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🕑 Added 2022-11-26 01:06:16 +0000 UTC ✋🏼❤️🔥🎯EROTIC PLAYDATE IDEA: "Making Her Yoni To Brain Connection." <= This Massively Increases Her Orgasmic Pleasure Potential 🎯❤️🔥✋🏼Nancy said, **"I've almost always just had men stick their fingers or penis right inside me, entirely skipping any of the outer areas of my genitals. Or they attack my clit fiercely, thinking it needs massive stimulation to MAKE me have an orgasm. When they go down on me it's straight for my clit. Not a single kiss on a thigh or anything. BAM. It's like the only two parts of my pussy they consider are my clit and vagina. And their clit work is hurried and lacks finesse or connection. Penetration is clearly their goal. They go from zero to 100 miles an hour and are done before I'm even warmed up."**
It's not your fault. Healthy men typically start off hornier and get aroused faster than their female partners. They think about foreplay and sex as two different parts of an intimate experience.
I want you to consider a reframe (a new way of thinking about sex):
SEX is "all the things," not just intercourse.
Sex means kissing, full body touch, words of adoration and sensual conversation, hands, mouths and toys on breasts, genitals and other erogenous zones as well as intercourse (penis in vagina) in many positions.
Not only that, but if you take your time getting to intercourse, a woman can get fully engorged and lubricated, which means she can have orgasms from penetration. And you two will be way sexier together over time when you give your turn on time to develop and grow. I'll tell you about some of my hot-as-fuck sexy dates soon.
OK, back to the Yoni Massage. There are twenty different ways the human body can experience orgasmic pleasure -- the penis-owner and the vulva-owner both can come 20 different ways.
But I like to focus on helping male/female couples have orgasms from intercourse for her. The majority of my fans are in heterosexual, monogamous relationships. And most women haven't yet learned how to orgasm over and over again while they are being penetrated. And if she's not coming from intercourse, how long is she going to want to keep doing it!?!
Soon I'll get into different types of penetration strokes and thrusts and positions here on Only Fans. Today I want to give you a very good type of "scheduled sex date," which I call an Erotic Playdate. When you schedule dates where you plan to learn a new sexual skill together, it keeps the new relationship energy high while incrementing your sexual mastery together. And what she needs to get aroused enough to orgasm from intercourse includes manual (hands) genital (inner and outer pussy) massage... otherwise known as Yoni Massage. Yoni is the Tantric sex word for her pussy.
One of the most fun Erotic Playdates lovers can have with a vulva (as opposed to a vagina, which is just the canal) is to touch all her parts while you name them. This connects the brain to the unique areas of her genital system, which increases the neural pathways to her brain.
The more she can feel what you're touching and visualize it in her head, the more she can access sensation that heightens arousal and orgasm.
*Mind/body connection from pussy to brain and back helps women FEEL MORE PLEASURE with the exact same touch.* When you know how all the different parts a woman's vulva like to be touched, you can deliver exquisite sensation to her unlike anything she's ever had before.
Note: Make sure you triple wash your hands with soap and hot water after trimming your fingernails and using an emory board to smooth the rough edged of your nails before ever touching her lady parts.
I did a Yoni (vulva) massage today for a girlfriend. She relaxed on pillows while I slowly awakened her belly, breasts, thighs and groin with massage before proceeding to engorge (bring vascular flow and puff up with an erection) her three erectile tissue structures: the clitoral, urethral and perineal spongey tissue.
I used a shea/coconut body butter for these outer areas. For the outer labia and inside the vagina I switched to refined avocado oil. I buy it by the half gallon at https://oilscenter.com/avocado-oil-refined. 😂
Then I enlivened the tissue of her mons Venus from her belly to her clitoral hood to the top of her labia. I got the tissue soft and jiggly before moving down.
Next I concentrated on engorging her outer labia. I used long slow strokes, petting her with (not against) the grain of her pubic hair from to to bottom. The vestibular bulbs or legs of the clitoris are under the skin of the outer labia. When you knead them they puff up. This is crucial for intercourse to be comfortable and not hurt when your loins press against hers.
As I pat, knead, squeeze and rub, I am intentionally touching the tissue of her body under her skin. I am not rubbing her skin, I'm bringing healthy flow to the meat under her skin.
I apply more oil -- always to my whole hands like I'm soaping them up -- and begin a few very slow, long strokes from the hood of her clitoris, over her clit head and down along her inner labia without going inside the vestibule or opening. I terminate at her fourchette and pause there to send sensual energy into her body with the tip of my finger. I repeat this a few times as I want to get a lot of oil on the inner lips so it's easy to slide softly over all that tissue.
Next I concentrate on beginning to give her a clitoral erection. I slide across the clit hood, playing it like a violin. Then I feel down into the hood to locate her clitoral shaft. This is her mini dick. I want to make it POP with a clit boner, but I am just awakening it right now. No hurry. This should feel languorous and relaxing. There's no pressure for her to perform, or respond in any way. She is here to receive pleasure.
Women have a hard time receiving. She will need practice. Encourage her.
As I've made my way from groin to mons to labia, to inner labia and outer vestibule and fourchette and then to clitoral hood, I tell her where I am the whole time.
**"Your pussy looks gorgeous and smells clean and fresh. It's so pretty.
Now I'm making your mons tissue loose and flowing. Look, it's jiggling like gelatin. That's good!
These are your outer labia. Your clit legs are under here. They are stating to puff up as I knead them.
I'm wiping my fingertip lightly across your clitoral hood. I can feel your clit shaft beginning to harden. Your body responds so beautifully."**
I verbally encourage her and describe how pretty she looks the whole time so she feels like everything is working well. Women need this encouragement.
Next I ask if it's ok to enter her vestibule. If she's ready, I do more of those clit hood to fourchette long downward strokes. Then I add up and down strokes just beginning to go inside the vestibule. I have barely touched her clit and I have not at all penetrated her vagina yet.
Now I start soft, light, fast strokes across her clit tip, down from the hood. She wants this direct stimulation now, but needs is light as a butterfly wing.
I rest my thumb or fingertip right on the outside of the opening to her vagina. I'm grounding her. You can feel a suction from the sphincter muscle. Tell her where you are touching and ask her to relax that muscle.
If she's ok with you sliding inside her, make sure your finger is dripping in oil. Very, very, very, very slowly tease the ring muscle that controls the opening to her vaginal canal.
Her vagina will suck you in. Stay around the entrance for longer than your instincts tell you. Play with that tissue. Stroke the meat below the skin inside her vagina.
Tell her how deep you go. Touch her G-Spot (its a whole area on the roof of her vagina). Touch each side of the inside of her vagina. Stroke the floor of her vagina.
You have been talking her through this entire Yoni Massage, telling her where you are touching and how you are touching. You are not trying to "make her come." There is no expectation and no pressure in this Erotic Playdate.
Over time you can graduate to two fingers inside her. And you can start awakening her G-Spot. If you don't have a significant amount of G-Spot pleasuring experience please refer to http://femaleliquidorgasm.com
There are some free reports on that page to begin to help you give her the most incredible, pussy-melting G-Spot joy.
Once you two feel like she's had enough stimulation -- which might be now because you are still learning and she's not used to this kind of touch -- slowly remove your finger(s).
Cup your two hans over her whole vulva. Rest them there with very gentle pressure for 30 seconds. Then take a soft, clean, dry towel and carefully wipe the lube off of her. Go wash your hands.
Then come back and hold her in your arms. Have to share what her experiences were like during this Yoni Massage. Then share with her your experiences.
This will bring you so close together.
I want you to schedule this Erotic Playdate with your partner. Or do this with a new lover asap. Report back to me how it went. I'll bet she asks for another session. And all this genital stimulation will result in orgasms from intercourse for her over time. So keep offering her unlimited Yoni Massages with no expectation that you want anything else from her.
You'll overall net way more intercourse from removing pressure for her to reciprocate.
Let me know your questions in the comments below. Share with my fans how this went for you.
Elbows Deep,
Susan
P.S. Yes, that is my vulva in these photos. My girlfriend is holding my clit hood up so you can see the clitoral glans popping out.
