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πππ GENTLE F4F ASMR x MINDFULNESS EXERCISE. LET ME HELP YOU COPE POST-ELECTION. AVAILABLE TO ALL SUBSCRIPTION TIERS πππ
This is a gentle ASMR that provides a guided soothing exercise. It was designed specifically in response to the American presidential election from earlier this week, although it's also built so you can go back to it again and again throughout the weeks and months ahead.
The audio starts with a nonjudgmental and loving embrace, followed by an invitation to a nurturing fantasy (as platonic or sexual / romantic as you want it to be), along with an exercise in building your Perfect Nurturer.
The Perfect Nurturer is someone you can call on again and again to talk to for advice. She lives inside you. She can look however you want, be whatever you want. She is loving. She is caring. She is validating. She is nonjudgmental. She encourages you to grow, but she accepts you for who you are today and who you were yesterday. She may be perfect, but she does not demand perfection from you. All she wants is for you to be OK. And she will do anything to make sure of that, whether offer a shoulder to cry on, or provide something else.
If you're familiar with the Perfect Nurturer or Compassionate Self, it's based on that therapeutic exercise and skill. I learned this skill when I was in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy from 2019 to 2024. However, I feel a lot of Perfect Nurturer / Compassionate Self practices avoid the erotic and queer elements found in nurturing care. They also dance around the erotics of indulgence, even though this compassionate, loving, nurturing presence is often an indulgent image. I wanted to provide a counter to that by welcoming you, dear listener, to eroticize my voice. And I want to invite you to make your Perfect Nurturer uniquely yours. She doesn't have to be a normal girl. She can be a monster woman, a mermaid, a dragon. And she can be as sexual or as platonic as you want her to be.
Because if that's the kind of nurturing you need right now, well, that's the aid I wish to provid
