SunnySkye
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🕑 Added 2023-10-10 22:06:31 +0000 UTC
Blog Post: How to approach group play, Sunny and Skye's way π
We recently have had a few new friends on here asking about how to get started in group play. How to find a third, what boundaries should be set, goals etc. and I wanted to share our personal answer. The amazing thing about group play and open relationships is that there are so many different ways to explore them and as long as it is within the boundaries that you set as a couple and you are a being kind and ethical slut the world is yours. But here is how we approach group play β₯οΈ
How to find someone:
In our opinion the best way to find someone is to try and figure out with your partner what kind of person you would want to play with. For example, do you want them to be a friend or more casual (pros and cons to both) do you have a certain type of person you would both be into etc. Talk about who is your type. Tinder and bumble can be a fun way to just to see who you both are attracted to. Then talk about what type of experience youβre looking to have. Do you want an on going thing or a much more casual thing? We try to m33t anyone that we play with in the most natural way possible, like at concerts or festivals, but that isn't possible for everyone with busy schedules and that is where online sites and apps can be helpful. We have found that SDC or Kasidie are good swinger websites for finding others to play with, they require a membership and verification but have yielded amazing connections for a lot of our friends. Feeld is a progressive dating app depending on your area and can be used like Tinder or Bumble but is more sex positive and swinger friendly, and honestly as silly as it sounds, just start manifesting it more in your lives. Don't try to force things or get discouraged, unicorns after all are called that because they can be harder to find so be patient and kind to your partner. π
We know what kind of third we want, now what?
After you have talked about what you would be into I would talk about what is your goal of playing with so
