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SEX TALK WITH DANA: First of all thank you for all the very ..
🕑 Added 2021-03-04 06:09:19 +0000 UTC SEX TALK WITH DANA: First of all thank you for all the very interesting questions. You guys really gave me some good ones. I decided to answer the one I received twice, which was: ARE YOU ABLE TO ACHIEVE AN ORGASM WITH JUST PENETRATION OR DO YOU NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TOO? This is really a fantastic question, because even women are perplexed by our bodies in this way. If you think about it, it's very strange (and wonderful) that we have these different erogenous zones and can have orgasms from a couple different locations, lol. The clitoral orgasm is definitely the most common, and if you think about it, it makes sense because it's easy access. It's on the outside of the body and easy to reach. It's the area girls first discover as we are coming of age. Obviously, most people masturbate a while (sometimes years) before we become sexually active, and girls are no different, we learn how to get ourselves off early on usually in the shower using the detachable sprayer. In my teeen years I spent soooo much time in the shower, lol. For some reason that warm water jetting out just hit the spot better than anything else. So, then the time comes when you get a boyfriend and you start having sex, and it's like...you mean this is what's supposed to be so great??? And this is a very common feeling among girls at that age, because we were under the belief that when he "put it in" and moved back and forth we were going to suddenly see stars and it was going to be just like the shower sprayer orgasms except way better, but nope that doesn't happen for the majority of the girls. So, then I started figuring out that I needed to get my boyfriend in the same area as my shower sprayer, lol!! I was doing little sexual experiments to see what worked for me and what didn't. My first boyfriend had a 10" penis, and I had no idea it was anything special, because I had nothing to compare it to. I only knew his size, because one day we measured it, but anyway at the time he had no clue how to use it, and he would cum after about 3-5 minutes of sex, so I never had any time during sex to make much happen for myself. But we had A LOT of sex that year we dated!! Once we skipped school together and hung out at his house and had sex 11 times that day, so we were definitely trying to learn and get some sexual experience, but still I was only having orgasms when I would masturbate alone. It was really frustrating, because I couldn't figure out how to merge the two. No one ever said, ''hey kid you've gotta rub your clit while you're having sex", duh!! Access to porn wasn't readily available then. You really had to figure out a lot on your own or through talking to older people that were cool enough to tell you things. Sometimes older people tell you sexual things that seem shocking at the time, like you're just not ready for all that yet. So, back to the original point -- girls start out with clitoral orgasms by far the most, and as we grow and learn about sex we sometimes get lucky and start having vaginal orgasms, and when you first have one you are on cloud 9. It feels different, more intense. It's like a clitoral orgasm that's deep inside, and to have one all the planets have to align. I once dated a guy for several years and the shape of his cock was ideal for vaginal orgasms, and I had them regularly. In order for it to happen I always had to be on top of him, and instead of moving up and down on him in a vertical motion, I had to slide back and forth or even better if he controlled my hips and pushed me back and forth. So, it is possible to have vaginal orgasms from penetration alone, and it's a great thing when it happens, but it's not always guaranteed, and for me I have to be in the right position with the right person. My mind has to be clear and my body very relaxed. That's why I say the planets have to align (at least for me). Otherwise, I love to use a small vibrator during sex. It's a magical addition, and guaranteed orgasms. BTW, no guy should ever be offended by this. If you're with a woman and she wants to bring some enhancement toys to bed, by all means encourage that, because it just means she's very comfortable with you, and she's planning on having a-real-good-time, and you are the beneficiary. It does NOT mean that you can't satisfy her, trust me. That thought shouldn't even cross your mind. If I were with a guy and he said he was offended by me using toys during sex, I would definitely say BYE! This would be a huge problem for me, because I like all the pleasure I can get, I'm greedy, and I think my partner should be all for it if it means I'm really enjoying myself. A butt plug and/or vibrator are great additions to sex and they don't get in the way. I think of them as little enhancements, and they actually take some of the work/pressure off of the guy. For me a vibrator works much better and more efficiently than my hand or my partner's hand. Next question...
