I have been asked a lot and wanted to give a thorough answer..
🕑 Added 2022-03-19 01:36:19 +0000 UTC
I have been asked a lot and wanted to give a thorough answer on here for you guys to reference. :) Also thanks so much for all the love. I enjoy getting questions, so never hesitate to ask.
Q: How did you two get into the lifestyle?
A: It started slow. We are from a very conservative area (the Bible Belt) in TN and had not explored our sexuality much. We started out watching some porn together. It was a little awkward at first because I think we were both too shy to tell each other our fantasies in fear of freaking the other one out. Ha.
We had a Tumblr and would often send each other Gifs while at work or just when sexting each other. When Tumblr took down NSFW stuff, we were really bummed. Hubby found Reddit and we initially hoped to use it like Tumblr. However, as you know, Reddit has a ton of content/subreddits to explore. I think that is when he realized the hotwife thing was really hot to him. I had never heard the term before and didn't know what it was. He introduced me to the idea and I immediately thought it was hot. We fantasized about it during sex for a while.
Then, we discussed taking it to the next level and posting on Reddit that we're looking for a bull. At first, it was white bulls only. I had never been with a black man before. I wasn't against it, just not something I'd ever done. But all the white bulls who were contacting us were just okay. Hubby is muscular, fit, handsome, and well hung. So, the bulls we were talking with weren't really anymore enticing to me than just my husband. In fact, most of the time I found him way hotter than the bulls who were reaching out. That's when we started exploring BBC, hotwife, and Bl4cked stuff. And oh my goodness, that got us both going! Something about seeing a large, well hung black man take a man's wife and please her right in front of him makes me instantly wet. Haha. Also I love seeing them take the most petite white girls. Watching them be stretched out is just next level hot to me.
We agreed to look for a BBC bull on Reddit. Most bulls were too far away. But that's when I met ShyGuyJay. He's an incredibly experienced, very respectable bull. He offered such a lovely introduction to the lifestyle for us. He always makes sure to check on hubby and include him, or at least offer to include him which I absolutely love. We had our first date and haven't looked back since.
If you are wondering how to get your wife into the lifestyle, bring it up slow. I think it's always a risk that she might think you have an ulterior motive. I know what worked for us and that was simply beginning to watch porn together and talk about things we found hot. If hubby had approached me early in the relationship asking me to be a hotwife and fuck BBCs in front of him, I would have been shocked hahah.
Please ask me any questions. I am still new and navigating things myself. Feel free to offer any advice too. :)
