Helloo friends 💕 long post warning!!
I would like to get on..
🕑 Added 2023-03-14 01:20:22 +0000 UTC
Helloo friends 💕 long post warning!!
I would like to get on here and talk about life and sex and the lifestyle more often. I want to share with you how getting into the LS unfolded for us. I know I emphasize trying to show you the 'real' lifestyle (i.e., going on dates as a hotwife, planning hookups, etc.). However, I've found it can certainly be hard to capture the raw interaction that happens before, after, and during encounters. You guys are so good at picking up authenticity in the content provided. To me, that is an integral part of what turns me on, watching the amateur stuff. So how did we go from a regular, humble, vanilla couple to now getting to actively live out some of our wildest fantasies?? Let me tell you!!
We're both from moderately conservative households, middle class families, that hold traditional values. Shortly after we started dating we found tumblr. We started sending explicit tumblr gifs to each other randomly throughout our days spent at work. This felt naughty and like it was spicing things up between us. I had never shared porn or pornographic images with a boyfriend before. That was fun but we wanted to push the envelope with each other. We started watching porn together in the bedroom. This really felt naughty.
We agreed to an understanding that one party would not judge or ridicule the other which led us to sharing some of our fantasies with each other. For me, this was the first time I was given a safe environment to explore what turns me on and keeps me going. I think despite having sex with other people in the past, neither of us had truly explored our sexuality with anybody else as much as we were doing during this time.
In natural fetish fashion, our fantasies grew and evolved into deeper, kinkier ideas lol. I should preface this by sharing some of what turned us on. I love rap3 fantasies, f0rced cumming, being submissive, sometimes dominant too 😈 Hubs on the other hand, he enjoys being dominated, told what to do, and seduced. I'm trying to remember the first time hubs showed me a hotwife video, but it's hard for me to remember exactly. I do remember that one of the first times I watched a hotwife video, it was filming a couple being tied up by a couple of men (BBC's I should add 😮💨😈) and they take advantage of the wife while making the husband watch. I remember we were initially kind of captivated, if you will, by the video and were just kind of sitting there staring at the television like we saw an alien spacecraft land in our yard. When I finally reached over to hubs, his cock was hard as a rock watching the video. Knowing he was as turned on as I was gave me the okay to delve head first into this kind of fantasy.
We finished the video, had some amazing sex and slowly this was becoming a recurring theme for us. Tumblr eventually banned all adult content (iykyk) and we no longer had an app where we could send each other gifs. As trivial as it sounds, I did really enjoy being able to send hubs things like that throughout the day. It allowed me to suggest ideas without ever having to word it in an awkward sentence lol. So I was very bummed when they banned the adult stuff. A few months later, hubs came home one day and said, 'I found us a new app we could use kind of like Tumblr!' It was Reddit. That's how we initially got on that platform. We would regularly fantasize about our wishes in the bedroom with each other. Several months, maybe a year into this, hubs approached me about my thoughts on potentially doing this in real life- as in meeting a bull in real life and playing out this stag/vixen idea we often fantasized about.
I was a little hesitant at first. I initially felt guilty about texting with other guys and flirting with them, but hubs was really supportive and seeing his face light up when he got to read my conversations with these potential bulls made it 1000% worth it! It still took me a couple months to truly feel comfortable doing this but I eventually became comfortable enough to kind of get into it and verbally tease hubs about how much I enjoyed the attention from another man. We talked about it one day and agreed we would use Reddit to seek a potential bull for a real date.
It didn't take long 🤭 but I started finding a few that were closer to me. Some really handsome and respectful men were contacting us. The respectful part is what sold me. I felt totally in control the whole time. Fellas, if you are trying to get into this with your girl, please take the extra attention to make sure your girl feels 100% in control. That, I think, is what helped me have the guts to go through with this the first time. I don't want to write you a book 🙈 but I'll end this with saying we found an amazing, experienced bull from Reddit who flew in to see us. The first experience truly was a make or break for me and thankfully it was an extremely positive experience and allowed me to have interest in pursuing more dates like that first one. I'll update you next on how I converted to the QoS fetish. Stay tuned 😏
