I want to give you my heartfelt appreciation. You've given me your money, and more importantly, you're attention. I want to tell you it's humbling to see others put their faith in me.
As such, I want to continue to give back, so I will be trying something new with you guys, a little bonus for all of you.
In the comments of this thread, Add questions, one-off scenarios, or other questions, similar to like how we used to do Call ins on the Rule Zero. I know I said I never would, but I will do a 'face the camera and talk' session for 30 minutes or so and hit up all the questions every week, along with supplementary reading and insight from the red pilled community.
So comment down below, and I'll ensure I read as many as I can. As the channel gets bigger, we will be able to read out more and more. Also, if you'd rather ask live, I'll have the link to the video. Once we get through the 'in advance' questions and scenarios I'll get to everyone live.
Don't forget!
Part II
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4sAftD18hmM
Comments
Ruben
Hi Rian: this is just s quick one i have been seen a married girl for a couple of times escalation was fine, i need to close the deal, now all of the sudden she told me that the next time that we see each other no physical contact will be allowed, since both are married (she does not know that I am getting a divorce), the easy answer here is next her I Guess, i have another plate which is more fun and also younger. But i want to ask you how will you play this out. STAY FROSTY and happy hodidays to all you MFuckersssss
What is a good overview or a mental model for dealing with fitness tests? Your answer to my question last week iterated to me that I’m not dealing with comfort tests correctly and am failing them. Looking at my own situation, my wife is uncomfortable with my getting in better shape and her gaining weight as that has come up several times in the past few weeks. I’m anticipating this will happen more in the near future related to fitness and finances. I’m planning on some changes to our financial arrangements in the future that will bring up this uncomfortable subject for my wife. I make considerably more money than her and she has massive student loan debt that she feels guilty about. My wife wants to essentially use my growing income to payoff the student loan debt as quickly as possible. This makes rational sense from an overall interest payment perspective, but with the state of the relationship right now I’m feeling used like a bottomless piggy bank for her prior poor financial decisions. My plan for the near future is to have it where if she wants to pay more on the student loans she will have to come up with that money from her paycheck. She will just have to accept that it will take 4-5 years to pay it off instead of me paying extra to pay it off in 2-3 years. I expect to get pushback on this and she will make the rational argument appealing to me that we should pay more to reduce overall interest paid. My stance is that it is her debt to worry about and if she wants to pay it off faster then figure out a way to make more money herself.
