I’m reposting this, appears the universe is testing if I’m r..
🕑 Added 2023-01-09 20:42:21 +0000 UTC
I’m reposting this, appears the universe is testing if I’m really going to block people or not. Answer: I’m.
PSA:
If you constantly message me with no tributes attached I will restrict your ability to message me.
There comes a point when it’s obvious that you’ve no intention to compensate me for my time and that every question you ask you have no intention to follow through with the services I offer. I’ve been around long enough to know that the way questions are asked are a sneaky way to get free erotic conversation.
If you find yourself restricted then send a tribute apologizing. I’ll think about allowing personal messaging again after that.
This is like ANY other service. You don’t get to freely text your therapist any day of the week that you want and gobble up their time. Nor your doctor, lawyer or anyone else who’s a professional. You make your appointment and you access their services at that time and you pay for it.
Please stop treating my inbox as a way to word garbage your thoughts without showing you care about me as a person who has limited time and energy.
Do better.
If you have any ounce of self reflection, you’ll actually do better instead of letting your ego take over.
This is communication to those doing it, that I don’t enjoy a constant barrage of useless information sent to me daily with no tribute attached. I’d waste my entire day on Twitter if I wanted to mind blow myself that way.
I very much enjoy interacting with those who realize that compensation for my time is a direct way to have my attention and that I feel valued and therefore give a mutually positive and enjoyable experience. I have very satisfying and close relationships with those who know this to be true and are confident that a monetary exchange does not devalue our relationship and very much ADDS to it for everyone.
It’s entirely acceptable to ask questions that are pertaining to things I offer that you’d like to purchase. The issue is when there is no true intent to follow through, no thanking me for the response and my time and asking questions almost daily with zero compensation. Over and over again and never following through. Stop it. It’s disgusting behavior.
